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While watching Unscrewed last night, they had two "cam girls" as guests in a competition. They do this about three times a week, and generally it's funny, and involves female frontal nudity...
What got me thinking was that I was trying to decide whether these girls were pathetic, or very, very smart.
On one hand, they are, for all intents and purposes, prostitutes. They whore themselves out on Internet web cams for money. Many take "requests" via voice or text chat, and tend to do some crazy things (not that I would know, I have better things to do with my time).
On the other hand, some make a lot of money. One guest mentioned that she had just rented a private jet. So how stupid can you be if all you have to do is show your nakedness and basically rake in the cash? In that case, the audience are the pathetic ones.
Maybe it's not that big of a stretch. After all, to become a cam whore, all you have to do is give up your dignity, self respect and privacy. Many people will give up the first two without any motivation, and since we have very little privacy these days, the third isn't a big deal either. Perhaps all these cam girls do is just take it a bit farther then the average person would?
So I'm split on what to think of all this. I wonder if I should just blame the audience, because after all, if they didn't want to see it, then these sites wouldn't exist.
Still hard to get over how much money some of this stuff rakes in though. Now that I think about it, aaroncam.com seems to be free....Hmmm....
| I have a fetish for promiscuous females. I like the women who are more sexual, don't care as much about norms, have fetishes and whatnot. When i first found webcams I was looking for more of a chat room meet locals type deal before chat roulette existed. I don't like chat roulette, its too random and mostly naked men. I thought I had found a gold mine since in my humble opinion every web cam "model" was a whore. Cha Ching! I didn't mind tipping something but was never spending more than $100...... a year! At first I did not understand the motivation of either the trolls or the white knights. I was not trying to meet models, I don't drive far in my home state for women. Gas is not cheap! :P Let alone flying to some exotic location to have sex. Nor was I tempted to ruin the mood or hurt feelings. After a while I could see how a single model having a bad day could turn a white knight or normal guy into a troll. I started thinking the higher than normal sexism was really just sour grapes or broken hearts from men who at one time where probably ass kissers. When I first saw how much some ppl spent on these sites I was shocked. I chalked that up to either wealthy types showing off or people way out of the models range (very old and/or very ugly). Now I also factor in men on average falling behind women socially due to various factors. I found to my dismay 97.6% of web cam "models" don't consider themselves sluts. That killed cams for me and I moved on. IMO web cam whores are more akin to strippers than prostitutes and at first thought it was safer and made more sense. After all you can block locations with web cam sites but you cannot stop a guy you know from walking into a club when dancing. I still think it's safer in most aspects except for reputation. The exception is fame. The Internet is full of screen recordings that get traded, swapped, shared and forwarded to other men and the uploads will last our lifetimes at least. Face recognition software is getting so effective that soon (few years) all humans whose face is known will not have anonymity unless they have zero net footprint and that is HARD. Even if you don't have a facebook page if someone you do know does chances are eventually they will upload a picture of you. I'm not going to go into detail but these days men are way behind women socially. Now that the Internet lets women be so social there really is no balance. When Ashley Madison got hacked and the world made a big deal I thought.. WTF? So 10 to 30 million people signed up for that site, big woop. Facebook has 2 billion active members, costs nothing and gets women all the attention they want if not more than desired. If married folks are going to cheat they can easily use any social network to do so. Technology better suits females in most countries and unless we have another big war this trend will continue until men adapt. The baby boomers thought they knew everything and struck down the decency laws that existed at the time without replacing them. Usually laws are amended and it's rare (in my country anyway) to see laws totally removed. Now its rare for men in a divorce to have any confidence in gaining custody. Adultery is no big deal and even crack whores can get custody without urine analysis tests. There are always exceptions but for the most part men are disadvantaged in divorce and women are not prone to monogamy. I like to point out that Micheal Jordan of the Chicago Bulls got divorced. Good luck trying to have more swagger than #23. Yet his wife walked away. Soon marriage will be dead and outdated just like riding a horse or getting water from a well. Men will eventually adapt to changes in marriage law, technology and awareness of female libido. Then courting, commitment & relationships will change forever. For some humans this will be awful and for some it will be awesome. Final thought is pay attention to the humans that are telling women what to do, how to do it, what to think and say and believe. Those are the humans that are successfully keeping women from enjoying free thought and they are called Feminists. You modern women are not allowed to have your own opinion on some topics. The number of topics increases (not decreases) with time. You either tow the line and agree with everything they say or face the wrath the Feminists will use to keep you in place. Women, just think back to your own personal experience with humans. what was the worst and best that comes to mind? Odds are the meanest, cruelest human you ever encountered in short term AND long term was a fellow woman/female/girl and the most kind (short term) was a man or the woman (long term) who is your best friend today. Statistically women are more messed up to other women than men are to other men. | ||
| Sorry bro. Sounds like you're just peeved that you're stuck in some dead end job making shit pay working for someone else helping them get rich off your blood, sweat, and tears. Wouldn't that make you the whore and prostitute according to your definition? You whore yourself out to your employer for your meager income. You are ignorant and don't understand the whole appeal of the industry if you can't see that it's pretty much the same as any other form of entertainment whoever the fuck chooses to partake in. The same shit could be said about countless other activities we choose to spend our time and money on, avenues for lonely people with needs requiring fulfillment. Isn't that basically all we do in life, go about making decisions and doing shit because we have some emptiness inside that needs filling? So how about you do something about improving your station in life instead of spewing your ignorant, judgmental, baseless, and pointless opinions online. You're welcome for the advice, free of charge. | ||
| Model here! I do webcam part time but im not going to defend it. It ha become a degrading business and yes I do it but im in the background id say.. the outsider I dont get involved in the dark side of it. Any girl who tries to justify being in the sex industry or thinks there is nothing wrong with it has no conscious and is very dense. Most girls if not all use webcam as a way to promote themselves as prostitutes..why because they can get away with it.There is no way to get in trouble with the law if your getting paid through mfc or other sites..through tokens.. its genious way to hide whats really going on so its pretty sick. If they dont sell sex like me they probably are just pretty dumb and cant do anything else. I may be in the wrong place but im not dumb as all members assume models are..there are a few smart ones out there. The only smart cam models I have ever seen are the mot devious evil ones but then again thats not really smart so... I dont relate to anyone on MYFREECAMS which is where I cam.Unfortunately for me being a legit cam model limits me from income because I dont sell pussy or play games with customers.All the customers are directed to to top which is fine for me because the more publicity you have on a site like that the more chances of haivng the wrong kind of human being obsessed with you with ill intentions. Im ok being an outsider since all I do is, sell porn videos"tastfully and sensual porn videos" and earn what i make on there honestly. I dont do any kind of porn on cam I think that is nasty and should be only in videos people pay to see. I think camming is pathetic in many levels actually and the people who run them sites I have no respect for but they are not stupid by all means.. but it happens to work for me in my situation right now. Im not really ok with the nature of what im doing and i think girls who do this are pathetic but i dont sell my soul like others do. I just cam for some tips no other reason, not for attention because i dont want that kind of attention,I dont fraunt myself all over the internet with twitter I dont skype and give out my number because im not a whore and Im not selling pussy. .. dont get tips for sex or meeting people or con men into thinking that .. Realistically a few extra bucks to help me pay bills when the other jobs I have dont cover it is why I cam so I make the best of it. People can judge me I totally understand that the way the industry had to become but im not a whore or a prostitute and honestly any woman who can do that is really messed up in the head. no amount of money would make me do such sickening things. Id rather make 50 dollars a day on cam and have a real life than 5,000 and be a souless whore. No amount of money is worth ruining yourself. So this industry is all about that and I dont fit in. Somehow I am pretty good at being sexy and playing the part having a dance background but it doesnt define me and id rather be using my talent elsewhere in a classy way but the wrong people have turned sex into a really dark and nasty thing so I dont fit here. It is indeed easy money anybody can do it and girls get paid for just showing themselves I do...I look at it this way... Im in my own room safe and in control of when I do it. I am basically advertsing myself for members to buy my videos and all I have to do is look sexy in front of a computer. I dont see anyone touch anyone or do anything im not comfortable with.. Its just me! I perform for myself its theraputic. When Im not working my real jobs I can come home relax and make some extra money. Its like acting but more real because Im not lying or being someone I would never be Im just a sexy fantasy woman. There are annonymous people in there watching me but it doesnt matter I dont know them and they dont know me. Its just entertainment. Thats how I see it because thats all it is to me. Im just a fantasy and I make that clear. I dont try to be fake and pretend like Im going to date these men. I just give them a sexy show and they tip me for my attention. Thats what they want is attention. So nothing is personal and Im not dumbing down to the level most girls do ..it may not be anything Im proud of or so happy with but It doesnt bring me down either I just look at it as work from my own home. Myfreecams is a sleeze site to work for and I dont like them but I mind my own and dont associate myself with any of it. Its just me in my room, the computer and tips the rest of the site is useless to me... its an illusion and much of it is fake. MY OPINION..The sex industry didnt have to be this way but the way people run it is wrong and really disgusting If it could be classy and tastful and just strickly sexy entertainment. . Because of what others have made of it makes I basically fall into the same category. Webcamming has become a plateform for prostitutes. I dont like them but as long as im camming I will be labelled as one of them. | ||
| interesting topic, and i found myself asking many of these questions as well. some cam girls do this as their jobs, some are forced into it because the illegal sex trade is so easy these days (russia, eastern european countires, phili[ines, etc.), other girls have a day job, are moms, and feel likely neglected and want some excitement in their lives to be recognized, adored, loved...and if u can make money with the poor suckers then why not. And likely there are also sex addicts that need the attention to get off and to show how good looking they are. some girls likely have no friends and crave the attention, u can see some of the girls do the camming in the evenings in their bed room at their parents' house and the parents hve no clue - society with the advance of electronics and the internet has moved away from personal contact and has made it easy to "connect" virtually for love, abuse, interests, etc. i watch cam girls once in a while, i dont tip because i cant afford it, but i just watch and wonder about the girls' stories and why they do it, and if they really enjoy it. many times it is all a show they put on anyway, how excited they get, etc...other times some shows are really entertaining and there are cool girls camming that have a cool ead on their soulders and they just cam because they want to share......what ever that means psychologically i am not sure. anyway this could be a topic to write about and discuss for another 10 years.....its good to have opinions but let the girls do what they do, dont harass them, and nobody puts a gun to your head to watch them or pay them...it is the viewrs decision, simple as that | ||
| Everyone saying that webcam girls feed off of lonely guys are pretty much insulting men by insinuating that they have no willpower whatsoever. Do you also think that bars and liquor stores are the cause of alcoholics? That restaurants and grocery stores are taking advantage of obese people by selling food? Everyone is an individual. A lot of things are okay in moderation, but it is up to the individual to practice self-control, and not the person selling the commodity. | ||
| Web Cam industry is a very parasitic business. The girls on cam prey on lonely desperate, naive guys looking for attention. I think it's safe to say 80-90% of the guys spending money on cam girls are painfully lonely guys in the real world. It has absolutely nothing to do with getting off since all these users could just go on PornHub and watch porn for free and jerk off. That won't fill their void of feeling lonely,though. They want to feel a connection with a female because they lack that in real life so they all run to Cam sites and literally pay for it. It's actually very sad when you think about it. | ||
| Fundamentally speaking by definition these nude cam women who masturbates on camera or exploit there bodies sexually online in exchange for money/internet pts or w/e are prostitutes. I dont care about any other factors that come into effect. Prostitution is the oldest profession to date and will evolve and continue to the end of time, whether it can be considered a modest earning will depend on the mindset of the individual. Its cheap and easy and preys on weaknesses on both parties. I dont engage in it at all and never will. Also I dont care about the people that do. As long these cam whores are happy and there clients are happy I dont see a problem. My last point is stop fucking suger coating it... in my eyes its all the same degrading shit. promoting it and engaging in it ect ect. | ||
| I've been dating this girl for 5 years and a little over year ago I let her start webcamming from my apartment. I really enjoyed watching her be treated and act like a slut playing the part. She has fucked some of her customers. She loves getting cock so off and I love watching her do her job unfortunately I couldn't trust her as far as I could throw her many many times I've caught her giving out her information just very dangerous. But the rewards are sweet so these girls are always going to be tempted. She told me she's going out on a date this week with one of our customers we've been taking a break I wouldn't let her move in with me so is definitely a lot of fun sucks a mean cock and fuck some mean pussy nice and tight. But I just like to use her I could never have a cam girlfriend for real. | ||
| Cam modeling and just showing your body is an easy way to make money $$$ because porn sells; everyone knows it. However, I can prove that all you cam-girls are setting yourself up to be quite the equivocator or do you even know the consequences of your life itself? As testimony of my life, I used to watch you Cam-Girls. I will have to say it was a waste of my life! In reality, people that watch porn set themselves to have no-social lives to meet anyone for a future love partner and waste years of that outcome. Some people have jobs or don't have jobs and they just watch Cam-Girls; that's all they do. I've seen people in 20s to 70s addicted and that's really sad. Models that have been doing this Web-Cam modeling for simply 5-10 years on MFC are simply throwing their lives away and decency! With my experience of my own perspectives, its wise for you to something else. Why? Because NO MAN will want to date you because all of you models strip naked and flash your assets! Majority of men only want ONLY YOU! If you have a boyfriend that allows you to strip naked on cam, then he is a jerk for using you as some tool for safe-sex as some custody possession. Cam-Models degrade themselves as a woman by simply not giving a care to the world of men that have an empty of soul and only want to only talk with a woman. You are the solution only by fantasy to fulfill psychologically of our brains and in reality you are not! Its so easy to talk to a cyber-girl by internet, but really how can any man have confidence to even talk to a real girl face-to-face? Its not so easy to talk to any real-girl in public without practice. I simply NEVER gained anything of confidence talking to Cam-Girls because the subject matter is only sex-talk to arouse men to tip. I simply got better by getting social with my man-peers as a group. Calling anyone I know to just hang out as friends on the weekends. From there I'm meeting girls in real public places. The one thing that really bugs me is that you models act so innocent. Its like you have split-personalities? Its like you know and simply don't care about people being addicted, but it comes to point that you don't have a clue to what's out in the world or have common sense of what your making yourself as a woman. I really question Cam-Girls a lot, but I never will have respect for what they are part of with men with no social lives! You say its their problem, but really majority of your followers are addicted when I go back to see people on my twitter seeing people 3-4 years ago that its addiction! Don't you have any respect for humanity! I hate your industry so much on what it did for me, but stop isolating yourselves! I really have sympathy for all girls that Cam-Model! So why should I go back and live in your fantasy world and waste my life again!? Its all lies with the DEVIL HIMSELF! For crying out loud, you women deserve some man! Don't live a life on teasing men, because that's what you set yourself to be. Women are so much better than that! Trust me girls, you will be so much happy using your talent in the bedroom with only one man. Have some decency for your future life! | ||
| I am a camgirl and I chose to do this along side my full time job in order to make some extra money. I'm also a very sexual person and it provided me with an outlet that didn't involve physical contact with other people. My boyfriend put it to me like this: Anyone who works for someone else is selling themselves. He fully supports what I do and has been featured in my shows. If the thought of showing some skin to help people get their rocks of is appalling to you, don't do it. Not everyone has the same sexual nature and needs. Please don't judge others for how they get their kicks (and cash) | ||
| I am surprised how long this discussion has been going on. It seems obvious that the scene is full of sad, lonely men, accompanied by lonely attention whore women. All about companionship it seems, unfortunately not for just those paying. There are obviously different ways of making money without selling out your body, so that can't be it. The cam girls who have commented are very serious about the relationships they have with customers, it is a bit disturbing. It can't possibly leave room for a real relationship because it is a replacement. And they go on to say that any boyfriend they make must deal with it, it is just so difficult to understand. I can put myself in a mans position and I truly couldn't see a good man wanting to have anything to do with someone who can't be exclusive enough to not flash their goods to hungry men on the internet. I have to put the only reasoning I can to it, the women are lacking in self respect and appreciation for themselves as a human being, it must be hard to think of yourself as something more than a hot body when only people on the internet who don't truly know you feel this way. I fully understand these women are generally stupid, despite that they may be perusing a degree, because that does not make you smart by any means. I just, some how, end up feeling bad for them. Regret may fill their lives later (especially if they are career bound) and it is a depressing thought. But we all need titties and vagina so you work it girls, oh I mean tell me about yourself, because that's what this is all about. | ||
| I won't be checking back for replies, comments etc... and maybe this has already been said before... The generalization of the models as cam girls is ridiculous, each having their own reason for making the choice for this type of work. True that many of them work in the industry because the earnings can be lucrative (CAN BE!) So many more find themselves working in this industry merely to survive (and really hate it) because of the limited opportunities in their countries and the alternative choices they would be faced with. IF you are going to use the trading body for money argument then EVERYONE who has a job is a whore (trading their body and time for money) These girls aren't having sex in the traditional sense and see cam modeling as a safer alternative to the more dangerous trading their bodies on the street in an uncontrolled environment. For many the need to survive brings them into the game, making easy money, the lack of trust towards others and (occasionally) the loss of identity keeps many of them in the game. Many more, leave the game when they have achieved their goals, met someone they can trust or simply can't live with the shame they feel inside... Bottom line is DON'T JUDGE even if you have walked a mile in another persons shoes because more often than not they are on a different journey than you are! | ||
| I'm a webcam girl and I chose this line of work because I used to be a jail bird and after I lost my last job it was almost impossible for me to get hired anywhere. Since that time I've stayed out of trouble but when my unemployment ran out I had to figure something out and quick. I seriously never imagined me, a fat chick with a somewhat cute face could make any money on cam but I was wrong. On a slow shift I can make $60 and on a normal shift $200+ and on a good shift I've made up to $600. The downside for me is never knowing what I'm going to make. I've been through a lot in life So I can only be thankful. Before this job I was stuck in an abusive relationship and literally was afraid because I didn't have no place else to go. As a cam girl im able to pay my bills and keep food in my fridge. Some may frown upon us but I know I'm not causing any harm to anyone. I will say with a job like this you need a thick skin. Cyber bullying can get so bad on somedays that a camgirl will log off chat and cry her eyes out. We go cyber bullies 'trolls'. That's probably the only downside in my opinion. | ||
| I laugh at the jokes below. Anyone notice how women have an easier time getting through school than men? They have more government assistance, More scholarships. And when times get "rough" they can become strippers and cam girls have pay their entire way through college. While men are stuck working the most minimal wage garbage around until they can finish college. That's if they even can! | ||
| I recently started using a web cam site, by accident really from a pop-up and then a link, while looking for some, ahem, "entertainment" for the evening. I can't believe how involved I got with one model who reminded me of a previous gf, who I'm still in love with. It started when I saw her and I had to look twice to make sure it wasn't my ex. However the model was from SA and on closer inspection it wasn't! I started chatting with her, in the back of my mind hoping she would ignore all the other guys and fall in love with me. I went private for about 30 mins which cost about $90, but I wasn't there 4 that, but to get to know her. Over the course of a month we began chatting every day, playful, fun conversations, emailing morning and night. Graduating to talking about meeting and having a relationship and our personal lives that the girls aren't supposed to discuss. She never asked me to do private again or for gifts and tips, but I would give them anyway. My usual was $10s or $20s while we were chatting totalling approx $30 or 40 a day/night, throwing in the odd $50 if I had to apologise for jealousy on my part, normally storming out of her chat room. She would immediately email me apologising, telling me she missed me and asking why I was like that, and that she had to multitask with the others when at work cos it was her job. She even lost customers who were waiting for her show cos I hadn't replied to her "be rite bak" with an "ok", saying she didn't mind cos she would prefer to talk to me anyway. Right from the beginning I was looking for her slipping up with her affection, the nagging voice in my head, that she would possibly do anything to keep the cash rolling in, but as with all men, I overlooked the signs (subtle though they were). We men have the ability to justify the unlikely when it comes to women. ie that she felt the same way about me. I even brought this up in a disagreement saying how could I be sure that you are not just after my money and she said "you know I'm not like that, I never ask you for anything!" She didn't have to, if you look at her total gifts section, 75% are from me. Incidentally, this girl got about $700 from me and she wasn't even one of the big earners, those girls' gift sections are incredible, I even found myself laughing at the guys thinking to myself, "what are you doing giving $500 gifts..you idiots?" Yes I know, the irony is not lost on me! Anyway, one morning b4 I went to work, she sent an email saying she couldnt wait to chat to me and she was missing me so much..so I went on line to chat and brought up that Id been on her website bio where she had an exchange with some guy about not calling her how she missed him...I said "the guy was 54!!..he could be your dad!"...Well with that said "WTF has it got to do with u..looks like your time is up" "Don't let the door hit u on the way out"; she became the polar opposite of her previous persona becoming snide and mocking, whereas previously she had never reacted, not once and had been as sweet with me as you could possibly imagine. I was In shock, feeling tears welling up inside me, so I said bye and logged out. My inbox went and she had said " F*** u, u p***y, I have been playing u all along..don't eva talk bout my people". I went back to her chatroom, she said I'm not single, I have a boyfriend (the 54 year old!)..Don't take offence..this is my job. I told her she was good at it!..that I had really liked her and she had hurt me and logged out. She then sent me a final email "Im really sorry 2 hav broken u". I don't know why she didn't just bite her tongue and carry on as before, but I was lucky..I would have done nearly anything for her and it was 2 wks from Christmas, so that saved the $500 present I had planned for her and flights, hotels more presents and continued gifts, tips while chatting. The moral of this story is....? Anyway, I got what I deserved for being a gullible idiot! I tell you she was Oscar winning standard but the signs were there. | ||
| it makes me laugh how everyone thinks webcam girls no matter where they are, r poor. Girls who never got much attention said they earned $200 a month but every week at least once they would turn up with new clothes or jewellry, go oiut clubbing etc However I live in UK and even though they say they earn a fraction what i do, i get new clothes maybe at xmas or a wedding. Clubbing etc .. yeah like i can afford that. But ofcourse they are harder up than me, yeah right! | ||
| I've had long thoughts about a deep feeling that relates to this argument and I think I've come to a simple explanation of why people can become very frustrated with the though of any kind of selling sex. Please take the time to read this as I think my mind has been toying with this thought for years and I've finally begun to understand it. I mean no bad intentions towards anyone, I have a great respect and love for all people and propose this as a problem specifically with society as a whole and that alone. I think as society has progressively (for very good reasons) moved forward to embrace women's movements and equality it has required the male to give up their roll as a provider and leader, as women can very well take care of themselves on their own in a lot of places today. When the male gender role was surrendered their value decreased as thei identity was sacrificed and they became "just people". I believe sometimes (as a male) that a male has 0 value as a person until they prove themselves, mainly through success, creative achievement, or perhaps great charisma. Woman have a natural extremely high value purely based on their gender regardless if they have proved themselves in life today. Taking up 50% of the population roughly with a portion of males included that have some worth to society you are left with a minority humans being male that are considered completely unvalued in the eyes of society. This very closely relates to the alpha male pack where the main Male has value and the women have value and the lesser males have little purpose except to try to survive. The male's role is as a provider and women's roll as an object of desire are both established by the biological human fact that men can impregnate multiple people where as women have to carefully choose due to risk and time their mate for the best chance of survival. The male has to prove their worth and provide to be choosen and the female has to give in and allow her body to grow the genetics of a prime candidate. Some male's have no way to earn affection, companionship, or a sense of any value unless they find a very strong place in the world and it can feel like a very tight race at times. In time perhaps everyone will meet someone but by the end our youth will all be gone. The females in a pack setting strive for the highest genetic standards hence need to appear exclusive to only the best. I see this now as a vestige that interfere with progression. The point I am making is that males have sacrificed a lot of their animilastic agenda and identity in the name of progression yet women have equality and still hold on to this basic instinct exclusive pedestal that was their end of the gender game and the roll they played before equality and society as a whole tried to make things better for both genders. What do I purpose change? I don't see this as a fault of men or women but as a fault of society. I now believe that using gender as a pedestal of superiority- feelign entitled to charge for interaction with you purely based on your gender chromosomes-or taking advantage of men who are almost statistically destined to fall into a life where they have no value or meaning to society, anything along these lines is an ignorance. I think people should treat each other like people for who they are and not depend on their false gender value to exploit those who feeling meaningless and disenfranchesized from the world. In the modern progressive (1rst world at least) charging for your gender or believing you are worth that simply because of your gender should be considered taboo on an equal level to me saying others of a different race are beneath me or that women should not be allowed to handle certain jobs then men can. The sex industry and using your body or gender as an entitelement over others I see now is nothing more then an ignorance. This ignorance will exist until all genders and all races are considered intrinsically equal value in all regards. The question is to society as a whole, do we want to play "true equality" or do we want to play in to our animal nature and throw progression away, the ball is in the female genders hand now to decide. If we could treat one another like we are on equal ground and no one was a prize because of their gender people would find value only in the character and quality and how they relate to certain people, that the objectifying of women would be gone, as well as the trophy and conquer mentality of sex being something to win. To conclude I don't care how people live their lives but I do believe in principles of love and respect and this is a matter of love and respect for human kind and one another albeit very hard to see. I partake once every two weeks in a 50$ short session with my favorite cam girl who's roughly the same age as me and plays herself as a very sweet lovely girl Basically I am very much a hypocrite in some ways. I think I'm fascinated by the context of the interaction and I always feel very empty afterwards. I don't try to be friends but I don't try to treat her like a piece of meat either, actually I just get her to suck her thumb while positioning herself in a way that I can see her a$$ and face with some wiggle then chat about her "love for dancing" until my budgeted cash runs out. | ||
| Ok Aaron, here's the answer.. The camgirls side is that A: I have a right to do this, and B: I'm smart because I make alot of money. Ok, both true -Neither makes it ok, though. Now for the other side(s) of the coin. Being a camgirl involves sexual acts for money; ie, prostitution. So yes, they're whores. The sex industry is run by evil, corrupt criminals. (I know just how deep the shit is), so they're feeding those worthless fuckheads. There are basically 3 kinds of people who pay camgirls. 1. Poor bastards who are addicted to it, and probably shouldn't be doing it. 2. Useless rich people who have nothing better to do, and 3. Criminals who spend other people's money on it, because it isn't theirs and thus have no reason to be responsible, because they can just get more from gullible/careless/unlucky/vulnerable people anyways. So either way, camgirls are taking advantage of someone's vulnerability. Which is slimy. Another thing, which is actually funny, is that a feminist would complain that women are objectified as sex objects, but would support a woman's right to choose to be in the industry- freedom of their sexuality. But the reality is that these women objectify men into 2 categories; 1. 'Cheap losers' who won't (or more likely can't) give them 'tributes', or 2. "Real men who appreciate beauty'...and therefore fork over thousands of dollars. The value they place on people is how much that living, breathing ATM can dispense. If you run out of cash, they might give you the time of day...for a bit..but when they realize you're tapped out, or disillusioned...back in the loser bin. These girls act like they're friends with the guys who give them money, but it costs what, $100 bucks to be their 'friend'? Hahaha. Great, thanks, I feel special now. Women in the industry are constantly saying 'this is my job, you better respect me blah blah blah'- I'm going to suggest something that might be unthinkable; how about you camwhores start respecting real people who actually work for their money, contribute something to society, and can't afford to waste it on frivilous, exploitive things; like watching women stick things in their holes. Get over yourselves; most camwhores are selfish, greedy, vain people who think that they're entitled to free cash just because they look good. In reality, most of the women on those sites aren't really all that hot anyways. heh. Some of the highest rated women on MFC are pretty fugly. Some guys will pay for anything. So it's all fine if you want to do it for a living; just don't think you're better than everyone else because you 'make alot of money'. Way to justify something inherently bad with flawed logic. | ||
| I have a question? What do people think or know about the new girls on cb or mfc who are non nude? They are from a studio in warsaw poland and claim to be studenst im united states. They will do masturbation show in private but with right people. They will make disgusting looks at cam when some one asks them to show boobs or for how much for a flash when go in private put hand down pants and go to work.They do many web cam sites at once and even do some group shows on one and never log off the other.They just adjust cam anlgle so you only see their face. They usually act nice and maybe give a guy a flash in private first time then when you come back not in mood tonight. I think this is all a scheme they have been camming in germany for three years before they start as living in usa and every thing they do is calculated to make them money. They get madddd and say they are here to meet and flirt and do not care about tokens. I know they sell their skype for money to high rollers who are businness owners or managers and regularly do masterbation shows with them.the only time they show in group is when these bog money men are in group and they get a thousand tokens for a boob flash Then when people go to group next time back to church girl act. Does anybody think they will scam the money guys with skype. It was said this studio out of warsaw was run by russiand mob and was used for money laundering.Is it possible to money launder with skype. I also have belief these two hot girls many from their sudio are ugly and on back page of these sites have been some kind of escort in germany. Is it possible to scam money with skype or are they videoing these money guys for blackmail by studio owners? | ||
| it sickens me the woman of our generation, before us & after deal with the constant bull shit of others. there are some girls who do it, just needed for money. for their dying family members, for their sons, daughters, so on and so forth. it disgusts me how guys go on these sites can just manipulate these wonderful woman, with a few dollars. and they comply cause they need, they comply because they are on the verge of homelessness, addiction, family troubles, and more. so please, think of how much they are actually doing. these woman are not whores, you people are the filth of the world that put down others for a sense of joy? ha, don't make me laugh. who the hell are you? i am not justifying, i'm better. i'm justifying that i have grown up and know the effects of our world. think about it, how would you feel if it was your daughter? mother? or any female in your family blood line? | ||
| I just came across this, it's funny to read everything everyone has to say. Personally I think everyone has too much time on their hands. I'm a webcam model but I'm not in here to yell at people for their opinions. I think some people are ignorant and care far to much what other people do with their bodies and time. Sweet Kitten I think you have valid points. Not just because I'm a camgirl but I totally agree. If your not the one doing it then why do you even care. Camwhores? Maybe but I'd rather be a paid camwhore then a whore that has sex with men every night for free. I'm not a begger I'm actually really cool about just hanging out and connecting. I connect with all my viewers and I consider you awesome if your just in my room chatting with me! There's a lot more too it. Yes some females can't do anything but beg and beg but that's just a little too much for me. That's not all models approach. I guess I just had to comment because some of you in here are relentless and pretty horrible with your views on us but what you don't understand is it doesn't hurt our feelings. I read it and brush it off my shoulders. If I let every negative thing somebody said about "camwhores" bother me then I'd be freaking miserable. I do what I want when I want and I still have respect for myself and my family knows and still loves me for me. End of story. There's no point in trying to change people's opinion. An opinion is an opinion for a reason there's no right or wrong. Now some of you are just ignorant and stupid with your words but knowing that it makes it that much easier to brush it off. Webcamming is fun and not all models are "begging whores" every one has a different motive and purpose. But at the end of the day ranting and raving trying to change people's opinion is stupid. They feel that way for a reason. I'm going to keep being a "camwhore" and you guys keep spreading the word about how it's wrong. The sex industry will always be around and there will always be "WHORES" willing to do it. Get over it. Your not stopping me and I'm not stopping you. End of story. | ||
| I find it rather interesting that more people don't consider that many cam girls work this job to support themselves through school, or other expensive times. I'm sure a strong majority of these women don't see themselves camming as a career, but rather finding a very alternative method to making money mostly on their own terms and schedules. And as for those who assume these women are surrendering self respect, perhaps broaden yourself enough to fathom that there are millions of strong women out there who don't cry themselves to sleep over this particular job. I imagine in many cases, women feel empowered and in control. I've spoken to a few cam girls in the past while and a huge percentage of them had boyfriends and husbands who supported their employment choices, as well. They're not all broken, stupid girls who are trying to get a free ride on their tits and pretty faces.. And lastly, on the topic of prostitution, I could never consider this to be in the same realm as selling my holes to men (I'm a woman). Based on what some people on here have said, you'd have to have Playboy models lumped into the mix of being "prostitutes". Are they not "selling their bodies for sex" as well? | ||
| They're all just fools. Get over it. | ||
| Let's look at the facts: (1) Men of all ages pay these webcam girls to masturbate. It could be a 19 or 68 year old man. (2) The women feign interest and beg for 'gold' (3) This is an incredibly easy way to make money for some women. That's precisely what bothers me - here's some women making easy money for showing their body and masturbating. Men, whom work hard during the week for their money are pissing it away on webcam girls? Guys - stop being so pathetic. These women don't give a shit about you at all. They're pathetic beggars online, trying to make an EASY buck. Stop giving it to them - grow the fuck up you degenerates. You just don't get it. | ||
| I still cannot understand why people try to blur the definition of prostitution (This means a clear physical contact paid with money and nothing about). Unsharpining of lines is a manipulation following ideological tendences. Of course every discussion is right and every other kind of adult work can be reviewed critically, but still be aware : porn is porn and not prostitution. Striptease is Striptease - but not prostitution . Camshow is Camshow and not prostitution. And postitution can be over this be also acceptable if it is performed in a selfdeterminded space. | ||
| Most of the foolish girls on hear bragging about how much money they arned lounging on the couch, call me in 10 years. I will be the guy giving u a dollar at the drug store because ur looks ran out and you had no brains for a real job. Not hating. Not a whore? If a girl shows her body to thousands of men isnt a whore than we have a serious issue.... But women i understand where you're coming from, if i had countless women eyeing me everyday id get a swelled head and false perception too. Go to a dating site girls, get a picture of the ugliest women you can find and use it as a display, in 10the minutes youll have 100's of messeges. So how hot do you feel now that you realize your looks mean nothing in a world like this? Enjoy the attention, for its not what you do that matters in this life, its what you leave behind when you go. So what was it you left to the world? A quick thrill. Nothing else | ||
| Webcam is on the spectrum of prostitution, it would take a bit of cognitive dissonance to deny that. I do think that webcam tends to be more troubling for many than general pornographic images or films because it's interactive. As well, the money isn't a great as it used to be even a decade ago, the same as the declining earning potential in stripping and acting in porn films. There are just too many performers to feed the demand for any particular webcam worker to sustain a very high income, plus sex work has always come with a shelf life. If someone has been doing webcam for a a few years, they are less marketable and desirable than newer, "fresher" faces. This is the reality of the business. I'm also curious about the rationale of those webcam performers who deny that they are on that spectrum of prostitution - this suggests that they are either fearful of society's stigmatizing attitude towards prostitution (which is understandable) or they feel that they are somehow above prostitutes who actually touch their clients. It's certainly an individual's choice to work in webcam, but I don't agree that it's always a healthy choice, anymore than having a choosing to partake in a substance addiction or an eating disorder is a good choice. Regardless, to successfully avoid the pitfalls in this industry, one needs to have a thick skin and be able to compartmentalize their webcam interactions from the rest of their life. Case in point , I've known some sex workers who developed a distrust of and contempt towards men and assumed that all men cheated, due to abusive incidents with clients and the fact that the vast majority of their customers are men in relationships who are cheating on their spouses or partners. Regardless if someone perceives sex work to be amoral or immoral, it unfortunately does tend to commodify those involved - the prostitute, who distrusts their clients and view themselves in marketable terms and tie their worth in their earning potential ("I make more money than you regular 9-5 ers, therefore I'm better/smarter"), and the client, many of whom erroneously believe that because some women have a price, that all women do. | ||
| Dumb hoes. Looking for porn and i came across this, waste of fucking time. (Editor's notes: You could call the authorities about the person putting the gun to your head forcing you to read it!) |
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| a lot of ppl are crazy but the webcam girls make me sad, i understand crazy or just wild girls or with bad upbringing or experience in US go to escort, porn, cam whatever for money, its their choice then even though sometimes i think they are coerced, but i feel bad for the euro and other foreign girls, many of them do it for the money and u can tell they are really sad inside. most of them are too pretty and deserve to be treat right without having to do this. | ||
| As a chick I don't understand the appeal and personally it goes against everything I stand for. Sex is awesome and all but it's private and in the physical realm with someone you actually give a shit about and vice versa...And I get that these girls have "a family to feed, bills to pay" and all that red herring tripe but personally private jets are not worth my dignity...The more time I spend on the net, the more I'm starting to realise my thoughts go against the masses which I find sad. But that's just my personal take on the matter. Whatever floats your boat I guess, I'm not God. | ||
| To the person who said that cam whoring helps cut down on rape, that's ridiculous; the motivation for rape in many cases isn't to release sexual tension, it's a way of gaining a sense of empowerment through abuse. There have been psychological studies to back this up, so feel free to Google it for yourself. As for the other cases, there's no way to know for sure if those men's likelihoods or desires to rape were reduced or suppressed for having watched you cam. The only thing that's safe to assume here is that they aren't raping anyone WHILE they're watching you cam, which is a very moot point. If you want to solidify your arguments, try backing them up with more facts than suppositions. And my motivation to reply to your comment wasn't out of disagreement to your initial opinion, I just feel compelled to call out bullshit as I see it. | ||
| Many women can opt webcamming as a career, and sure, they'll probably get paid good wages for it - but how long will that last? Their looks will fade, so a lot, if not most of them will end up having to look for menial jobs. I don't know about them, but something like this would probably send me into a pit of depression. If I were to aim for a job that exploits my physical-attractiveness, I'd rather aim for a job that pays even higher wages, like a real model; sure, it may be harder to make it in that career, but if that's what I was passionate about It'd be worth taking the chance; then I wouldn't end up having to look for a menial job when my looks fade. The main point: if you're going to be a webcam-girl, try to make sure you have something to fall back on for when your looks fade. | ||
| wow. a discussion started in 2004 with so much interesting and informative comments. just wanted to say this :) | ||
| Ginger I'm all about the way with you. for everyone information cam isn't all about sex either i make the most money by making others life fun by listening to people that have no one to listen to them and making friends all over the world.... it does help to be open minded to do this. For your information also this is a hard job isn't like opening your legs and money flow to you hahah if you think this. I understand this could be your opinion but you should try and then make your opinion just a thought..... go Ginger!!!! | ||
| umm..i just made $700 in 4 days laying on the couch looking hot so you can SUCK IT! (Editor's notes: And I made double that in one quarter of the time playing the stock market. See what I did there?) |
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| put on a good show for a 26 yr old virgin. | ||
| Okay I've just read through all of these posts, really interesting and got me fired up to say something myself! I'm an 18 year old webcam 'whore' as you say, and well, I love it.I don't have to worry about catching diseases,violence,and all the other risks associated with being an escort! I'm in my room, on my own, safe and sound, I set my own rules, and feel in control. And in my opinion ,the two jobs are totally different It's like comparing water with Ice, just because they are both based on SEX doesn't mean they are the same and most importantly I don't need to depend on any one else but myself financially. I'm not going to tell you all a sob story about not being able to afford education or anything, I'm in the UK and that is free, but i have never had a privileged lifestyle like I do now, I can now do those extra things like taking online courses, private tuition,going to hobby lessons,being able to buy Christmas and birthday presents for friends and family. It also gives me confidence, anyone that says hundreds of guys telling them how beautiful they are and paying to see them doesn't make them feel a little more confident quite simply has to be lying! Either that or they doubt they'd make any money themselves just by chatting, flirting and revealing a bit of skin!! And for those who have said, cam girls are too ashamed to tell their parents, well I told mine straight away and although they warned me not to give out any personal info and the regular stuff i had already listed in my own head, no they were not ashamed of me! They were amazed at the amount of money I could make in a small time and were happy that I was in control, could set my boundaries etc. I'm now studying business studies as its my ambition for the future to start my own business! And i'm going to use all the money I've made as a cam girl to fund it. Judge if you may, but it's not going to change anything! | ||
| Wow! Some really interesting comments on here. I was actually doing a bit of research into whether or not I should get into this line of work. I actually work as a prostitute and although at some times I really feel like I'm stepping out of my comfort zone, I actually felt far more degraded, lost a lot more dignity and was basically completely ripped to shreds working in a 'proper' corporate job. I'll never be the same again after being bullied by corporate bosses, used and abused. I don't have to live like that. I've never lost any sleep from being intimate with strangers for money, but I've had some seriously sleepless stressed nights from lack of money and being bullied at work. I don't know if cam whoring is for me though, knowing that it can just be recorded and circulated on the internet. Sheesh. Call me a prude. | ||
| After reading all this, i have some questions...Since February i regularly chat with a girl i met on one of those webcamsites - i'm neither old or fat or anything...i'm just a guy in his midtwenties who had several bad experiences with girls in real life that i withdrew almost completely from the dating scene (my girlfriend left me right after my dad passed away, i learned later that she was already seeing someone else, when i would have needed her the most). But now back to the topic - i was instantly drawn to this particular girl, i never asked her for anything, just went "pvt" with her to be able to talk to her without someone else waiting by to get his show...When we're talking she always tells me how nice i am and how much she in enjoys my company - do you think that's some kind of moneytrick she pulls off? What would speak against that, is that when i wanted to quit, she told me she would like when i stayed and i don't have to take her to "pvt" we could just stay in guestchat of her site...Is she trying to lure me in some kind of trap or am i already in? We also mail each other from time to time, not every day, but several times a week...The last time i've been talking to her she told me she will leave the "industry" and said if i want to go from there i should try...is this another trick?
The thing is, i'm falling for her and now i don't know how to proceed...what would you say? She is living in Russia, i live in Western Europe... (Editor's notes: 99% chance you're being scammed.) |
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| according to the below definition gold diggers are also prostitutes. Society is selective about the kind of prostitution it likes to endorse. (Editor's notes: Most people are prostitutes, really. ) |
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| Hey Ginger, I got one question for ya. If everyone thought like you just wrote, who would wipe your ass, change your diapers, when you eventually get old and feeble? Or maybe those Nurses, health care aides or similar who don't bank like you do in your cam job and work really hard to provide important services that are needed for others, rather than worrying how much money they earn. I just hope you never need your ass wiped when you can't do it yourself anymore. Maybe you will just lay in bed in your own feces, enjoying your well earned money. | ||
| cam girls are prostitutes. prostitution is the outright payment of money for any form of sexual pleasure. those cam girls accept payments to perform sexual acts on camera while the clients jerk off at the other end. there was payment in exchange for a service. sexual pleasure does not only come by sleeping with someone. it can come via autoerotic means, masturbation, oral, fetishism, bdsm, voyeurism (via live presence, theatre or cam), group sex or other means. if money is exchanged for any of these pleasures, it becomes prostitution... let's call a spade a spade | ||
| If you have to worry about how someone else is making a living, then you might wanna take a good long look at yourself, and ask why it matters so much to you. Couldnt there possibly be smarter things to be worried about? | ||
| I'm 19, I work a minimum wage job and I'd love to go to college but I can't afford it. I did well in high school and got into good schools and got scholarships, but they weren't enough. I actually took college courses through my high school (they paid for them) and finished about a year of college before I got my high school diploma, but I can't afford to transfer those credits to a 4-year-school. I make about 5.9 dollars an hour after taxes, but I don't qualify for financial aid because my parents make too much money and they refuse to help me. According to the government, I can't be considered independent from my parents until I'm 24 (or have a baby, or get married), so until then, I'm stuck. I can't get a loan either, because I have no one to sign for me, and I don't have enough of a credit history to qualify for one on my own, and I don't make enough money at my shitty job for credit card companies to give me credit. I'm not sure what else I'm supposed to do. I deal with creepy men all of the time...at my work, walking to work, on the bus...why not get paid for it? I'm tired of wasting 30+ hours a week of my life and getting nowhere. I'm trying to find a full-time job, but even then it'd take years for me to be able to afford college. It used to be easier to find a full-time job that could pay the bills but now most require a degree, and a lot of companies would rather hire a bunch of part-time people because they don't want to pay for benefits, and, well, the economy's just awful in general. I'm rather limited in where I can work...I can't afford a car, and a bus pass is about 130 a month, and the bus company is planning on making massive cuts to service in the fall (AND they're going to raise prices) so I have to find something close. I'm tired of walking to work when it's 13 degrees out, or 80 and storming. I was considering stripping until my friend told me about this line of work...I think it'd be a lot easier. I never did drugs in high school, I didn't sleep around, I got good grades, I did everything right, and it wasn't enough. I can't join the military, either--I have asthma. I don't want to work a shitty job for the rest of my life, I want to get the hell out of the shitty town I live in. My friends are going away to school and having fun and I just feel like I have no future. And please don't tell me I need Jesus, I've tried praying. Guess what? He's not there. Thanks for providing this forum, it's been very informative. | ||
| Please. I'm a model on , and I just paid for an Audi in CASH and I am touring Europe all next year, along with having a BIG LUMP of money in the bank to keep for my future business endeavours-aka- building my own salon. I pay taxes and bills just like the rest of you, and I also have a stable relationship with a guy who has his shit together. I just don't choose to exploit myself by wiping asses or taking care of sick people or cleaning floors or whatever the fuck I would be doing for less than 40 dollars an hour, which may or may not be a secure job anyway, and I do not have to worry about sucking up to my boss. To be honest though, I am thankful for all the prudes that think lowly of the girls that do this, because all the more $$$$ for me! | ||
| I'm struggling on this one. I live in the UK and my fiancee lives in South Africa. She is short of money, and while we are waiting for a visa for her to come here she has decided to work on a sexcam site. I had a look to see what girls are prepared to do, and I must admit my first reaction was to be appalled. I have made love to this girl in private, and now she is displaying all on the net to whoever is prepared to pay. She even wears our engagement ring online. She knows I am unhappy about this, but continues to go online every day. Am I being oversensitive? | ||
| The way I look at it is like this.. I have to tolerate people's egotistical rants about how bad it is and they "can't believe it" so they should be able to put up with that people do it. Don't like it? Don't look. I won't throw my tits out in an inappropriate setting but if I'm at home in my room alone with the webcam and the clients who is anyone else to say what I should and should not do? Does the thought of such events you "don't watch" happening burn so hot in your mind it really changes your life? That would be pathetic. | ||
| "B"... what is it with you? You talk as if you dont care what people think or say about your porn work,so then why do you keep trying to defend what you do?(guilt complex?) Really B, you need to get a clue and talk to your friends more often who probably earn money the good old fashion way..honest work! CAMSLAGS IN DENIAL..coming to a theater near you! LOL | ||
| There are all types of whores in the world not just the sexual kind. The point is that sex and sexual acts have become nothing more that something to earn money off of. How about we share the cams of the men that share their cams with you online? If it isn't so bad, then let it all hang out for all to see. There are certain things that should never have a priced placed upon them. I can't wait until executions of convicted criminals are shown on pay per view. It is not the money you earn.. but it may be the way it is earned. And yes, those greedy punks who are wealthy who are slowly destroying the middle class is something I do fight against. Problem is we all don't give a shit or think we can do nothing about it. Apathy leads to control and loss of freedoms. WHat a bunch of pathetic losers we have all become, where we have to sell our bodies to others to get ahead. Doesn't that say something or anything about what a shxxhole we all have and are creating. But nonetheless continue on, because you may find that you are justified in your own morals and ethics. Your main goal is to provide for yourself, your family and probably get the hell out of the work as fast as you can... unless being perverse and perverted is a good thing. I know quite a bit about this job and industry you work in B. no need to defend your actions, it won't change my views. | ||
| Jelly much? They are probably making more money than any of these moral crusaders. The definition of a whore is a woman who sleeps with a lot of men. None of them are doing this so that is the wrong definition. | ||
| Absolutely, I do a lot more than show my body, you've missed my point in a rather epic fashion. Why does having a professional photographer change the moral status of what you're doing? I don't think anal and vaginal penetration are degrading, I think they're fun. Where did you get the idea that sex is degrading? The argument that I should do it for free if I think it's ok is bizarre. Firstly, I have done it for free in the past, and secondly, I presume you think that whatever you do for a job is morally fine but I doubt you'd do it for free when you can get paid for it. That's just not being economical. Again, you've missed my point on why 'perverted' doesn't have to be a bad thing. What's your justification for saying that performing sex acts in front of people is bad? I just can't see how it's a moral issue, and no one's defended it by saying anything other than that it's perverse or that I'm a whore, which is tantamount to a tautology. Someone explain to me what's so degrading about sex and exhibitionism and maybe I'll have a rethink, but as far as I can see most people here have incredibly backward, unthinking opinions which are essentially just accepted prejudices. Analyze your own thoughts more, it might make you a bit more free. Also, I'm from the UK so all universities cost the same here. I'm at a good university because I'm not an idiot. Believe I'm lying if you want but I've clearly thought about these things in a far more open-minded, educated way than the people in here saying 'since when is being a whore good LOL you fuck you're ass with a dildo thats sooo degrading ha.' | ||
| Also, to the person arguing that dignity equates to hard work and that it's better to die of starvation than show strangers your ladygarden: you also did not read my post properly. Why does something being really difficult make it more virtuous or dignified? This argument doesn't make any sense and as I pointed out before, if you think that it's the easiness of the money which makes it undignified, you should be turning your attention to the people making billions doing very little. People have ruined world economies making easy money, they've damaged innumerable lives, but you're more angry that a few girls are making a lot of money wanking? Get angry at the people fucking everyone over, not a few girls fucking themselves. Or, y'know, continue with your unjustified prejudices that lack any intellectual justification and continue letting a bunch of incredibly rich men shaft you while you get all het up about some 'whores'. | ||
| I would not rather bring up ethics, nore dignity or religion here, since as humanity stands now nearly everyone can burn in hellfire :). Noone said that this job fits everyone or everyone can do it or should do it (neither I would do it although i know much about it). The point is that if someone ha chosen to do this (or forced in the worst case) help these people to learn how to do this type of job better so they can improve or move on to a different job. And one more thing. In the world of online video chat not only porn exists, there are therapists, social workers and people who only want to chat. I hope that in the future this can be further expanded to offer alternatives for talented people who wish to be online, but erotic service will be there for sure. | ||
| you all need to get a life. I am mature, had a zilloin jobs truckdriver, office, union, and my best is webcam since 98. I h ave respect dignity with my body, and society is stupid for the dumb thoughts. IM married do what im comfortable with. Get over it. Someday ill write abook about what people think. Its just people masterbating together big deal Nice to work at home travel be more with family. Best job I ever had. IM glad society is lame and dont condone it, more people keep visiting, Im not young fit but im smart and pay my bills at home. I dont feel like a Whore, but if you wanna come prvt and paY me to call me one, have at it dudes. or prudes. LOL My family dad knows what i do mom says well you pay your own bills. some hosts do really well, so get over it. | ||
| With all this chat about webcams I had to check this site out for myself. And what I saw made me sick to my stomach. It was like a game, with raffles going on & girls creating a tipping frenzy while dumbass naive men were falling for it hook,line,& sinker lol. It was like watching a con job in progress and the main lure was just a boob shot or something lol. Can men really be this dumb? I spent about an hour(hard to do), observing this site and all the antics and garbage it involved. I just about fell over when I observed one slut smoking pot right in the free chat and then proceeded to do a anal bead show while her pet dog was laying on a pillow right beside her! OMG!! I have never ever witnessed more examples of humiliation, perversion, & disgusting behavior in my entire life than what I observed in just one hour on that porn site. And to read one of the recent post saying it is the best job she ever had? I'm curious to know,in what aspect? Wow! And just when I thought some people can't get much lower in life... I was proven wrong by what I saw on webcams. Talk about classless individuals with no sense of shame..sad,so sad. Be well people & thanks for listening, Becky | ||
| Duncan, you are really clueless. To show sympathy toward cam girls by blaming society is so lame. Think of their grandparents and their parents who struggled just for food,but worked harder than todays generation can ever imagine. Lets face the facts here, the internet has made people lazy beyond belief. If we compare the levels of dignity in each generation, it doesnt take a rocket scientist to see that a woman or man of today tosses out their diginity without much thought at all. If I asked my grandmother how desperate would she have to get to perform sexual acts for money whether in real or on cam, I'm 99.9% sure she would say I'd rather die begging on the streets for food than do such degrading acts to my body. I realize that this Gen of today is tired of hearing how difficult their parents,grandparents,etc had it in their day, but the fact is that they did have it very difficult, but yet most lived their life with dignity and held onto their values regardless how difficult times got. After all, some things in life that we hold close to our hearts like respect,dignity,honor,etc,etc can never be compromised by certain individuals, and some people wouldnt think twice of discarding these human qualities in exchange for an easy lazy but yet very degrading fix to earning money.We all have that line that we will cross or never cross no matter what,and I think thats what sets our self respect apart from individual to individual. But hey, we all make our own decisions and we all must live with them. For myself, I'd rather try and make the kind of decisions in life that will make me feel good about myself inside,not ashamed. And if that means sacrificing the opportunity of making more money just to hold on to my self respect and dignity,then thats what I choose. But for some of these people like duncan who express sympathy for cam girls and their situation, I find that so hilarious considering all the hardships our grandparents had to live through. But yet some how they hung on to their dignity and self respect,and that I believe my friends is more valuable than any amount of money. For those of you who have lost a dear friend to suicide(like I have) and who just happen to be very wealthy at the time,.. know first hand that money cannot buy you TRUE happiness. And when I hear some of these cam girls on here brag about all the material things they own all in the name of whoring themselves out,.. I just have to shake my head and say... how shallow you really are. Money & material things will come and go,but self pride,dignity,and self respect last a lifetime and those are qualities you can't put a price on ;) | ||
| "The WebCamGirl Zoo" is a new protest song on YouTube about that internet sex work which provides a cheap (or even free) alternative to traditional female "love for sale." The internet offering described in the song consists of audiovisual stimuli created, realtime, 24/7, by an international corps of usually underpaid and overworked female models who pose and engage in role-play, before webcams, to fulfill the auto-erotic fantasies of an international male audience. The sardonic lyrics about this sex work are "clean," but the behavior that they describe often becomes "dirty" when the models feel that they must resort to side-show sex in the fierce competition for scarce tips. The "Zoo" bears a stricking resemblance to "MyFreeCams" (MFC). The song ignores the fact that MFC is an adult social site as well as a site for porn-to-order, porn-to-go. The song is performed in dixieland jazz style. The lyrics are clever; the vocalist is barely adequate. You'll find this song if you search YouTube using key words "WebCamGirl Zoo". | ||
| Excellent point Duncan. You see when degrading other jobs to justify this work seems a poor excuse to say hey, it's my choice and I make a killing because it is empowering me and lucrative to boot. Problem is these days that everything is so inflated in cost and price because every one wants to make big bugs, that we all seem to be screwing each others asses for the sake of saying I am rich and well off. Sure many find themselves in situations and circumstances that this easy money is the quickest and easiest way to earn bank as they say. But you forget, that if not for the demand there would not be a supply. Basic economics. Did you know that many of these ladies look down and laugh at their custies behind their backs? Try pooling the billions spent on porn and using it to create self help groups and training to make people prepared for real society. But of course, the lure of the bucks and the ease at which it can be made, places that idea as something demeaning or degrading. We all created this, and until the customers stop wasting their time and money on this hobby, it will continue occurring. | ||
| B +1. This job fits extroverted people the most, the only difference is the level they "expose" themselves. However i need to add that unfortunately not every models/hosts comes from the middle or upper regions of the society. Many of them do this for the daily bread and can't afford to improve or change because they lack incentives or resources to do that. Mostly it is not their fault. Their background (family, social status, friends, education, boss etc...) is mainly responsible. They should be helped out from this situation by offering them new goals, extending their view and give them space to grow. | ||
| In response to B, showing your body? hmmm, thats all you do? lol. Your response reveals just how shallow you are as a person. The typical camwhore always trying to justify how degrading sex acts like anal,vaginal,etc on cam is compared to being a model is so far out there it's not even funny. Sexual modeling you say? looooooool, give me a break. True modeling is done with professional photographers for ads,mags,clothing stores,etc,etc. Trying to compare a real model to a camwhore is like comparing a real musician to someone who sings in the shower while masturbating on cam lol. And why is that so many camwhores throw the college crap out there for justification lol. The fact is that 99% of what comes out of a camwhores mouth are lies. Thats how they make more pvts... all the blah blah blah dishonest crap. Not every man is stupid B, but you whores sure love it when you hook a dumb one who believes every word you dish out lol. thats money in the bank, yes? Shame on you whore! | ||
| So basically being perverted and being considered a cam whore are dignified descriptions of people. The definition of perverse and perverted are not positive attributes when describing others. If one must justify making tons of easy money in conjunction with "perversion" and "whoring", then we could then say watching Uncle Willie,(65 years old as a random age) ogling and lusting after a 20 year old naked woman online while hiding his hobby from his wife as ok, then why not go further. The question arises, that when people sell themselves by performing things for money to strangers, that may or not be considered normal and approved by a majority of people in society then it can be viewed as abnormal behavior, or unacceptable behavior. Which may not be accepted as the norm by society as a whole. Would you allow your children to watch what some do on these websites? For the sake of money, selling oneself out to the highest bidder may not seem ethical or moral by the majority, but is accepted and justified by those who do it. Criminals who steal, embezzle and scam others and earn tons of money may believe that they are not doing anything wrong either. The last two posts, highlight a few negative descriptions...."nasty", "pervert", "whore". Can someone show me where the definition of those words are positive descriptive nouns or verbs? Attending a fine University does not imply that a person is of good standing or that they are not perverted or a whore, they just can afford to attend a fine university. If this is all fine and dandy, then do it for less money or just expose yourselves in public while performing sexual acts on yourselves. After all, it is dignified, normal and fun. Ok, Editor, go ahead and say this is one of the longest replies in this thread now. Or you can simply respond with another "Meh". | ||
| This thread is brilliant. To all of you who are saying that cam girls have given away their dignity, that they're stupid and shallow and that what they do is perverted: ok, I doubt anyone will believe me, but I'm a cam girl and I attend a university which consistently ranks as one of the top in the world. I am not stupid, and I spend far longer really thinking about ethics than most of the people on this thread seem to have done. The assertion that showing your body is degrading, shallow or perverted just completely lacks justification. I assume you're taking it as a basic belief but I argue that it's a belief based on prejudice and that it's unjustifiable without reference to an incoherent set of religious beliefs. I like showing my body to people, it turns me on. I guess by definition I am a pervert, but I don't see what's wrong with being a pervert. I get my kicks and I make a lot of money. People seem offended by the idea of people making money so easily, and I can understand that resentment, but why is that anger never turned towards the people raking in millions ruining our economies? I think it's because that's too abstract. There are many people (mostly men) making billions doing far less work than a cam whore and they fuck everyone else up in the process. Stop being offended by a few girls making a bit of money on the internet and start being concerned about real injustice. | ||
| Also, why do you consider sexual modelling to be different from regular modelling? Both models are using their bodies as commodities, both contribute to the objectification of women, both are easy money. It seems strange, once you get over your prejudices, that one provokes such animosity and disgust and the other is considered praise-worthy. (I'm not trying to up the status of cam girls by comparing it to modelling, I'm trying to point out an inconsistency) | ||
| Performing. Shameful? Yes it can be but contrary there are hosts who can avoid that by settling this thing first with themselves, than with their family and friends. All depends on what is okay for you and what is not. If you can set up the limits and quality standards of your performances you can look into the mirror even after years of work in this industry. It is not necessary for someone to humiliate him/herself to be successful. I have seen hosts who earned tenthousands of dollars just by chatting and occasionaly teasing a bit. The key is paying attention to the other's needs and care. Of course not everyone can afford this but it is possible and it is the core of the service. A therapist do the same thing, chat and listen to people, but it is a legitimate profession. I do not say that the online camgirls are angels, nor that all clients want to chat only and seeks attention. Things are usually pretty "nasty". But there is a way to do this business without any humiliation or shame, and the majority who found this road is VERY successful, which is quite interesting, isn't it. | ||
| Editor seems a tad narcissistic in nature.
The egos of people, it truly is something to behold.
Now what type of individual plays head games with others to gain popularity?
Hmmm.... I see some common links here.... both the Editor and cam models enjoy manipulating the masses virtually.
How quaint.
Remember the internet it ain't what it appears to be. (Editor's notes: Meh.) |
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| Interesting views and reading, but it's obvious this editor finds a need to put self delusional spins on every comment left on here. I suppose this editor is the kind of 60's liberal who would even find a way to defend pedophile's,murder's, acts of incest,terrorist,and the most disgusting sickest individual's on earth.
I find many readers making good points on here only to get slammed by a very self-centered editor who has an inner need to get the last word in on every good post left here.... very very sad :(
You really need to seek some professional help... let me know how that goes..ok? (Editor's notes: Yet another one that doesn't seem to realize that I just take the opposite view of whatever is posted for my own amusement. Primarily because of the conclusions others such as yourself jump to from just a few off handed comments I make in this thread. I can easily get the last word here because it happens to be my website, and I'm making more comments on this thread because it is suddenly very popular. Look at the hundreds of past comments where all I did is press the "Approve" button. Also you may wish to learn the proper use of the apostrophe. Let me know how that goes...OK?) |
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| Like the Editor said.. "On one hand, they are, for all intents and purposes, prostitutes". "They whore themselves out on Internet web cams for money".
Those statements are right on the money,so what is the big controversy here? There's streetwhores and there's camwhores... one offers sex for money in person and the other offers it in virtual. Other than one is virtual and the other is done in real, they both have many things in common(no respect for their body,no respect for themselves,and no morals or dignity). If they had any of these human qualities,then why do they hide what they do from their family & friends?
Answer: Because it's a shameful line of work, that's why. Just read sweetkitten's comments and that pretty much sums up a very shallow way of thinking and a prime example of a person who is in denial. Truth is, It's a self-degrading way to make money and those are the FACTS...case closed. How many of you camwhores have told your mother & father what you do for work? Hmmm, not seeing many hands raise on that one lol.
ps- I get a good laugh from all the camwhores who refer to themselves as a "model" lol. Oh really? hmmm, (think you might wanna check the definition of model).
-Sarah (real model)
(Editor's notes: Saying someone has no morals for doing something you don't agree with is inaccurate. Morals are subjective. So while a cam performer may not fit your morals, her job may fit her morals just fine. And maybe all of her other morals agree with yours except the one about performing on cam? For example, many people believe that bringing your children up without religion is immoral. However many other people that forcing religion upon your kids is immoral. Two opposite viewpoints, neither of which lacks morals.) |
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| Hi everyone. I have read through some of the recent posts. It is great to see that such little community exists. I have been involved into this industry for 4 years now, and i can tell that what is really missing is platforms like this, where people can share their thoughts and experiences. I could find only a few, and also created one myself. As i see, that regardless of the moral questions this whole industry still "lurks" in the dark as most of its workers, therefore people do not know much about it and think that what they think or do not think at all. This applies for the workers, the viewers and the society as well. Noone admints it but wast majority of the people involved somehow. The more we speak about this and the more we reveal from this secret word the better chances we have to make things better. People need to learn how to do this job, and how to use this service, and this can only be achieved by bringing it to the light. Thumbs up :) | ||
| I find it amusing the controversy over this subject, I am 65 and I will say that if the internet and the available avenues to make an income such as Internet Webcam Girls had been around 1964, there would be a lot of very wealthy women in their retirement. People, it is sex without the risk! There is no chance of violence, would I approve of my daughter doing it, don't know. But I do know she would have a safe profession and a profitable one. Get over it, the internet and communication worldwide are here, and here to stay. | ||
| Wow. I was reading some of the comments. The Irony, small mindedness and downright humourous content of some.(LMAO)lol To those I say thank you. You have only further cemented my views that this is a great job to have. Its lack of popular choice, and therefore supply, in relation to the ever increasing demand over the ever increasing internet, make this an optimal supply and demand window. Hurray!! The answer to my mid recession blues. :) Once again thanks SK for this thread. Danielle | ||
| Interstingly--
"Internet Web Cam Girls" Rates the most viewed page on Random Thoughts subject Index by a large margin at 105273
Hmmmm. go figure. (Editor's notes: The power of the Google.) |
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| i have more respect to street prostitutes and strippers now, these girls go out there and truly earn their money and they provide quality service. If a whore is aware of contraception, that's a plus. | ||
| Sweet Kitten: I absolutly loved you consice and lengthy post. Im just about to go live for the first time. I was surfing for last minuet moral support to steady my nerves, to kinda remind we why I decided to do this. And I gotta say. You got it nailed there girl!! Reading it really bought it back home for me.(and still smiling) Im heading out on the ifriends path. Nervous and broke as hell. :) But looking fwd to it. I shall have to check the host you mentioned. Anyway, just, ye. Thanks Danielle, | ||
| Editor???? (maybe a "self-proclaimed" editor). The fact is that having a site and starting a worthless post about trash, doesn't warrant a person as being a good,educated, & professional Editor. It's like saying every cop is a good cop..lol, yeah right. Maybe instead of sitting around wank'n watching unscrewed, you could read & educate yourself,and maybe it's possible you might just come up with a thread worth starting & reading about,.. instead of... "the life of a camwhore" (who really cares). (Editor's notes: Have you read the rest of my site? Guess not. This silly thread is but 0.001% of the content of this site. Editor, Moderator, Overloard, whatever. Just a title I assigned to myself so I could make comments on comments.) |
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| I myself have considered being a web cam girl. I have to say that everyone should remember that all of your husbands, boyfriends, guy friends are ALL looking at this! They look at porn magazines, internet sites, prostitutes and who knows what else. The sex industry has and will always be around. Why? Bcus of your bfs! Lol...Idiots (Editor's notes: Whoa there, be careful with the word "ALL". I *wish* I had time to look at mass amounts of porn. And don't forget the girls that like porn too.) |
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| "the sex industry is the oldest industry" that is very true. And might I say that even if you chained all the men up and only used them for sperm that indeed you would still have women who were sexually frustrated and the sex industry would still thrive! And if you are a religious person, remember that you can not judge, only god can! | ||
| You trolled me, lol.
Why?
Because you can? Lol. Maybe I trolled you.
Remember stuff on the internet never disappears. Just creates more dumbasses like Just me.
Still, I noticed a fw members on MFC, swee kitten, mention that sadly enough, the commodity of your pussy seems to have diminished the special reason you have a pussy.
Which top model are you there? lol. (Editor's notes: So we trolled each other, whatever. Still amusing.) |
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| OK. So yes I am a cam gal and when I was younger I would never do such a thing. The fact is men can be pigs. They are everywhere when it comes to the work place. Just not so obivous. They are just normal men and women trying to get off in PRIVate. I'm happy to help. SEX is normal and you know you have masturbated many times. Just in your own way. I LIKE TO WATH PORN WHEN I want t4o get off. They like livee cams. Plus they love it when I cumm. LOL.. watch. Me. | ||
| I just realized how much of an idiot I've been... never spent money on a cam site until last year... wasted $1735.00 in the time frame and never once asked the model to be naked... didn't want to see just wanted to know who she was really...lol call me dumbass :) | ||
| Now this is becoming utterly ridiculous.
You have an Editor, who flip flops to appear unbiased.
Then you have Sweet Kitten who curses like a banshee, rants passionately to defend her rights and then denigrates an opposing opinion or thought to justify her views,while calling others out.
Apparently, 8 years ago you felt the need to create a blog here expressing a thought regarding this all while searching for porn and pondered how women can do such a thing(for money or dignity)
Perhaps the Editor, wants to fan the flames. (Editor's notes: I'm being a troll because it's so easy. Trolled you with zero effort. ) |
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| Uhhh.... Wait. What makes anyone think I'm angry or full of rage??? Where did that come from? Did you not see all of my 'lol's"!!!?? I'm not defending anything. I don't have to. Simply sharing my opinion like everyone else. Duh. As far as a tainted view of men...? What are you talking about? I never even see my viewers. They're strangers on the opposite side of a computer. As far as men I see in person in everyday life- my interaction with them is no different than anyone else's... How about we quit trying to psychologically analyze everything I say and just take it how I said it. There's no reason to get so upset about an opinion- and for those of you who think I'm angry for some reason- maybe you're just projecting or something??? Lighten up. GEEZ. :-D | ||
| And are you really trying to blame someone for an individual's addiction and self-destruction? As if a grown man is incapable of taking responsibility for his own actions and lack of self-discipline and moderation?? Come on now. You can't possibly be that ignorant... | ||
| Ummm..... I'm still trying to figure out how I came across as angry????????? Or why I need to calm down?? lol. Ya'll are a trip. FTW. | ||
| Funny how a so-called "editor" feels the need to post his/her editor notes after post that are in non agreement with his/her own personal views. It appears the editor needs to get a life & find something more constructive to do besides comment on a 8yr old worthless thread that should have died on the 2nd day after it was started. I can't help but feel sorry for you,cause you have nothing better to do with your time but keep posting your arrogant opinions on other people's comments. If you really think your an editor,.. then please start acting like one. (ps- Ok , you can post another dumb response now to fill your ego cup ;) CYA! WOULDN'T WANNA BE YA!! (Editor's notes: Have you not noticed that I tend to change my views to the opposite of whatever is posted?) |
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| Editor,
Everyone is at fault. Not just the women who do this job, but the people that are the consumers as well as, the media and how it is portrayed and sold to the masses.
if this is normal behavior, then we all should be doing it.
I would like you to provide some references that abnormal behavior leads to constructive good results.
(Editor's notes: You're assuming the situation warrents blame. Who cares how people spend their time/money as long as it has no negative effect on my life.) |
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| Lol,Lmao,etc etc...
Damn SweetKitten, you really sound so angry towards other people's opinions and views. You might reconsider your name chosen here, to something that suits your rants and foul language.
Yes, I am anonymous here, but know just as much about the truth of this work as you do, dear. But what sets you apart now is how you rant and rave defending your right to do as you please. But have you ever considered the consequences that may or may not occur from this (as you say,abnormal)job.You did write that you never considered it normal, didn't you? Continuing, I quoted you word for word. I think you should re-read the snippets chosen and then return here and tell me where I misquoted you.
Every other sentence has cursing in it, like you can not contain the rage inside you. You know what I think? This work has tainted your view of men generally, and it is reflected in the way you describe your customers who do happen to be horny inept men. But I remind you that those customers are not just men either.
I also have read, heard, and witnessed how "men" who become so addicted to "porn", that it destroys their lives and their families. I have witnessed countless individuals who have an addiction or shall we say, a hobby,lol, where they can not live without porn. And the innocent people(these mens children or wives) who have to deal with their significant others issues,from it all. But as you wrote, "Don't give shit" about what others do. But when that "shit" begins to stink where I can smell the odor everywhere I go, then how can a person avoid the stench?
All this just because you want to do as you please,huh. No Dignity, kind of expressed an view that probably angered you, but she is entitled to speak her opinion just like you and I.
I just am highlighting how people, in general, look for ways to take the easy road, avoid doing anything truly constructive in their jobs and just think "hey, it's cool,look at the moolah I can make of off abnormal people who have no social lives,but to spend hours and hours on websites that are akin to a sexual facebook.
I have seen the good and bad of this all, and I am being calm and rational, when I say, there is nothing redeeming about it at all. But of course, money as you say isn't everything. Then masturbation must be everything then, if I want to view your rants in an entirely different POV.
Calm the F down. Your screaming does nothing to change other peoples thoughts, feelings or conclusions. (Editor's notes: Curious how you seem to blame the performers in porn for those addicted to porn. Kind of like blaming Ford if someone is hit by a Mustang?) |
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| CAMBOTKITTEN, are you for real? After reading that extremely long, pathetically written story of your life,.. I just about got sick. No one cares about YOU,how much money you make,your tokens,mfc,and all your neverending blah blah nonsense. But hey, now that everyone knows your whole life story because you summed it all up in just one page(very sad),its clear to me now that YOU HAVE NO LIFE! LOL (you sound like just another scorned camwhore who feels a need to keep defending herself with child-like arrogance & stupidity). Words of advice CAMBOTKITTEN, next time you decide to write a book about your meaningless cambot life, do yourself a favor and don't publish it. Cause your readers would surely die of boredom after only reading the 1st page of the book. Did you even read back all that bubble-gum, teenie-bop dribble you wrote? Someone needs to take your bot-batteries out for sure! That has to be the most pathetic blog I have ever read before. Someone please get me a barf bag!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (Editor's notes: Based on the way you've written this comment, you have no business commenting on the writing style of others. Physician, heal thyself!) |
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| editor quote: "After all, to become a cam whore, all you have to do is give up your dignity, self respect and privacy". So So TRUE! The truth is that your average woman or man in life who has dignity & self respect, would never even think about doing perverted sex acts.. let alone on cam! Do these cam whores actually think this is a normal job? lol!!! Look around you at normal people who have honest jobs. And regardless how much money they make, they would NEVER consider doing these things. Why? Because they have dignity and respect for thier body. I laugh so hard at these girls comments who try to justify why they are a cam whore. Once they decided to give in to a more easy,lazy,& perverted way to make money.. they gave up their diginity & self respect that instant! As a woman myself, I have more respect for a woman who digs ditches for a living to provide for her family,than these girls who do unthinkable perverted sex acts with their body. So.. all you men & women out there who keep trying to justify to yourself and others that degrading yourself on cam is what normal people do for money... you should get a clue! The fact is.. a whore is a whore, whether on the street,in a hotel, or on cam... you all whore out your body in one way or another for money. But being the shallow thinkers that obviously you cam whores are... you will always be in denial that doing what you do is normal in life. Have you ever heard of self pride? Do your parents,brothers,sisters,& friends know what you do for money? I doubt it ;) So... if you really think what you do is a respectful honest job,.. then why not tell them? (answer: because you know deep inside it's a perverted degrading way of life.. thats why.) So in closing... go ahead and keep trying to justify here on this blog and to yourselves for being a cam whore,.. you may convince YOURSELF, but the rest of the world is not that stupid ;) | ||
| Umm.. who said anything about it being a normal job or respectful or justifying anything??? I get paid to masturbate lol. Nothing more. Nothing less. All I said is it doesn't bother me. I don't have any moral hang ups or stipulations as far as that goes. That's just me- take it as you will. As far as my lol's and lmao's....?? That's just my personality- that's how I type- email, facebook, text... there's nothing subliminal about "lol." LMFAO!! lol. But yeah ANONYMOUS/no name- you're 100% right- when I say I love my viewers... your damn right it's not about the man in front of the computer. If he didn't regularly contribute to my show then he wouldn't be considered a regular or one of 'my guys' in the first place. Umm... duh. lol. Quit reading into shit. Everything I meant is everything I said. I have ZERO problem with MASTURBATING ON CAMERA. It's NOT A JOB at all. It's $$$$$$$$$$$$ for some horny guys watching me bring myself to orgasm. And the main point, since you missed it- If you ARE someone who finds it offensive or morally distastful/disrespectful/disturbing/degrading/and every other horrible thing that you can think of.... then don't fucking participate lol. For example... I hate onions... I don't bitch about their existence... I simpily don't eat them. One more example for those of you who are a bit more slow... I can't stand country music... But instead of sitting their whining about my opinion of it, I just chose not to fucking listen to it. Religious hypocrites disgust me. But if you happen to be one of them, that's not my fucking business. You just won't ever see me next to you during a sermon. You do you. I do me. That's an rational person does when something lies outside or even opposite of opinion, taste, or perspective. What sense does it make to take personal offense at someone else's lifestyle??? Children whine. You think porn is disgusting? Don't fucking watch it. You don't like alcohol? Don't fucking drink it? You don't like rap? Don't fucking listen to it. You think homosexuals are going to burn in hell for eternity? Then don't practive homosexuality. It's really that simple!!! BASUC LOGIC!!!! Come on, now! Quit wasting so much energy concerning yourselves with other people lives, interests, actions, etc. If you're against something. Don't fucking do it!!!! Do what you think is right and let everyone else worry about themselves. There are more important things going on right now that actually deserve attention. My personal decision to masturbate live on the internet does not. Not matter how much you disagree with it. Seriously. | ||
| And and for Mr. Over-Analyzer (aka- anonymous)- the whole "money can't buy happiness" was referring to a previous comment on this blog. I was simply agreeing with a statement from a previous comment on here and added my own personal note. But since you want to quote me, please do it correctly and post what I actually said, in accurate order: Not sure why you felt the need to rearrange my words....??? Or maybe you're just dyslexic?? In that case, here is what I ACTUALLY said: "So, true- money isn't everything. Money can't buy happiness. But I gotta tell ya- it feels pretty damn good to cash those paychecks all in exchange for doing something that makes ME feel good anyway haha. Does that make me a heathen? Damn Straight? A whore? I could give a fuck. Whatever I am- I'm laughing all the way to the bank! Lmao." If you're gonna quote me, please get it right, babe. | ||
| One thing I noticed and if I may ask, Sweet Kitten, is why do you laugh intermittently, after certain sentences(LOL,LMAO,etc etc)? Is that how you highlight the point that you laugh all the way to the bank? If you don't hate men, or don't think money can buy happiness, then why write this: "So, true- money isn't everything. Money can't buy happiness." And then lol or lmao after mentioning the money part of the job. Or this: " And as far as dating- if I met a guy who I hit it off with he got his panties in a bunch because of me masturbating online- then I would laugh in his fucking face lol. While deleting his number. Yeah- prudes aren't my type. There are men out there who are secure enough in themselves and intelligent enough in thought where shit like this doesn't faze them. And I don't waste my time with any others. Period. I thrive on full confidence and sole dedication to being myself and don't even take notice of others who don't operate on that same level. Weed out the weak. Anyway, I don't hate men. I value all of my viewers- I love every single one of my guys: my tippers, my long-time regulars, even the occasional admirers. " I think you value the money far more than the actual person behind the money. One more question though, Would all those men be any less of a man if they didn't end up paying to watch you entertain them or masturbate for them? Just makes me wonder. | ||
| i dont understand why everyone's so offended ??? | ||
| Get over it. You have strippers, porn stars, hookers/escorts, playboy models, and cam girls. Strippers dance nude, porn star have sex on cam for viewer entertainment, hookers just have sex as well as offer paid companionship (GFE escorts/Higher end girls), nude models pose nude for photographs, and cam girls masturbate on camera for viewer entertainment. Who the fuck cares?
Moral values are going to vary from person to person. I personally am a cam tease. I don't work on a per minute site but on a site where I set a tip goal and once it reaches that I do a topless striptease. I set another higher countdown to take off my panties. A higher amount to play with myself. And a final goal for me to cum. No toys. A room full of guys contributing toward the goals to watch me do something I do everyday anyway. And if they want to see actual penetration w a toy or vibrator, then they have to join a group show which charges them automatically as well as have to tip during the show. I do my one public show to reach my daily goal and occasionally offer the group show for one more round for those who either missed or want a more hardcore show if I'm still aroused or just want to cum again.
I flirt with my room. We talk, they get to know me. We joke, I play music, we play games while my tips are accumulating and then they get their reward once each goal has been reached. And after I cum, I get overloaded with even more tips. I say thanks to everyone for being awesome and making me cum, I cool off, get a drink of water, and we're back to laughing and chatting again. And we just chat casually and have a good time until we all say our goodbyes/goodnight's and I log off.
The site I work on is pretty cool. There's really only a few assholes who turn up. Most guys learn pretty quickly that that shit doesn't work there lol. Not with any of the models. (Unless they haven't learned the MFC ropes yet lol). We all have our personal rules posted and viewers pretty much follow them or GTFO.
Beggars and freeloaders get muted. Assholes get banned. But usually all of my guys jump on them before I even have to think about it. Each week I offer a prize to the highest tipper of the week. Maybe a one-on-one private show/skype, a pair of my panties, an autographed photo..., and my loyal regulars have earned spot on a VIP chart of sorts. Personal recognition and notice for all to see. They love it.
I don't feel bad about what I do at all. I have no misconceptions, hang ups, or moral stipulations- it doesn't bother me. Everyone has different personal values. And just as there is nothing bothersome to me about pleasuring myself on cam (I'm a bit of an exhibitionist anyway), I know I wouldn't feel the same about having physical sex with a random guy for money. Let alone the amount it would take to make a decent living doing so... But I also would never condemn someone who does. That's not my concern. If she doesn't have any hangups about it, then who the hell am I to bitch about it?
Now, with that said I do think it's really sad for the women in any single one of the aforementioned roles who are only there due to lack of choice. Those who do feel bad about what they do, don't enjoy it, feel downgraded, etc. You have the girls who love what they do, the girls who just don't give a fuck, the ones who do it because they have to, and then worst case- actual victims. No two cases are the same.
I personally don't really NEED the money. I work full time in advanced tech support and make a damn good salary for a single woman with no children. But I was fascinated. And have been for some time. So I gave it a shot. So now I work my day job, and then 3-4 nights a week I log on to MFC after work. (Which is myfreecams for those of you who don't know...)
Since my tip countdowns must be reached before my shows move on/will be completed, then I always have a minimum amount that I earn by the time I log off. That doesn't include the extra tips I receive between countdowns, during regular chat, during my dances, during masturbation, during and after cumming, and payment for group show plus group show tips, or even the gifts my guys send me from my amazon wishlist they have access to.
You know what that minimum is?
5000 tokens. Every show. I do not lower it.
Do you know how much that shows up on my paycheck for ONE session/One day/One viewing of me giving myself an orgasm????? Can you guess????
Well, MFC models get 50% of each token. The guys (and some girls!) pay 10 cents per token. So that's 5 cents per token. You with me? Can you do the math? So my minimum that I log out with each day that I sign on- no matter what- because my shows always move on- is 5000 tokens x $0.05= $250. For one show. And that's just me. I've watched other girl's during their shows who require 2800 or so just to take their top off, another 3000+ for panties, and maybe 3500-5000 to start the show. And once started, tips must continue to keep her going, and boy do they just pour in. Not to mention afterwards. I've tallied up some of these girl's countdowns before I got started to help me decide and settle on my own goals, and some of those girls are making upwards of 12,000-20,000 a show with 2000-3000 guys in their room at one time. All tipping towards the finale. I'm not even going to bother calculating that. Not to mention a couple of girls- Shyutza is the main one- who is adorable- but she blows my mind, because she just sits there with this pleasant look on her face, NEVER takes off her clothing let alone touches herself, Barely speaks- maybe a non-english comment here and there, just giggles and trades emoticons, and listens to her music, and looks pretty, and occasionally shares an inside joke with one of her regs, and she literally has thousands of guys in their rooms fighting to tip her the most. Every time she logs on. And the tips just accumulate endlessly (I'm not even sure if she does privates). Yeah- I have no idea how she does it lol.
Anyway, back to MY reality. I'll take $250 lol. And I personally know strippers who easily make $600/night, $1000-$2000 over a weekend. And that's awesome. But I also think it's pretty bad-ass that I can make an extra $750-$1000 per week (MINIMUM) without even having to leave my room or touch anyone lol. I'm comfortable with my body and sensuality and have a huge libido anyway. I was already masturbating on a daily basis- and now I get paid for it. And moreover, this is all spending money! My day job covers all of my bills (rent/car note/insurance/grocery/gas/utilities/etc).
And if for some reason I ever did get fired for this... which I highly doubt, but won't deem impossible- Well, even just my supplemental income of $3000-$4000+ a month isn't too bad. And if I'm no longer working full time, then that would just leave me free to add a few more days or hours to my schedule to make up for that loss lol. And maybe reach the ranks of some of the tops girls on my site. (or not Lmao). I could always increase my personal minimum if I felt the need/desire to do so however)
So, true- money isn't everything. Money can't buy happiness. But I gotta tell ya- it feels pretty damn good to cash those paychecks all in exchange for doing something that makes ME feel good anyway haha. Does that make me a heathen? Damn Straight? A whore? I could give a fuck. Whatever I am- I'm laughing all the way to the bank! Lmao.
I don't plan on going into a career field in which the discovery of this work would be a huge deal (such a teaching, running for office, whatever lol), nor do I desire children who I would have to take into consideration as far as how it would affect them, And as far as dating- if I met a guy who I hit it off with he got his panties in a bunch because of me masturbating online- then I would laugh in his fucking face lol. While deleting his number. Yeah- prudes aren't my type. There are men out there who are secure enough in themselves and intelligent enough in thought where shit like this doesn't faze them. And I don't waste my time with any others. Period. I thrive on full confidence and sole dedication to being myself and don't even take notice of others who don't operate on that same level. Weed out the weak.
Anyway, I don't hate men. I value all of my viewers- I love every single one of my guys: my tippers, my long-time regulars, even the occasional admirers. (The freeloaders I could do without lol)- But believe men when I say- the satisfaction is 100% mutual :)
(Oh- and yes, I do report my income (company-issued 1099) and pay my taxes lol).
My parting note: Those of you who have a problem with any of those lines of work: Don't fucking do it. It's that fucking simple. It really is. Don't watch. Don't participate. Grow up and quit your fucking whining. Find something to do with your life other than bitch and moan.
Much Love <3 (Editor's notes: And that is possibly the longest comment ever posted.) |
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| Seems to be a lot of blokes on here who have serious issues with women. Thats why they hate the females doing this job because they can't get a girlfriend without paying for it. If a woman can make money from being a web host then why not eh? (For the reocrd i'm a straight guy who doesn't have a problem with women. I like women, mabe that's why). | ||
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| "I'm not surprised at how many self righteous men think more deeply about cam girls camming than probably most cam girls. They probably had their pockets picked cleaned at one point by a cam girl and have pent up issues because of it. What drives all work in the world, is money. You fuckin' moron. Who works for free? Suckers? Men are just jealous that they can't masturbate and make as much money as women, if they could, they'd do it in a heartbeat. I work 10 days a month and 4 hours a day. I make enough money for rent, tuition, food, and booze. So, you haters can hate but shit, my life is awesome." I am not surprised at the anger here in the quote. Booze,huh... 4th on the list. Are you a tad angry? Appears as though you have an underlying resentment of those same men.Or maybe just men in general,after all your life is awesome because of those men,who pay to watch you strut your stuff on cam. Maybe the booze will help calm you down a little. Money does not necessarily bring happiness, I am sure it does make buying booze easier,though. | ||
| GOD EXIST!
NO MATTER WHAT ATHEIST SAID (Editor's notes: Prove it.) |
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| I've been camming for about two months. The pay is around 1500.00 a month for me and I'm online about 4 hours 3-4 days a week. Some models make good money, some don't. I do the fetish modeling and hardly ever have to even get naked. Mostly guys want me to instruct them on how to masturbate or CBT or SPH. It's supplemental income for myself. I'm sure I could make more, but I don't like spending all my time online. It's lucrative, but people have to be willing to keep their personal life separate. (Editor's notes: I had to look up those acronyms. CBT was easy, but SPH is still a mystery...Specially Hardened Surface? Self Propelled Howitzer? Smooth Particle Hydrodynamics? Seems like a cam chick isn't the person you'd ask about those things.) |
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| So what sites are legitimate to work at? I'm at my last resort so that I can finish my degree and I dont want to strip in a local joint. My town is too small. Thanks... | ||
| As no one else seems to be responding in the same spirit of jest I'll be quite happy to do so!
As a webcam girl I think we all need to take a note of advice from the author, I only hope I'm still being talked about eight years later! (Editor's notes: Exactly! I think those who have problems with what I said, or interpret it without a sense of humor, probably aren't happy with their career. Those who are happy being a cam performer just laugh about it and continue their day.) |
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| "Take responsibility for your own actions, but do not use others to obtain material things in an immoral manner."Meh, immoral is subjective and cam girls are no less immoral than their customers. And they're not being "used." They are receiving a service that they OBVIOUSLY enjoy and are willing to pay for. The only time customers feel "scammed" is when they come in with unrealistic expectations. It's sad but certainly not at the fault of cam girls. A word of advice for hobbyists, stop trying to form relationships with these girls. If that's what you want take your ass to one of those adult social networking sites or a dating site. Otherwise, pay the woman, get your nut and bounce! | ||
| I think people should not judge others until they have been in their shoes. A lot of women choose to work as a webcam model/chathost to SURVIVE. Have you ever struggled to have food to eat or to put gas in your car? I have. I remember wondering HOW AM I GOING TO EAT? I have been down to my last $10 MANY TIMES. 10 yrs ago, I used to be a webcam girl- because I had a hard time working professional jobs, due to mental disabilities. I found a way to work from home making enough money to eat and get bills paid. The $$ varied. It was not something I WANTED to do at the time, i HAD to do it or I would end up on the street! At first I was nervous, but soon felt comfortable. I set my own hrs, didn't have a boss watching me, and I felt in CONTROL. The guys were always nice to me, with the exception of the cheapos or a few jerks. I felt I was giving a service to people and I had fun, eventually. But, one thing, it does take it's toll on you emotionally. Eventually i could not do it any longer. I am grateful for having a way to make $$ at the time, but I no longer do this today and would not go back to it. I think whatever one needs to do for themselves at the time, that is their choice and no one should judge. | ||
| I'm maybe going to give my point of view in the FULL PRIVACY GUARANTEE TO THE MODEL which is can be found in all sexcam site. The guarantee must said that the video can not be recorded and they have system that can block software who try to record the video. Maybe their system can block a software or program that want directly record the video. But what about a software which can record the computer screen? The easiest way to record the video is ask some webcam girls to do the private things, and while she do that the consumer record them by using a camrecorder maybe an HD camrecorder and shoot and record the computer monitor while the performer do the...private things. The next thing that the site usually guarantee a performer privacy is they can choose which state or country they want to restrict. Ermmmm....I can say it would be very easy to bypass it. And 9 out of 10 people maybe already know the way, while the other one could be taught maybe not for long only take 10-15 minutes to teach the person. Not really a techie stuff. If you already exposed in the net, you must be prepared to be exposed to the world. That's why it was and still called WORLD WIDE web. | ||
| I'm not surprised at how many self righteous men think more deeply about cam girls camming than probably most cam girls. They probably had their pockets picked cleaned at one point by a cam girl and have pent up issues because of it.
What drives all work in the world, is money. You fuckin' moron. Who works for free? Suckers?
Men are just jealous that they can't masturbate and make as much money as women, if they could, they'd do it in a heartbeat.
I work 10 days a month and 4 hours a day. I make enough money for rent, tuition, food, and booze. So, you haters can hate but shit, my life is awesome. (Editor's notes: Sex drives the world, and men can make money playing a solo on the devil's clarinet...ever heard of sperm donation?) |
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| To the editor, you are absolutely correct. It is a hypocrisy. "I find it highly amusing that they think people are stereotyping when referring who cam whores as prostitutes, yet they themselves stereotype and say "And the same people condemning us are the ones paying our salary and jerking off to our performances". It's exactly the same inaccurate prejudice, just reversed. Same offense, same guilt.)" | ||
| I really doubt many webcam models make much money. For one, they usually only received 35-50% of their per minute rate. Two, porn has evolved in the last 5 years, to where now you can find almost any movie content online for free. Third, even top-notch paysites are only $20-25 a month for a huge amount of content. Fourth, I have been on web-cam sites for going on a year, and I have seen multiple models I added to my favorites list quit and no longer are web cam models. Fifth, the more your on your web cam the less of a rarity you are -- so maybe you can keep busy being on 10 hours a week, but this does not seem stay true if your on 40 hours a week. Sixth, too many web cam models show things for free or for a low monetary tip ($5 or less) causing a lot of bargain shoppers. Seventh, savy web cam consumers (including even myself sometimes), and remember a web cam model's primary goal is interactive visual stimulation to get a guy to cum, work ourselves to a hard erection close to cumming point so we only spend 5 minues or less in a paid private chat. Finally, I think many models find it difficult to committ many online web cam hours because (a) the luxury of working at homes, (b) being on and friendly on camera can be hard and tiring and (c) so many customers can be jerks asking to see this and that for free; goring into paid private chat for 30 seconds to see your tits or pussy or maybe 3-5 minutes to finish off and cum. The conclusion is that some webcam models have made good money in the past, and the very elite few still do, but so many others make very medicore money to hardly any money at all and those quit the industry. At best, this is a part time job to supplement an income for help paying bills or extra money. My best guess is the majority of models make $500 or less a month. | ||
| To the Editor:
The gals on Stripper will defend their rights to do as they please with their bodies while they justify themselves because the money is sooooo good. They dismiss regular work because they feel they are better than that. The irony is, the anger and resentment at others that disagree with what they do, angers them that hints how much they need to even the score.
Ever been to a carnival where their are games of chance, and the odds are stacked against you? It is a similar atmosphere for them, while they wait in their lairs to suck in the next horny pervert that needs to pay to relieve themselves whilst some women giggle at how easy they can get a man to drool and spend for the luxury to wank. Where their enhanced bodies portray a fantasy that they justify because they dislike the real world that they can't deal with, and feel empowered to catch the next fish.
To the last poster here: Years ago a woman could work 1 site and make a killing, now you have ex strippers, porn stars and so many others that flood the competitive job they uphold and defend, that many need to work multiple sites. The true money maker is creating a fan base, creating their own websites, and use social networks to market and seek more and more people who believe they need to masturbate to a naked woman online.
It's not just a job it's a career for many. It is most likely the only job they can hold, or want, and defend it with contempt for others while they feel empowered and will attempt to make those who disagree feel insignificant while they feel powerful and in control.
In simple analysis, it's narcissistic and at times greedy beyond any rational thinking.
(Editor's notes: They have the right to defend whatever they want, and I enjoy the fact they found this posting. What a lot of people need to do, however, is consider what I posted in the context of when it was posted. After watching a show about web cam performers, who referred to themselves as "cam whores", my whole post is a bit of a tongue-in-cheek random musing. Then look at the past editor's notes and see that I often just take the opposite stance of the comment, just to have some fun. I find it highly amusing that they think people are stereotyping when referring who cam whores as prostitutes, yet they themselves stereotype and say "And the same people condemning us are the ones paying our salary and jerking off to our performances". It's exactly the same inaccurate prejudice, just reversed. Same offense, same guilt.) |
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| i want to see nacked womens | ||
| Smart men fuck for free too, smarter men do not pay for a fantasy, and the smartest men don't look to get scammed by smart women who work on cam. | ||
| Makes sense, and that's perfectly fine. Some people believe and prefer to keep their sexuality private. Some don't. So what?
I don't have a problem with people who decide to keep their sexual matters private, why do you guys have a problem with me? I set a bad example for the kids? Your children will never see me, my content is for mature audiences and so long as you've raised your children not to go on the computer looking for porn, my naked body will never be exposed to them. But you know who's naked body will? Every female on TV. Maybe you guys should protest more about sexuality in the mainstream instead of sexuality in content that's intended and always properly rated for adults.
I think people's prejudices against any group of people really are just issues that they need to look within themselves to fix. Living with hate and negative feelings towards any group that tends to be stereotyped, whether you agree with their views or not is just ignorant and not a healthy way to live.
That's all i have to say, and I'm damn good at my job. How many of you fucking wage slaves go on a message board ever to defend your job? With out getting paid?! That reminds me, i gotta get back to work so if you wanna fuck me Mr. Cakes, and I know you do, you can! For $6/min, 20 minute minimum we can get it crackin baby! (Editor's notes: A comment directed at me! Hello again to my friends at Stripperweb! It's amazing how much interest I can generate with an off handed comment posted one night, many years ago, of random musings after just watching a show where cam performers actually referred to themselves tongue-in-cheek as "cam whores". $6/min seems quite high, considering it's fairly trivial to find sex for the rate of $0/min.) |
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| Girls fuck everyday for free. Smart girls fuck for money. Smarter girls get naked on cam and make more money. | ||
| What drives this work is the money... it is all about the money,nothing else. For those who do it, they justify it by their necessity of need or greed. For those who disagree with it, they believe people are selling themselves, in a way, to the highest bidder out there. The fact that a person earns good money from it, does not make anything wrong or right, about it. A criminal believes robbing a bank is their job and that there is nothing wrong about it in their minds. But then again, that is against the law. The problem arises when the lure and greed of easy money replaces the morality of why people sell themselves sexually for money. If there was no demand for this, there would be no supply. We all should accept responsibility for it existing. For many they do this work as a means of survival, and for others it becomes quite lucrative. The editor, hit upon an important note in his last reply. "(Editor's notes: Religion is one reason why some consider sexuality to be taboo (which is very odd). But a lot of people (one could say most?) consider their sexuality to be a private matter among only their most intimate companions, so openly showing intimate sexuality (and especially for money) is taboo to those same people. Just as private sexuality may be taboo to a cam performer.)" Take responsibility for your own actions, but do not use others to obtain material things in an immoral manner. | ||
| Why is there so many emotions over our job? It's a job, like any other job, in a high-profiting industry. You guys need to get over it and stop associating so many emotions with what we do. It's just a job to us, not who we are. Not everyone is brain washed with the negative stigmas that religion has implanted in people's heads. Religion is the reason sexuality is taboo, otherwise, if you eliminate the bible out of all of it, sex and sexuality is just another human function. My beliefs are secular, and my dignity is defined by who i am, not what the bible and society built on christianity says is dignified. You guys are so silly, but its okay..yes I DUMB CAM HO...gimme monieZ to FUND drug habit and my 6 kids from 11 baby dadies! yesss!!! LOL dont you know your hate and how much you make what we do taboo just makes the demand go up. if no one gave a shit about negative social stigmas stemming from sexuality, the stock on pussy would go down due to the surplus of pussy, and no one would pay for our services. Instead you religious nutjobs put pussy and sex on a pedastool so your wives aren't fucking you cuz you didn't take out the trash and girls are using pussy as leverage to get material success out of life, and your husbands are cheating on you because everyone wants that forbidden fruit. Thank you. (Editor's notes: Religion is one reason why some consider sexuality to be taboo (which is very odd). But a lot of people (one could say most?) consider their sexuality to be a private matter among only their most intimate companions, so openly showing intimate sexuality (and especially for money) is taboo to those same people. Just as private sexuality may be taboo to a cam performer.) |
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| A bit judgemental that you say I had to give up my dignity and self respect. I do what I want to do within my boundaries. Most people masturbate in private. I just put on lingerie and do it on cam for money. | ||
| The day I care what an angry, prudish, judgmental child thinks of what I do... well, it's not today, let's just say that. Get over yourself, Mrs. Grundy.r (Editor's notes: Hello to my friends at Stripperweb! The irony of your tongue-in-cheek detector failure is not lost.) |
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| My husband and I both have college degrees. For years we thought we wanted to make our own porn and be porn stars together. I found camming when we graduated college and were waiting for a job. I started to make 500.00 a week the first week and it was fun. We both do cams together as a couple and we work 3 hours a day 5 days a week. For that time we earn around 2 grand extra per month. We also now have career jobs and earn great money with those. It's fun and it's not prostitution. It's not for everyone, but we are liberal and open about sex and nudity and have no problem showing our bodies. We also have kids, and they are not old enough to know what we do, but they will know when they are older. As we raise our children to not view sex as being dirty, but as being a normal and needed attribute to humanity. America has a huge problem with sex and nudity. Living in Europe for many years caused me to realize this. | ||
| Just because you're a webcam model doesn't mean you're degrading yourself. If you are comfortable with sharing your sensuality and don't feel like any less of a person, then how are you degrading yourself? I have been fortunate enough to maintain balance in my life. As a webcam model I get to satisfy my sexual and financial desires. When I turn off the camera I satisfy my spiritual and intellectual needs. I'm fluent in 4 languages. I have two degrees. I have a great relationship with my boyfriend. I've never felt so at peace with myself. I just laugh at people who judge me based on the fact that I do this. More often then not I'm at a better place in life than they are. | ||
| By gaining money to pay off bills, education, and to move your way through society is called "cheating/using people/being cold hearted" by any means of defiling yourself such as webcam shows, porn, gold digging, status clinching, fame worshipers, and many other things. Unless, you really needed food, shelter, warmth and find no possible way of trying to use a combination of your best skills for labor. However, I do agree many women do get abused, many treated like sex objects, and trained un-properly through their whole life by men, teachers and their parents (not only about sex but the adequate skills needed in order to survive in our economy independently). Many females will grow up unfaithful, cheaters, liars, UN-trustworthy, and the likes as our great country is declining from strong virtuous families. The future is uncertain for America and branches off many ways of multiplying destruction. God have mercy on our souls. | ||
| Im thinking of becoming a webcam model. Some girls from my school tryed it and became very popular among boys. Also made alittle cash. I think its a good job and you meet alot of people. | ||
| what are some of the ways I can protect my privacy? | ||
| I am a public school teacher and just started webcamming becaause my debt is crushing me and I need money to stay afloat. I am scared of losing my teaching job if I get found by anyone who knows me. Is webcamming nude a reason for a teacher to be fired, like, legally? (Editor's notes: In many (or most) areas, you can be fired for almost any reason without any recourse. As a teacher, it is almost certain that you would be fired if it is found out you are performing as a webcam chick.) |
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| Hello, as someone who has not done this yet, and am thinking about it. Can someone PLEASE tell him some names of companies that only have "view only" services and do not allow recording? Thank you. I am super nervous about someone finding a video of me in the future. | ||
| I do not understand why some people are hating on webcam models so much. It is pretty much the same thing as stripping, and not too many people oppose that. If anything, it is the men and women buying a webcam model's time that should be viewed as pathetic. All it takes is a flash of vagina to make these guys spend money. The models are in control. | ||
| I've been a webcam model for a little over a year now to help pay tuition and living expenses while I get my bachelors degree. Why is it so wrong for a woman to show off her body online when men do it much more often? There are millions of men who masturbate on webcam daily on clients like Omegle, ChatRoulette, and Camfrog. I'm certain these men, who seem to just want someone to watch them, would kill to have the opportunity that I have. Contrary to some of the other posters, I completely respect those who chose general labor jobs over the more controversial alternatives, but I don't understand how someone can argue that this job would affect faithfulness in any way. My boyfriend and I both consider this rationally in that the “modeling” is no more than showing my body to others. I don't feel any direct connection to the users nor do I build an intimate relationship with them as I have with my boyfriend (who, by the way, is the person I lost my virginity to AFTER I turned 18.) Most of the girls I grew up around had begun having sex regularly by fifteen. Regardless, I don't understand why others feel the need to attack those of us that enjoy sharing our bodies with others and generating some well needed income for doing so. There are plenty of women who go to the bars or clubs on the weekends simply looking to “hook-up” with someone. Are the actions of these people not considered immoral, as well? Men sometimes expect sexual favors after taking a woman out and paying for numerous dates, isn't webcam modeling just expediting that process and allowing both parties to experience gratification without commitments? This is definitely not something I intend on doing for very long and though I do enjoy showing off my body, being a webcam performer provides me with the opportunity to really focus on my education as I only have to work a few hours a month to pay the bills. It's unfair to assume that we don't have ambition and it's clear that many of the models who have posted here are well educated and ambitious. Another issue I have: Just because some girls do hardcore sexual acts, does not mean that all webcam models will do these things! Personally, the naughtiest thing I do is rub myself (I don't even do penetration) so it is completely unfair to make generalizations about the specific actions of these models. Each person decides what they're willing to do/share and with whom, it's not like we're all crack whores who will do anything for cash (at least not the classy ones.) Even if you completely disagree with the job description, who are you to making raging assumptions about those of us who honestly enjoy and embrace our sexual and financial interests? | ||
| I think if you want to submit your body to that kind of treatment then go ahead. As for as I'm concerned, a girls body is her privacy, not for the world to see. I have a friend that does it and they have kids. I have been told many a stories from what she calls friends. I just think if you make money off of something like web cam sex then you should be charged for prostitution. Not only this because to each their own, but if you are making that much money, and not reporting it to welfare and getting food stamps and medical for your children, then you are cheating other people that need it out of recieving food and medical for their kids. And don't tell me that college kids are not doing the same. No I am not jealous, because I am Gods child and I am beautiful, just prostitution is prostitution, and most of the people that do this need help. Amen (Editor's notes: God doesn't exist. Also, in many areas in North America, there is no crime called "prostitution". Most of the time it is the stuff surrounding prostitution that is illegal, not the act itself.) |
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| i worked as a webcam girl in the past and its not something i would do now, but when i did it i didn't feel like a whore, i just felt like i was playing around and making money it was fun for me. now i guess i feel my sexuality is a little different as doing it in person is a lot more fulfilling for me, but i wasn't feeling like a hooker or anything i just did what felt right in that moment. oh well!!!!! | ||
| I started as a webcam model in November 2010. With shifts in the economy, I was "displaced" from my career. I currently hold a college degree, but found acquiring a new job was quite a challenge. I decided to be proactive and found that becoming a webcam model was the best way to maintain an income. So now, I share with you what I have learned about being a webcam model and how incredibly beneficial it can be to anyone going through financial hardships. Now I have a blog all about what it's like to be a webcam | ||
| I am a cam model been doing it for 4 months now and money is okay I wish it was better but before i started doing it I didn't have any income coming in, I am kinda worried when tax time comes around because i haven't bought any lingerie or anything to write off the only thing i know i can write off so far is 1/3 of my electric bill and internet other than that I haven't bought anything for the business I had my webcam before starting this and don't have the receipt for it so can anyone else help me with this? | ||
| I'm an affiliate with most of the major camsites and a former webcam model. To anyone wanting to join the industry - beware, there is a good chance that you will be exploited in some way. Mainly by having your private shows recorded and released on major tube sites. Then, other people will get these videos, watermark them, and reupload them. This is done over and over until there isn't much video left. This is can be good or bad, depending on your perspective: good advertisement vs. bad reputation. If you don't mind being seen, webcamming is a great way for friendly, self-motivated guys, girls, and couples to earn a living. It's free to become involved and you are only limited by your creativity, motivation, and willingness. If anyone is intersted in becoming a webcam entertainer, contact me and I will give you all the details on the major webcam networks. Good luck out here. | ||
| Yo some of yall are just ignorant and I say this because some of yall who left comments on here doesn't think being a "Cam Girl/Guy" isn't some form of whoredom smdh.. When you find urself getting undressed for someone on a camera then you might as well be a f#%king pornstar, all that is really is prostitution except you ain't selling a$% on the street/block/corner whatever you wanna call it basically its legal prostitution you can't get locked up for it, if thats the d@## case then why lock those girls up selling a$% on the street? Its stupid. I don't care what some of yall cam girls/guys have to say but ur degrading urself and some of yall might need to know that some of ur private shows have been leaked all over the net because ur dumb a$%^& have been recorded smh. And yall perverts out there, are yall that lonely that you have to pay these girls to see their naked behinds on camera in order to get off? LOL come on thun these cam girls are laughing at yall because yall are that desparate to see even a pubic hair from the pu$$%. All this $h%& is really is mind control. | ||
| Well... If it is so good and decent job to be a camwhore, why those girls hide it from other people and even their family and loved ones. Remember, that when you put something on the Internet it will be there forever no matter what you would do to remove it. That is why I don't believe in stories of students of respectable professions erning for tuition fees and bills in this way. Their previous exploits would be quickly revealed and they couldn't progress with their prospected career after studies. Why study then? | ||
| I think it depends on the girl. I just finished a relationship with one (who I did not meet through her work) and she was an incredily jealous, possessive person who didn't like me even looking at another girl, despite the fact that she (as I found out) lied easily and enjoyed cam sex when she wasn't even working. It wasn't that she ever asked me for money - she earnt a lot and had 'supporters' - it was just that her job made her very selfish, to the point of being impossible to lve with. I think the fact she basically had many guys wrapped around her fingers and, by the standards of the country selives in and I work in (phillipines), is rich, made her arrogant. In fact, she did admit she likes to control men in relationships - the fact I didnt accept this was both a point of intense hatred and gratitude simoultaneously to her (internal battle maybe). Anyway.....I think if a girl is doing it for money but stays grounded, she's a very smart chick; if she's doing it for money but starts to believe her own hype (sorry but guys who use those sites are clearly lacking in the pulling department) then she's on a dangerous path to having serious pschological problems. This is , as you say, fucking for money albeit online. It doesnt make the gril a princess or prima donna - they start believing they are and reality has been left behind | ||
| i am a fuller gurl would i still make good make on web cams i am broke and just lost me boy friend of 5 years he payed the bills i need help before i lose every thing | ||
| Im a transsexual camgirl. I love it, hell im an exhibionist, and used to make vids and pictures just because i enjoyed it. One day I needed money because the econmy sucks and my regular job is not bringing in the money it used too. So.. i turned to my very large fan base, and started gettin paid! Its awesome, I like showing off AND getting paid.. I do it a couple times a month and usually make enough to fill in the lacking money, and then some. Im not making thousands a month.. im just a couple times a month girl.. an extra 500 is nice at the begining of the month.. anyhow call me a pervert, a weirdo, a slut whore... i dont care, hell I tell my customers I am.. Im a filthy little slut... and i luv it | ||
| All my clients have special needs that have nothing to do w/ nudity check utr facts. alot of webcam models r just paid to chat and say NO Nudity.. this is offensive take it down... Obviously ur just jealous.. And since u don't have time to talk w/ the webcam whores.. maybe u should stop talking about them all together. = ) W/ out us... people w/ special needs go over looked, and people get raped. TRUE FACTS... and calling people names makes u just as bad. : / this is really sad.. more like an out cry for attention. I hope u get wht ur looking 4 : / | ||
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| Wow thats alot of comments....ok, first off I think its okay for people to live there lives however they want to as long as there not hurting anyone. Do I think that its "ok" morally not entirely. But there are things WAY worse that are done in the name of money. Maybe your boyfriend is going on and watching camgirls, but guess what...it was his decision to get on and look at them. The definition of prostitution is : a woman who engages in sexual intercourse for money; whore; harlot. Which hey...camgirls dont typically meet with people, so there not prostitutes. They dont "engage". The second definition is: a man who engages in sexual acts for money. Thats the other shoe on the foot. Now the third defintion is :a person who willingly uses his or her talent or ability in a base and unworthy way, usually for money. How many people do you know that use there skills to sell something you think is low? Comon now, really? This is just buisness, for some they like doing what they do. More power to them if they do, its all about being happy. So dont judge people if you yourself have participated in the very thing your judging, like jacking off to porn. Thats hypocritical. There will always be people interested in porn and live entertainment, and there will always be people telling us that what we do is wrong. How will you live your life? By trying to inflict judgement on other people, or by letting people live freely. If your going to go for a camgirl position, the idea of selling yourself it either takes some major confidence and balls, or it takes putting your pride in the crapper. You just have to decide which person your going to be. Take the confidence one, in my opinion. If your going to do something, dont wallow in it. Whether your a sales person selling a really shitty product, or being a webcam girl working your stuff. No its not morally looked upon as good, but it is surviability. So if your family was going to be on the streets, or you needed to feed yourself, pay off your debt...would you become a salesperson selling something...anything? I'm sure almost any of us would, though we may not admit it. To all the haters out there just try to be a little more open to people who arent hurting anyone with there jobs, you dont have to like it entirely...but get your head out of your ass a little bit. Lol. Get some perspective. For the aspiring camgirls out there, if your going to do it, be prepared and stick to your standards...its easy to lose them when theres people throwing money at you. In the end thats all that matters, you'll hate yourself if you dont stick to your guns. Trust me...I know ;) So everyone go kick some ass in this world and dont spread hate, it only brings it back to you. | ||
| I'm a webcam girl, and I see nothing wrong with it. I chose to do it, and it makes me feel good. Being a full-time student in new york city, It helps me save and be able to live semi comfortably. I'm in a monogamous relationship with a man 22 years my senior, and he thinks its a good idea as well. I'm happy, he's happy, and honestly nothings wrong. I'm not hellbent on destroying anyone or anything. Being a cam girl isn't all I am, its just a part of me. And honestly, I don't see the reason people think its so wrong. I don't objectify women, I'm a normal girl in all ways. Look at it this way, If you don't like cam girls, don't come on our sites! | ||
| Oh man the ignorance is uncanny! Am I surprised, not the least. Everyone thinks the same thing, so who cares what your opinion is, its the same as everyone else's, get a life, worry about your shitty gov't and the world crumbling around you instead of women on the internet and what their lives really are, who are you to say what other peoples lives really are when they're not in front of a camera? Quite high and mighty of you! First of all, most girls on webcams are using it to pay off college, something that's overpriced anyways, for what? So they can regurgitate information rather than learn it, so they can go into the medical field and learn maybe a small portion of nutrition and then call themselves doctors (that's for those who have barely learned nutrition not those who have learned almost ALL of it) and then go out and prescribe people unnecessary medications to make money and a shit ton of it too, your sick because your nutrition is fucked up, so fix THAT don't cover it up with medicine, vitamins in high doses depending on the ailment will make your sicknesses cease...read a damn book! Get off the internet and couch and do something about yourselves before you judge others (if your christian by the way, it isn't very christian like to judge people so quickly)...and if you didn't like what I just said, then forgive me! Now, to ruffle feathers, IAM a cam girl, IAM a journalist, IAM a mother, IAM a contributing citizen in my city, by volunteering in homeless shelters, soup kitchens and CHOW pantries, I sign petitons and am a political activist, I vote, IAM a photographer for semi-professional sports (football mostly), I have sang at many nursing homes during the holidays along with my children, Ive donated money to charities, including PETA, Feed the Children (which is a bullshit charity in the "Land of Plenty"...shouldn't exist in this country we have food to go around), and Make a Wish...I do marathons, and walks to support hunger and breast cancer and Chron's disease (something my husband has)...and my favorite, we did Tough Mudder last year in N.J. (look it up if you'd like or just believe when I say its the HELL of marathons, you get electrocuted and you have to jump over fire and mud etc, harder than a police boot camp) have YOU done that!? No, probably not. I will say that I am not a whore, prostitute, skank, slut etc etc etc....Im everything BUT that...Im a very loving mother, my children have wonderful lives, and they APPRECIATE it unlike your 15 yr olds walking around the mall during school, so busy texting that theyre running into me and my 8 month old daughter without an excuse me or Im sorry, because you cant parent worth shit, I know lets give a 10 yr old a cell phone, give me a break! As for the comment with relationships and how we could never be with a "real man"...jokes on you unfortunately, I have been married for 8 years to my highschool sweetheart, weve been together for 12 years, we do not fight ever, he treats me like a total queen and believe me, he gets awards for that, hes a beautiful person and so Iam, just happen to make money off of being beautiful, because I can! So I can drive by you in a nice AUDI because thats what IVE chosen for my life, who cares about you, lay your shit out and let me critique your life without any knowledge to the facts, but you wont because your life is sad, here on the internet bullying in a different sort of light...so let YOUR husband (if YOU have one) read this, guarantee he will say you sound like a bitch and he wants rewards too! Hes looking at me because you have issues, not me...Assuming makes an ass of YOU and ME... (Editor's notes: Anyone who donates to PETA can be ignored in the future as their ignorance knows no end. PETA is a great scam.) |
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| oh also, I pay my fucking taxes, I take 33% out every check...you pay yours????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????? | ||
| There are many sweet girls on there, who will even tell you why they're doing it. You get to know them and have fun so it's not so impersonal, it's best when they forget they're doing a job and really get into it ;P I've fell in love many times, it's quite easy to do so with a large selection of girls to choose from. Preference your search and you'll find the perfect girl for you, I even found one with tattoo of my faveourite band! Luckily my love knows it's boundaries, but for some it goes too far and gets them in debt and ruins lives, the controversy isn't about the girls, but the customers. I love this because it's the next level of porn, I am a giant wanker true but this is amazing and you must try it. | ||
| I just want to say that I recently found an interest in the cam sites and have been freeloading because im just curious. I prefer to look at tasteful nude high quality photography rather than the cams none the less I was there checking it out. After a few days I got to thinking my girlfriend might be interested in doing this for a living, sure shes a little over weight, but shes got a sexy southern accent, large natural beasts, and many men like a larger woman. She said most definitely, before I even mentioned to her how much money she can make. See, shes epileptic, not very bad, maybe a seizure 2 times a year (we been together for 11 and have a child) so I asked her to not work. This will be a great way for her to make some money for our family and help provide for our daughters future and ours. I dont think she will do it for a long time, but we are both excited for her to start up this week. I dont see anything wrong with that. I believe with the added income I will surely start tipping these girls. Let me just add, shes in her 6th year in college going for her doctorate in psychology. Enough said, quit hating. You dont know these people. | ||
| Web Cam Girls are desperate women trying to lure in stupid and gullible men to earn quick cash. They are exploiting themselves, have no self respect and dignity. No normal man would want anything to do with them in real life. They lack empathy. Most are uneducated and can't find a proper job. Any person who subjects themselves to these kind of good for nothing money grabbing whores are highly stupid, and are a few can's short of a six pack. (Editor's notes: In the same sense, there are plenty of educated people out there who can't find a job. ) |
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| Webcam Girls...I want to start doing it....Im tired showing my webcam for free..........its nobody business on what you do.... To married women: If they get mad with their husbands..."you dont buy me that", "you dont get none". Darn, thats sound like a ............you get my point.. YOU GO GIRLS IF YOU ALREADY HAVE A BUSINESS.... | ||
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| they're whores clear and simple and will certainly never have any real meaningful relationship with a man ..i wouldn't trust a cam girl period..monogamy??? i don't think so..whore??? yup!!!! disgusting!!!! | ||
| I was told by a friend about this she said it would be something i could do to help me get by. I haven't a clue what any of what webcam girls do? Any advise on this? What is needed to become one? . | ||
| LOL @ Dexidoesit You are exactly like me. I too had a lot of debt after getting my BA. I decided to take control of my own life and my finances and have enjoyed every minute of it. My friends think I have a magic wallet because I don't blink when I decide to book a last minute flight across the country or want to take a month off to travel the globe. I love the freedom and have more self-respect now than ever before. | ||
| What exactly is with all this knocking of "feminists"? There have been pro-sex feminists since at least the 80's. You're talking about old-school, 70's feminists. I am a pro-sex feminist, and I am also an exotic dancer at a woman-owned, pro-women establishment, which encourages their performers to use the money to get a degree. I am going to school full-time because of my luck that I happen to be the owner and operator of a physically attractive body. I do not see a contradiction. Yes, there is a huge difference between what I do (or even what cam-girls do) versus my actual sexuality. As long as everyone involved is a mature adult that can tell the difference between reality and fantasy, then there's no problem. Of course, in the real world, men are frequently confused by the fantasy...I don't know what to do about that, other than to be completely honest with my customers, but it's clear to me that the problem lies in their misinterpretation. There was once a time when I used to lie to customers, letting them believe I'd see them outside of the club, or what-have-you, but I refuse to do that any longer, as I see it as contributing to the problem. If dancers / cam-girls / prostitutes / whatever are honest to their customers about what is actually going on, then I do not think what they are doing is immoral. Then again, I'm an atheist, so your mileage may vary. *shrugs* | ||
| to be a cam girl u have to know you're risks. ur out in the public and there will be some haters (I.e. below). u should also know things will get stolen and things will be out on the internet forever for anyone with a computer to see. u just have to do ur research and find a site that will actually protect you if videos r recorded of u or pictures r. OnHerCam provides great protection over their models and have a legal team ready to take down sites, owners and or stealers. also most girls in this industry are educated and are on a career path other than camming. most of these girls currently attend colleges and universities they are smart and independent. who cares if they decide to have a part time job taking off their close in front of a camera. playboy models do it everyday. u shouldnt be judging a book by its cover because some of these girls are actually desperate for this money. some of them aren't as privileged as others in getting high paying part time work (i'm not talking minimum wage that is not going to pay the bils) due to a lack of experience and not being given the opportunity to learn. many of these girls r in debt and want to get out of it fast before they kill themselves. most of these girls have dependents (im not talking children; i mean family members who they care for). most of these girls dont have the money to pay for school out of pocket and cant get private loans because they have no one to co-sign for them. most of these girls struggle paycheck to paycheck to make rent, tuition, cc payments, utilities, food, etc. they arent considered poor but they have a lot of expenses and have a lot of ppl depending on their checks every other week. Next time, if you're going to bash a person for the line of work she/he does, take a step in their shoes and if you won't/can't, you're too ignorant to understand so there is no point in us defending this industry. | ||
| How do you know we do CRAZY requests if you've never even been on a site? I find this hard to believe. ANYWAYS...cam girls are NOT whores. I'm a cam model and I OWN my own business. I cam at night time, under a different name,,,,different city....different country...and make an extra five thousand dollars a month that I don't even need to touch and can put in savings. That's pretty smart if you ask me. | ||
| I think it's unfair for men, after all, if I was a woman I'd be "horring" myself out on webcam too. I've seen sites that have male models but I doubt they make anything even remotely close to what the average female model makes, maybe 1/6th of what she makes if they look like Fabio & that wouldn't support a full time job. After all a male can't keep "polishing the bishop" after he's fired one off. lol | ||
| I am a student working on a masters in chemistry prior to medical school . . . . and I am a camgirl. It keeps me out of debt, I am able to support myself completely (I live in NYC so that is not the easiest task), and I am able to make my own schedule. While I wouldn't necessarily advocate this line of work to someone else (I feel doing something like this has to be a personal decision- there can be repercussions and everyone's comfort level is different) I am not ashamed of what I do. All of the people closest to me know and while no one is in love with it, no one thinks it's the worst thing in the world either. I make my own rules, I block my state, I never meet up with anyone, there is relative anonymity, and it is all done from the safety of my own bedroom. People who choose to do this are not prostitutes (they have intercourse for money as defined by dictionary.com and merriam-webster.com), we are not sluts (in my mid 20s I've KISSED only 11 people in my entire life, most people break that before the 12th grade), nor are we on a quest to destroy society. We simply need the money and are comfortable enough to get through this type of work. I doubt any camgirl thinks of this as a career or would even want it to be one- the majority of us have regular jobs as well: I also work in an office. I can't help but wonder why 80% of the people that are viciously against this type of work, and berate individuals who do choose it, seem to be women. I've scanned the net for tips on explaining this to someone in a relationship and the majority of men seem to advise simply telling the truth. Moreover, most (not all) don't seem to have much of a problem with someone that did it in their past, though most state they wouldn't want to have children with someone who currently was- they would have to stop first. I completely understand that- I too would not want to have children with someone who still had not formed some type of stable life for themselves. In contrast, the majority of women call everyone a whore or prostitute. I don't understand it. Maybe it has to do with jealousy, or maybe men are simply more comfortable with erotic entertainment . . . . they have an easier time viewing something for what it is (entertainment) and recognize that intimacy, emotions, and contact have nothing to do with any of it. It's sad in a way- so many of the patrons are either lonely and want conversation, some are terribly shy and tell me I'm nice so they like talking me (they have trouble talking to women), or they have some fetish they are either too embarrassed to tell their significant other about or their "other" refuses to entertain the idea. In a certain sense I actually think it is better for a man to come onto one of these sites and have a girl say dirty things to him or wave their feet around in front of the camera, than it would be for them to go cheat on their girlfriends or wives ("yes," a very sizable portion are married/in a committed relationship). On the other hand, I think it would be far better if women were more sexually forthcoming and willing with their partners assuming they are in a long term committed relationship- in no way am I advocating swinging from the chandelier with everyone a person meets. If it is jealousy that causes women to have such animosity all I can suggest is listening to the desires of your significant without hysterically laughing at them. If the animosity is because you feel you have such high moral standards and women like me are destroying society than more power to you; however, you could simply say you disagree with it, rather than calling people names. I don't call all of you frigid prudes who keep the lights off (because I know that it likely isn't true) so why do all of you insist on calling camgirls whores when it similarly isn't true- we don't have sex for money. This post could go on forever so I am going to cut it here. Though good luck to all my fellow cam workers on the job and in future goals. | ||
| Ok I need a little help here... I just recently got back with my ex, and she told me that she recently became a webcam girl. She certainly is in a bad place financially, but that's not enough to me okay with it. I guess what I fear the most is a cousin or friend of mine telling me what she did for him last night. But im thinkin if I could make money that easily... I would do it. So im lookin for some both male and female opinions on this situation. | ||
| In a perfect world, we have what's commonly known as intimacy, something that doesn't require initial visual and sexual stimulation, but simply a great deal of heartfelt empathy. Alas, we are in a world of a different sort, replete with all sorts of paraphernalia designed to "bring us together", but in actuality, keeps us at a "safe" distance i.e., the computer screen. I have to agree with Bill Cosby. If I am hungry for a steak, I don't satisfy that hunger by going to the nearest steakhouse and asking the chef if I can watch them cook a steak. In the end, from an objective viewpoint, it looks pretty dumbass. Gimme a break with your bantering and your defenses. Patrons, quit being cowards and go out and date somebody. Girls, try to remove yourself as one of the employees of Honest John's Pleasure Island as soon as you accomplish what you want. Men need very little help in making jackasses out of themselves. Or would you really prefer all of us with donkey ears and huge overbites? Why support another twisted form of human interaction. Don't we have enough already? | ||
| I started working as a camgirl officially a few nights ago. Ive done a total 3 sessions and I'm making a lot more money than my part time day job. Im a student and I need some extra cash flow for bills that my day job just can't cover. Working as a camgirl in the privacy of my own home is really convenient. I've met some nice people who help me out by promoting my shows in their chatrooms. I blocked a bunch of states and countries in an attempt to keep my privacy...which is probably useless. I like doing this in all honesty, but I come from a really conservative family and it bothers me to think that someday this is all going to blow up in my face. It probably is, but at the moment, I really don't feel like I can give up all the money and the attention. The attention is also a big deal to me. I've been in a relationship for almost 3 years...and we've lost our spark. He doesn't listen to me or look at me or talk to me like he used to. And when im on cam and people adore me and talk to me....it makes me feel so much better. I know many people are thinking, "how pathetic" but that's expected if you've never been in such a situation. I don't know if i should tell him about my new line of work and see his reaction. I'm afraid he'll explode and expose me. He has a horrible temper. I'm also consider just breaking up with him. He doesn't deserve to be kept out of the loop like this. Can anyone out there help me out....what did you do in such a situation? | ||
| Ive been a cam girl for about 6months now. I love it i wasnt forced to do it i like doing it. Yes the money is good 7-10k a month. But i have fun. I problay wont do it if it wasnt fun. Yeah i might not meet the guys In person on there but i do talk to them like there freinds because they are. People have freinds on facebook that they will never meet problay but still talk to them. I love camming. I dont think of it as a job but ME time and have lots of fun. I think alot of these people complaining about it should try it. I dont feel like im degrading my self. Most of these women are mad because there husbands like us cam girls more is my guess. If ur that agaist it get ride of the computer. Thats what the internet was made for porn right? Jk. | ||
| IMPORTANT IF YOU WANT TO BE A WEBCAM MODEL: I am 19 years old, and I would like to some day be a cop. I am in CA, and the economy is very bad. I moved out here when I was 18 with my boyfriend, graduated high school early, and achieved a job making more than the average 18 year old. I am now 19, and my boss treated me like shit on her shoe. So what did I do? I quit. I was jobless for 2 month. My boyfriend was supporting both of us with his 1,200 a month. I decided to start web modeling. I work 3-4 hours a night 5 days a week and make between 2,000 and 2,500 per month. Infact I've work 6 hours in the last 2 days and have made about $430. That equals about 72 dollars per hour. I am very faithful to my boyfriend, and have not shown nudity in 3 weeks. I love my job, I love working from home. I love talking to interesting people from all around the world, and dressing up. It's clean, it's fun, and it's not hurting anybody. Live and let live. So to sum it all up, I work about 15 hours a week, and make on average 2,200 a month. Imagine if you worked full time. I use LJ. :) Goodbye. | ||
| Hi there, I read your forum with interest. I too met a cam girl, and I am aware of how crazy it all is and how I am sure people would judge any relationship like this. All I can say is we quickly moved from just client and performer to deep, close and intimate friends. Sure she works everyday as a camwhore, and she admits it turns her on and she never has to fake an orgasm. But, for me there is no charge, any time she has to spare, she dresses up for me alone and has allowed me watch her pleasure herself for hours at a time. I have met online with her friends and children, we call on the telephone and not just for cybersex. I care for her and I believe, delusional or no, that she really cares for me. She weeps if I tell her I will not be online the next day, genuine tears. We sent each other gifts at Christmas, I made calls to find good mediators in her area to help with her previous boyfriend and their kids problems....I write her stories, she tells me hers. We laugh, we argue, we love....now maybe this is all some scam...but there is no money involved, she lives 4000 miles from me, but has her own house, life, family, friends so she does not need me or any man to support her. There is no reason I can think of why she would bother with me except for one thing....I think she loves me as much as I do her. So you tell me.....is this love or just delusion? | ||
| I am smitten with a girl from Romania she doesn't show anything and she really doesn't want to. She is a sweet girl going to school. We chat for hours and just have fun. Sex is not even needed. She is very shy and she sticks to her standards. That's why I like her so much . It is a nice outlet for me . I know I will never meet her but I love the attention she gives me. I think if she could she would do something else . Enough for now | ||
| you pretend to be smart but you don't, what you mean with the sites you worked on are "view only"?, looooooooooooool, do some better research, or better do a www search on your alter ego, i would be not surprised if you would find recorded shows of yourself. i don't know what you have been told by the site owners but there is no software who will protect you from beeing recorded. you really think you can make only blurry printscreens/hardcopys of video treams nowadays in 2011??? you have really studied ?? do some better reseach naive girl. | ||
| To be begin with you do become a prostitute whatever anyone says.. Prostitution is ordinarily defined as performing any kind of sexual services in exchange for money. There is no reason why it has to be restricted to direct physical contact with a client. And this has nothing to do with how intelligent or classy you are, but simply with your ethics, and with how low you may allow yourself to sink in pursuit of financial gain. If webcam girls are so comfortable with their work, why are they so careful to hide it from the knowledge of family and friends? How can you expect to maintain a relationship when you are making yourself available, both sexually and emotionally, to countless men? How do you feel about being degraded and humiliated by perverts from all over the world? And there are plenty of more practical reasons to avoid this. The sites claim to guarantee full privacy, etc.. but anyone involved with that industry long enough can tell that in the end shows DO get recorded and posted all over the internet. Strong protection systems can be designed, but that’s what hackers are for; to create even better methods to overcome them. And so far pirates have been immensely successful with tons of megabytes posted in pirate forums. Besides, all it takes for a client to film you is to use a simple modern camcorder from his side of the screen… Either way, the traces of what you’ve done will remain and may come back to bite you at the most inappropriate moment in the far away future… This, by the way, goes for the clients as well as models. Most camsites maintain the recordings of all private shows for several years and no one can guarantee that this database wouldn’t be leaked. Chances are that you will be found out sooner or later. If you do this to earn the money for better future for your kids, do you think they will still want any of the things you bought for them once they realize where the money came from? There are very serious health risks too, especially in a studio environment. If computers and furniture are shared by several models working in shifts, this paves the way for spreading stds. Even for models working from home, unless you sterilize your hands and equipment before every performance, the risk of infection is almost inevitable. In the end, it’s just not worth it, particularly if you live in a developed country and have other options. By the way, I’m not a feminist. Just sharing some informed knowledge that I managed to accumulate about this industry. | ||
| Speaking of whether they stay or leave, I've noticed lots of girls/guys have multiple accounts on different sites. So, then, two questions: 1) How does this happen? Is it deliberate on the part of the website or performer? Or do all the clients just put up enough links that it happens without consent? 2) Does this complicate quitting and how? | ||
| Hey, I am interested in becoming a cam girl... Does anyone have any tips? I am an exotic dancer and just wanna know if the income is comparable? And what is the best site to start out on?? | ||
| For most girls involved in the industry this is temporary. They work on webcam as an additional way to pick up so extra cash while studying or to pay the bills while looking for something else. Most will leave as soon as they graduate or find a normal job. In fact, most hate doing this and as soon they discover alternative source of comparable income, they will burn the bridges without thinking twice. Having said that, there are some mainly older experienced women who become so good at this that they choose to stay on and pursue this work as a full time career. Such women usually earn in excess of 100$ thousand a year and feel pretty comfortable with this job as they know all the tricks and intricacies. Even as they get older they can move into mature category that's still popular with many clients. If your girl falls in the latter category, don't worry too much, she'll be alright. She knows very well what she's doing and probably enjoys fairly pleasant life. Remember, successful camgirls earn more than most of their clients do. | ||
| Ok, Trust me, She won't die. I suggest you get away from your computer and go outside and smell the flowers. | ||
| I can clearly see there is no clear "yes" or "no" answer ... there is much wisdom here and I thank those for posting. I just need to know one thing -- change of subject, if you will. If someone becomes a webcam performer, do they stay that way forever? Do they ever decide to do something else? I fell in love with one two years ago, and she's been there every single day for the last three years. I know that's her right and her choice, so I let her be, and I wish I hadn't fallen in love but when it happened it happened. I'm so tired and I've been through so much psychological and mental pain and I just need to move on and for someone to tell me she won't die while she's online, that's all I want. | ||
| I got introduced to camgirls about 9 years ago by a friend who came round to my house and said "man you gotta check this out". I was 22.... needless to say, I was bown away.no pun intended. I spent the following year or two enjoying the site i had been introduced to (so no i didnt go looking for it). I had a favourite and we got on well, i genuinely believed that and still do. I was young, shy at first, good looking, had a disposable income and english (modest and charming too lol). Well i was drunk and invited and offered to pay for this girl to come to uk and she really took my word, at the time i must have meant it but i was drunk and in a fantasy world on a computer. The thing is she seemed genuinely upset that i blew her out. Thats the thing, is it fantasy or is it real, there is definately a line and its sometimes difficult to see . People definately form friendships and realtionships from it and people definately get scammed. Some of the girls seem to enjoy it and some dont, but then i deliver parcels and sometimes i enjoy that and sometimes i dont. I actually got blocked by a host, cos in her free chat she asked me what i liked and i told her i like a striptease and cam2cam fun. I asked her what she liked and she said chatting to my friends to which i replied "what your friends that pay you money to speak to you", at which point i got blocked. Guess it was my tone. Thats the thing, you can make friends on these sites but if you have to pay someone to talk to you then, GET REAL, they are not a friend. Ive had chats with hosts about this and generally speaking they dont like talking about it, unless im paying them of course! Anyway i enjoyed the site so much i must have spent about £1000 in a year on it. I was addicted i spose. i enjoyed it but the temptation was always there and it burnt a hole in my pocket. All this wonderful technology to improve communication around the world and what do so many of us do with it, women squeeze men for cash and men perv on girls. Yes we really are that primitive! Sometimes i think having a penis is a curse, its hard being a man, walking around town checking out all the girls. We really are drooling desperate animals sometimes. I think it was better when i was a virgin(19 by the way) at least then i didnt know what i was missing out on. O yea i was so addicted i got rid of my pc, all i used it for was maturbating and gambling and i realised i would do something far better with my time if the temptation wasnt there in my room. But alas I am single again and i am back to my old ways. Only this time i think i might be about to be scammed by a Romanian host who probably hates all men and thinks im a wanker...she s probably entitled to that opinion though! | ||
| AT THE END OF THE DAY ITS NOT REAL,ITS A FANTASY-NO PHYSICAL CONTACT IS MADE..... SO MANY BIGGER MORE IMPORTANT THINGS TO CRITICIZE AND ANALYSE IN THIS WORLD. AND IF MEN MEET UP WITH GIRLS THEY WILL ALWAYS WANT MONEY-ITS NO LOVE STORY..SO JUST REMEMBER ITS JUST AN ILLUSION AND PEOPLE WHO HAVE NEVER BEEN WEBCAM MODELS HAVE NO WEIGHT TO THEIR OPINIONS. | ||
| i wanna kno can i be a male webcam pron star? oh i like the ideal of been a male webcam pron star n i'm very interested of a male webcam pron star.... but i like what u have going for yourself n i wnat apart of the action.....as a male webcan pron star!!! | ||
| Who is this "editor"???
what a sad, sad person. (Editor's notes: The "Editor" is someone who enjoys fanning the flames...) |
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| im a young 21 year old female looking to become a web-cam girl, im a small bbw but with a cute face i just want to know what site would be best to start with, because i am a single mom and have been out of work for some time and really need to make some money. please email me if you have any ideas | ||
| Ha! Omg -I literally just composed myself from laughing so hard. Prostitutes? Really? I just finished getting my BS in Industrial Design. Within a few years, you may be using items in your everyday life that I helped get out there. I had well over 10 grand in school-related, or (thanks to a terrible investor,) economy-related debts. Guess how much I have now? 2k. Guess how long Ive been a cam-girl? Not even near a year. :P I also rent a 2br loft in a very high-end area of Atlanta, with ease. Im 24, have a dedicated fiance (going on 4yrs! yay!,) speak 4 languages fluently, have graduated college, and my SAT score was 1589. What have YOU accomplished that makes you better than I? Im here to fill in a few "blanks" people seem to be making up their own answers for: PRIVACY**All the sites I work with offer the ability to block your state, or even country from being able to see you. So my privacy - not an issue. If -somehow- my mother sees me on a web cam show outside of the US, we have other family issues than me being a "dirty-dirty-girl." I never use my real name, you create an alter-ego for yourself. Its fun, and allows you to be that girl you feel like being. EDUCATION** Because I enjoy being naked & lets face it, being paid heaps of fat cash for it, I am obviously uneducated, and a lower-class citizen? OH WAIT! I have a BS. Guess you're incorrect. Sorry. Sure, loads of fools will flock to easy money - but in my opinion, its the ones who DONT that are way more dumb. RECORDED SHOWS** Again, no. Do some research with this one. Most - though not all - cam sites are view-only. The specific sites I work with do not allow background programs capable of recording to run while using the site, or its contents. One in particular will actually END my session if it suspects malicious software. The MOST someone can do is [Print Screen] and thats just a pixelated still of my boobs or something else ridiculous, and honestly, prolly not on their mind if Im on camera. ;) PORN SITES** The "shows" on literal porn sites are usually made "professionally." And are not stolen shows. Some guys enjoy the "idea" of a cam-girl, but dont want to pay for it. These faux-shows are made for that reason. MEN GIVING ORDERS** Only girls who let the guys call the shots get given "orders." Most of us just have fun, like the cam is barely even there. We feel sexy, and attractive, desired even. Keep in mind the girls you saw on television were CHOSEN for a reason - and its prolly cause they will do ANYTHING. The majority of us prefer to "keep it classy." A good number of guys I talk to want just that - to talk. Their wives dont chat with them anymore, or they are lonely and want a companion, but not a relationship. I am their "look and never touch" friend. In short, keep at it girls (and guys!) Any woman who says she doesnt like the attention of other people - is lying. Cams let you be you, only naked - and rolling in money! I even used my "stage name" for this comment, just to show you that even with it - you will have trouble locating my cams. I really hope this post will help anyone who is afraid of cams, or thinks they are 'evil," or whatever else they can think of to call it. Hey feminists: Your husbands are the big spenders. Just a small FYI. | ||
| I am going to start caming this week I have a two year old little girl that has autism so it make it hard to get someone to babysit her I am BBW a big girl size17 so with me beening that size how much can I make I can only work 5hours and nite like 8p- 2a I need to make 300.00 a mouth more SSSSSSSSSSOOOOOOOOOOOO HELP THANK YOU | ||
| i want to c a girl like me naked!! dont be scared come on!! | ||
| In response to Corbin, I believe a lot of women and Feminist Groups are against pornography NOT because they truly believe it to be demeaning to women but because they don't want their husbands/boyfriends/fathers/sons watching porn. Be it jealousy, or simply concern for a loved one they shouldn't be hiding behind "Women's Rights." I am an attractive cam girl and make a good living off of my site. I am able to do what I want to do and can ignore the requests I personally find wrong. Whats demeaning about that? | ||
| My personal thoughts..Its not Modeling. I have had a run in with a "web cam chat hostess" that was like your just to ugly to be a model like me. The fact is she could not cut it in the modeling world to make a buck and turned to shoving dildos up her @#!#!. I am sick of people thinking they are hot sh@#. no I am not Jealous. I just am amazed at what people try to call art and modeling. I am an artist and struggle for my art...and There is not short cuts. the fact is if you get into the web cam industry ....most modeling and acting places won't touch you...thats a fact. no amount of money is worth selling out your self. | ||
| this one good thing ?slavery other people online who has family and children s this all pornography hell THIS IS good way ? growing family this dirty things this is pissed for this how many girls ? slavery for the guys this not love same happens with you children when this see this how they grow up like that i think better you not make children shame girls shame women YOU ALL ROBOTS and emptiness HUMAN GET LIFE don't know many women s what is purpose of life get carrier dirty pigs shit dirty girls .you all slavery the humanity | ||
| Meh... webccam girls don't have sex with anyone, so no, they're not really whores. Anyway, you gotta do what you gotta do to pay the rent, eat food and take of student loans. seems like a great option to me when there doesn't seem to be a single job out there. P.S. I find working as a janitor or at wendy's or something much more degrading that flashing your tits and ass a bit. :p (Editor's notes: What's wrong with the honest hard work that a janitor does? Hell, if I needed work and the only available job was as a janitor, I'd pick up the mop and bucket.) |
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| I stumbled onto this and I am glad i did.I just want to say THANKS webcam girls,You rock.I have been been going to one of these sites for a year now and have got to know many charming ladies.Even though it is your job and online it is still very interesting and fun to be able to talk to some of the most buetiful girls in the world.Hold your heads high ladies at least you are taking care of yourself and you families instead of living off the welfare system like so many are.My hat go off to you girls.:)See u in ur room | ||
| As a visitor to these sites and seeing some of the disgusting things some of these girls do for money, I have come to the conclusion this is all wrong. Girls will pee and excrete, pushing dildos up their asses in pvt and public. What has life come to when a girl comes on cam and has orgasms for perverts all around the world ? When you are on cam you have sickos watching you from all over the world. Your sessions end up on porn sites, so please do not try and glorify or justify this business. It us online prostitution and nothing else. These sites are just big online brothels. Men sometimes think they can make friends, but believe me the girls are not interested in you just your tikens ti make cash. We should question why are so many girls falling trap to this industry, and why have the governments forced so many women into debt through studying that they feel that they have to prostituet themselves to get through life and support themselves. | ||
| Youre whores get over it. You may be going crazy over the amount of cash youre making but its not exactly like youve got a lifelong career going here. Or maybe youre planning on being 65 years old and showing your tits to strangers for cash. Either way no one has respect for you. Its a cheap way out, by people too stupid to get an education and a career- and what about starting a family? Thats a great gem to tell your husband if any ones desperate enough to marry a whore. Or maybe your kids can learn about you from their single mother who wakes up being 30 years old wondering awhat point she completely screwed her life up. | ||
| I was looking for this very topic. I do send a girl money and we have cyber sex. This is MY choice to do so. She is an absolutely beautiful girl..in my taste.... I've sent her gifts before. I just sent her a birthday present. We may never meet or get together but, it's sure nice to be with her, shes gorgeous. She took a bath for me one time on cam ..it was beautiful... I loved it. I do know some of her background. When I first found the camsites..it was just me watching the girl...this is the first girl I c2c with and its great. I love the attention and our interaction. It kind of brought out my naughty side. I'm generally very conservative about my sexuality. We do have times on cam also that is not paid..but we are dressed and just chat. She is a gorgeous young woman... of age...and her accent melts me in my chair. She has mentioned to me before that someday she hopes she doesn't have to do this but right now doesn't know what else to do. The set income where she lives is pretty low. After awhile I asked her if she would c2c even if i didn't have any money. She said, "I would have never started this if i didn't need the money." Yes...I was bummed..dam... but, I still do it. I like her a lot. She has sent me just beautiful pictures of herself and some naughty ones....if it's a scam well dam... I have a nice little pictorial on my comp :) of a sexy woman. I think for the most part she is real...but I have to keep in mind that it IS the internet and take it with a grain of salt. I will probably continue to see her. Some other thoughts. I have to keep, though extremely difficult, my feelings aside. Shes a paid camgirl... she has to give attention to a lot of men. Yes, I get jealous sometimes. But.... mehhh I deal with it. I'm pretty sure sometimes she tells little white lies to please the current moment but doesn't really mean what she says. I do see a negative side to some of this. I've read a lot of the posts on here and I can't help but think that some of the camgirls here are subtely apologizing for themselves for what they do. Just an underlying sense there..no offense. One of the posts I read.. the woman was very angry and bashing men...well then why are you a camgirl? lol...while there are some decent guys out there.....you are in a line of work that attracts womanizers and assholes...you chose to do that. I've become freinds with a few paid girls and have them on messenger. There are some things I don't agree with ... the girl I see does have a 'boss' and he gets 50 percent....what a load of bullshit. The girl does all the work and the boss gets 50 percent...fuck him. I think A LOT of girls get taken advantage of...I want to see the big boss man get up there on cam and shove a dildo up his ass.... fuck U boss man. Excuse my french.... that just pisses me off and is NOT fair. If that last comment gets the post taken down...oh well. In the big picture yes..it's prob not the most moral thing to do and who will tell ME what my morals should be? IT IS selling sex for money as stated in one of the posts. Chathost...camwhore...entertainer...whatever...that is what it is..lol. I really only want to be c2c with the girl I see now..no others. She has told me about some of the good and bad about what she does. I don't agree with everything that happens in the camgirl world there are sites I've been to that can only be described as disgusting. Jasminelive...whatever...god what a ho gathering lol. I've typed too much... happy camming...just remember to take it with a grain of salt.... toodles......... | ||
| Help!! I am currently addicted to a webcam girl, and don't know what to do. I met her at another site, and started chatting with her then followed her over when she went to the cam site. Now I can't get enough of her! I am in her cam room every night the entire time she is on, and also pay her for time separately away from the site. She is very friendly to me, and we Yahoo chat (no money exchanged) when we're not "playing". I can't stop thinking about her, and it is affecting other aspects of my life. One of the problems is I'm married and have been juggling expenses trying to hide it from my wife but won't be able to much longer. Our sex life has also suffered. Don't know what to do. Any suggestions..... | ||
| I am a single mother of 2 and am a chat-host as a part-time job, supplementing my income with over $6,000/mo. I have the ability to block out my entire state from seeing I exist on the site. I can provide a life for my children that they deserve. I am not sure whether they will ever know about this second job, I don't plan on it, but I will be honest with them if they do. I classify this job as being safer than being a stripper. And, yes, Mixed Nuts hit it right on the head. I am not here to fall in love. Chances are, if you are on the site paying for this, you are not my type. Having men fall in love with you from the site is the hardest part b/c the majority don't under$tand what it i$ all about....... | ||
| This is a very subjective topic. Some people are okay with it, some are not. Some would be if they could do the job and make as much money as many webcam models are. It's pointless to argue, because the people involved are obviously accepting of it, and who is to judge? Neither party is right or wrong.. | ||
| Hi you all! I came through this site looking for info because I am thinking of getting into the webcam industry. Boy am I surprised with some negative comments from women. But being a person with strong personality I dont get affected by bad comments and nothing can stop me. I am an attractive girl, inside and out and I want to take advantage of that while I can and while I am young. I am here to get more info from positive attitude cam girls and those that can give me tips and share info. I really want to get into this and I want to start off good. I live in NY, USA and it would be a plus to talk to someone from US but all the help is appreciated. Please girls remember when you started and you knew nothing about it? I am there now and would like to know more. Dont hesitate to email me if you like to help a sister :) Of course I also appreciate the help of a man if they have been in this industry or run this kind of business. Thank you all in advance! Will be waiting for your emails. | ||
| Jackie, only if they notice you. Consider that alot of video archives are made of your cam sessions and they get distributed around various porn sites. So maybe if your new boss is a guy who likes to watch porn, he might recognise your face. But lets be honest, chances are very, very slim and i would imagine that your appearance for cam work would be very different to that of a nurse. Good luck. | ||
| I do have to say that some people really need to start thinking outside the box and put themselves in others shoes. I am HAVING to resort to being a webcam girl. Yes, I admit, when I was young being a stripper and a porn star sounded like the most amazing job because you are young and who wouldn't want to dance and have sex to make all that money? You don't really know better. As I've grown older, mind you I am 20, I have come to realize what all that actually means and grew out of wanting to do anything of the sorts. I'm a full-time college student and my schedule changes every 4 weeks, I am suppose to get enough money in loans to cover my bills and living expenses. That lasted for 1 months bills. I am now and have been struggling to find a job. No one wants to hire me because of the constant schedule change. Before this, I was a manager for a salon and have had no problem with getting hired. As time goes on I am getting more and more stressed about having money for my bills, which I have never been late on. So now think of it from this point of view. You have a week to come up with money to pay your bills, car, rent and you have only the necessities. This equals to over $1,200. You have asked everyone and their mom to loan you money and no one will or they don't have it. How are you going to come up with this? Obviously that is when you are going to do anything needed. Then you also have to consider if you do it for x amount of time and save x amount of money per month, you could have a really good life. House, car, everything paid off before you are 21 and still have a good amount left in savings. These days it is all about survival and doing what needs to be done. Don't judge others because they don't have the luxuries you have and all the people in the world to help them. It's personal preference and if this is the only way someone can make themselves money, then so be it. More power to the MEN and women who have confidence to get on there, show what they have, and be comfortable with themselves. At least we are not putting ourselves at risk for diseases, stalkers (if your smart), and other horrible things like woman stripping, dancing, and doing "VIP" services. | ||
| okay first it sounds like your jealous, im 20 and have been working for 2 years and i love my job kids don't get tormented for little things like that! | ||
| hi i am in school for nursing and was wondering if i became a web cam girl would it affect my chances of getting a job as a nurse... (Editor's notes: If they recognize you...) |
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| bullshite!!!! the lady who created that thing is jealous to the bone, i bet if she would try once and do it for few months, she'd shut her mouth for good! I am webcam host and i even told my mum about it, can afford things and dont have to worry about any thing. the ebst thing is webcam models are still needed and they can be in all shapes and sizes:), as long as u have great personality and loads of smile to cheer up a man:) and those money........... hey its a good deal! thumbs up for all webcam girls!! we are big:) | ||
| I would like to say, I am a 31yr old mother of 2 and I am an onlince chat hostess, I love my job...it allows be to be there in the morning for my children before they go to school and then again when they get home from school. I only work when the kids are in school or when they are in bed for the night. This allows me to be with them for school functions and the flexiblity to enjoy spontaniuos family outtings. I make an average of $500USD a week from just one of the sites I work for. Camming is safe, if you use your head and it can make a good income or supliment income. There is nothing wrong with being a Chat Hostess and I never gave up my dignity or my family's dignity to make a better life for all of us. (Editor's notes: You are free to do what you want, but I wonder what your kids will think when they are of age? And what kind of torment they will go through in school?) |
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| nobody takes feminist seriously | ||
| i am from Kenya in Africa and i earn a salary of 600 dollars. pretty bad. i was introduced to web cam by my friend in the states and within a month i had 4000 usd. so why the heck should i work come on guys its all about the money and controlling your own freedom. heck i love this 100% | ||
| I'm a well educated man and have had a lot of experience knowing cam girls at work and off. I am good friends with only 2.. we share life experience,photos,and trust believe it or not. I'm in america they are in romania and both girls have been in the cam biz for 3 yrs. One of the girls is in charge of 30 others at the studio and has given me an insight to the biz as with myself being a ex camsite member. My 2 friends are very honest with me about what goes on,the deception,lies,back stabbing,jealousy,bla bla. they both put it very bluntly.. we are there to make money nothing more,and we will say anything to mbrs to get pvts whether true or not. what gets me is the naive guys out there that believe every word they say in free lol. lets face it,i have the knowledge from both sides so I see both perspectives. but ladies c'mon! lets be honest about this(chat host?..lol!). the one's there in nudity are there to masturbate for mbrs(omg did i use the masturbate word..why are cam girls not using that on this blog?). The biz is what it is... i could write a book of the pro's and con's with all the info i have. I have helped my one cam friend with her work,sites,photos,etc and i enjoyed it. we even send packages back and fourth to each other across the globe. my advice to anyone joining a camsite as a mbr... if your there for virtual sex..great! do it but dont take it too seriously...cam girls are not there to fall in love guys. like any job it's about money and survival in this world. I am respectful of all as it's not my place to judge... but I also am honest and dont sugar coat anything. The cam biz has a nasty side that many novice do not knowabout,but... there's good & bad in everything. my friends tell it like it is with me..they really hate the biz and are there because as mentioned above the RO income is terrible and cant make enough to survive on. keep in mind readers... these 2 close friends tell me everything and i mean everything..the sick side,the pervs,the bad ppl and the good ppl. The cam biz is like a can of mixed nuts... there's all kinds,some u dont like and some u do lol! I have personally seen what the cam biz can do positively or negatively to a person whether performer or a member. after all ppl... we are all humans with human emotions. as far as trust on a cam site or online period... it's a rare thing which is why i only trust 2 ppl in the cam biz. bottom line guys... if your there for sex then have at it. if your there to meet pretty girls.. try a diff source. and performers... pls remember there are good mbrs also and not all bad but as far as trusting anyone online... good luck with that,afterall it's only virtual. I'm very fortunate to have 2 great friends i met on a cam site so I consider myself one of the lucky one's. take care- mixed nuts | ||
| if you don't like webcam girls then switch,i love all of them | ||
| I am a new webcam model and have been online for 23 hours. So far, my earning are over $2,000. That's all I have to say. (: | ||
| I started being a web cam girl about 2 weeks ago - I'd lost my job and it fitted nicely between my job hunting and gave me more money coming in than job seekers allowance. I do have a boyfriend and he dosen't know - I've been online whilst he's working. I'm actually a big girl - a size 20/22 with a belly and bum and some nice breasts. lol. I didn't think i'd make much - but wow am I popular. I don't have sound and can only do a few hours a few times a week but am averaging £20-£30 an hour - thats without any self advertising or promotion. Have just requested payment of over £200 Am actually really considering doing this on a more full time basis - renting a nice office so that my partner think's i'm self employed - paying my own tax and n.i etc.. I've worked out that I could easily earn £2500+ a month It dosent make me feel like a whore or a slut - SEE A NEED - FILL A NEED. If I can make that much money without any physical contact or them having any of my personal details - then where's the harm. Saying that - I wouldn't want my family or my partner to find out - Not because i'd be embarrasses or anything - but because I know they would be very against it. | ||
| The proper term is 'video chat host'...and we are NOT whores, thank you very much. We don't meet any of these guys in person (and you're not supposed to be giving them your personal info anyway) nor do we have sex with them. Basically, we are just eye candy for guys who are horny and need something nice to look at to help achieve that...um...happy ending. LOL. And honestly, some of these women who badmouth strippers or cam chat hosts, are probably also jealous because they make crap pay at their day jobs where showing up late for work can get you fired. *smh* It sucks working your ass off at "regular" jobs and making only $7.50/hr. At least in the cam world, you are your own boss working the hours you want to work, and there will be days when you make much more than $7.50 within a one-hour period. :) People need to mind their own business and stop being so judgemental. And I (as well as one of my friends) have noticed that I have become a happier, more-relaxed person since I quit that stressful $7.50/hr job and started working from home. | ||
| I think it's kinda funny that so many people on here are running off at the mouths about cam girls' dignity and having no respect for themselves. *rolls eyes* You probably have negative thoughts and comments about lingerie and nude models too then, huh? Women who are hot and not afraid to show it are always being ridiculed for it, and it's a damn shame. Some of you sound almost as bad as the Bible thumpers on Facebook...lol. Maybe you choose to hate on these women because they make great money working for themselves from home? Or maybe you just have a stick up your ass and believe that anything "erotic" should be forbidden...lol. Oh, and we DO have respect for ourselves, because we realize that we don't have to settle for "regular" jobs, being bossed around and told when we can eat and when we can use the bathroom. It's nice to be able to work at home when it's convenient for us, and to be with our kids more...as opposed to paying $200/week having them in daycare all day. And we don't have to put up with rude and disrespectful guys in our chatroom, thanks to the wonderful "DISCONNECT" and "BLOCK" buttons. :) I just don't like seeing people stereotype us as women who have no respect for ourselves. If you were to enter my chatroom and get to know me, you'd realize that is far from the truth. I love and respect myself, and maybe if other people would love and respect themselves too, they wouldn't feel the need to badmouth people they've never even met. Just my two cents. :) | ||
| has this discussion been going on for SIX YEARS? that"s gotta be a record. I came across this because I'm trying to research being a webcam model, because I want to be able to stay at home with my 2 y/o. I need to go back to school, but I want to wait til she starts Pre-K at least. These years are so precious, I don't want to look back and say I missed them. If I hop on cam when she naps or after she goes to sleep at night, I wonder if I can make enough to supplement my hubbie's income? Ladies any advice? Also will i look cheesy if i have a (really good) wig on? i want at least a little anonymity. If anyone has any success or horror stories that you wouln't mind sharing please email me | ||
| Many womon are forced to take commends all day, hate every day they have to go to work, meet men they'd rather puke on then talk to, and yet smile all day and are "respected members of the community".. they're called secretaries... So when a girls decides to turn things around and have mindless idiots begging to see a bit of her (instead of haveing them call them "boss"), sending money as if they get it for free, while the girls make good money doing hardly anything at all... then who are you all to judge these girls? If you really want to do something about "poor girls that have to take crap all day for little pay" then go and lobby for the secretaries... I run a (non-nude) webcamsite myself, and believe me, none of these girls are, or feel, abused or degenerated but -just like 99.9% of the sexcam performers- they do whatever they like and just do what many more girls then the ones who do this for a job, do for free enyway. Of course some performers at times do things they'd maybe rather not do i guess, but probably a lot less often then anyone does in any other job. So when a girl chooses to work from the safety of her own home, and instead of taking crap from guys for secretaries wages decided to hand out the crap for app. 10 times the pay, then i again just feel sorry for the secretaries.... maybe that's a good iten to start a forum about, becaue this whole discussion about the "poor" girls taking money for (almost) nothing from the "poor" idiots that spend way more then they can afford, seems a bit weird to me.... | ||
| I have got to say, and this is directed to PAULIE from above....that you are fullll of it. I am a college student, graduated from an expensive and highly prestigious university. I have a bachelors degree. I am mentally, emotionally, and physically stable and I am considering webcamming. WHY? I do need the money. My bachelors degree in this economy is not enough to survive on comfortably. I plan on attending a trade school and then med school following that, and see webcamming as an excellent form of income. I believe it is a business...one could say that it is personally degrading...another could say that one should use what was given to them. I believe it takes a level of intelligence to work a chat and obviously a level of confidence to reveal yourself. To say women take off their clothes TO feel better about themselves, psychology does not make sense. One needs to feel confident already. I am considering camming, because I need to go back to school and this would help me tremendously. For anyone opposed and taking a hater stance....as with anyone hating USUALLY in general....it all comes down to jealousy/upset because maybe you just can't do it or find the confidence. The world could do without haters. Turn your head if it's not your style, but do not judge others...especially if you do not know their reasons. And go ready a psychology book. | ||
| I just have to add to this as well, Im currently working as a web cam girl for a fairly well known camming site and I see nothing wrong with it. No, Its not a career but its job I can do from the comfort of my home while deciding on a career for the rest of my life. It gives me all this room to just live life and all this time to create memories with friends and family with out having to plan around this full time job. I would work my butt off for 9 hours a day at some lame retail job when I now work at home, for 4 ish hours a day and I'll make atleast $30 an hour... so for a 2 week pay period thats pretty good, paid waaayyy more for alot less stress and I dont have to wake up dreading some lame ass retail job with demanding tweens haha. I respect myself, Im not going out and having sex with all these men, Im not picking up any diseases. I see nothing wrong with being on cam...doing the things I do... When I do them already! Might as well get paid for it right? :P | ||
| Reading here, makes the women that cam sound angry is this what happens when they enter the industry? They earn money so all is ok? | ||
| Oh My God!!! Everyone is reading in to this WAY too much. What is the problem if a guy wants a quick ten minute wank over a girl? The guy gets exactly wha he wants and the girl gets paid. As long as the girl is not forced in to slavery or anything then everyone is a winner. Its unfair to criticise the girls there is clearly a huge demand. To me cam sex is just a conenient businss transaction, so deal with it and move on, there are many worse things happening in the world than girls getting their tits out you asshole. | ||
| Ok this is interesting. The adult industry is mainly in business because men will pay, from porno, to strippers, to prostitutes/escorts, to cam models etc. Anything sexual is geared toward male tastes lets face it. If men didn't have penises this jobs wouldn't exist. Thank you men for giving ladies work and actually paying us well. I laugh at these angry remarks for I've seen them before in my chat room. Usually this is an issue with a man having what I now call " vagina envy". I find it funny that something they desire so much is ridiculed when they can't afford it. I get this all the time in my room. I price my room very high so as to avoid just any guy coming in to make rude requests. Many guys come in pissed off complaining about my rate Which I find ridiculous. It's like going into Louis Vuitton and stating that the price is too high. See how fast you'll be banned from the store. It's the same thing, you can't afford it, then just leave and look for something in your price range. Also most of my clients are not hideous. They are very attractive successful men that enjoy some company. Most just actually pay and listen to me just talk which is quite refreshing. Usually when someone jumps in my room to take me private at short notice, it's usually the guy that has already worked himself up to the point that he stays in for 3 mins. Another reason why I'm not so quick to date anymore, Why give myself to someone that is a 2-3 minute man when I can be with a man that actually takes his time. I almost laughed when the guy jumped in my room and within 2 mins said " yeah I want you to come now baby". I was thinking was he kidding? I was in a conversation with a non paying member talking about snowboarding. How am I going to get my clothes off and get off with a 2 min limit? I actually wondered if he actually realized he was talking to a woman. lol Just hilarious. I also keep my price alittle higher than most because I want to connect with my clients. I can pretty much remember every person I have gone pvt with, their likes and dislikes and what makes them special. I think as a cam model you will always get the guy who is trying to date you outside of the site. I have never done this and I don't ever plan to. This is where the fantasy becomes reality and there in lies the problem. Reading posts on here shocks me to death. Like wow these girls actually met these guys and how can a guy presume to believe that this girl was really going to run off into the sunset without his wallet attached? The point of the matter that these girls are not so super horny that they have nothing else better to do then to show themselves. That's why they don't do anything in free chat but just "chat" for free. I always laugh at guys that get mad, I think to myself what were they thinking? I'm supposed to show you my body for free when you wouldn't even be someone that I would even have a glass of water with in real life? Seriously? One guy even came into my room and kept saying sad sad. I asked him ohh are you sad? He said no this site sucks? I was of course thinking wtf? why are you here then. So I politely said I can give him the number to customer service if he's having some issues or if he wants to file a complaint. He got even more irritated and said my job was lame and what made me different from being a stripper. This is pathetic and I just had to see for myself. Now really if it was about seeing you could have looked and got off the computer. But he was angry. Obviously the difference between a stripper and a cam model is this: Cam Model 1. Shows body on her terms, can refuse showing anything at any time. Gets paid per min. Usually in her own place private from any other onlookers. No one touches her unless she is working with another model. Safe Stripper 1. Does performance going from skimpy to nude, works off of tips, may get minimum wage as a base, has to deal with rude men grabbing them before the bouncer gets the guys, usually guys do this pretty often , sneak a slap on the ass or breast grab, also does lap dances with guys cumming on them, has to also deal with guy possibly trying to touch them again, Drinking liquor having to beg guys for dances or private shows, | ||
| Strippers also run the risk of being followed , Also attacked by other females for some ladies get jealous of others, also have issues with people that you may know coming in the establishment and seeing you. Working off of tips after you showed your body to an entire club you can walk out with $2.00 usd or $2,000 USD. You also have to tip the dj, bar partron and split with the "house" which is club or bar. Also lap dances are pretty cheap when you think about the fact that these girls are actually grinding on a man's penis. So dry sex. There are even other establishments where if you take the girl to a "special" room she'll do alot more for the right price. So there you have it. Also the guy with the cheapest money will usually be the guy that stays in your face the longest. Or a guy giving you two us dollars and acting like he bought you a mink coat. You be surprised how many guys have that attitude that just because of that $2.00 they should receive an hour of your time. Yes I know it sounds bad. But most strippers are pretty straight up and if you're not spending they walk right away and leave you sitting there. Also the begging a stripper does for dances and such seems alittle to beggy for my taste especially when you're sitting there half naked regardless. I think in the Stripper World women seem to fight over men and tips etc. Cam Models, are online, safe away from the average passerbys, you don't have to dance around on stage for hours in uncomfortable shoes and hope to make something. Tips are given but it's not where you make your money. You're paid for something specific. Someone wants to take you private and knows that you're not going to show anything until that happens. So I feel in the cam model world it gives her the control, plus men fight over her in this world because many want the attention of that special lady. So they will fight each other to get it and usually the person that wins out is the man that hits the private button first. The only split is between the site and the girl, unless she works for an agency. You can block states , countries, etc, even kick out users who harass. I really see this as true freedom. The only real issue a man would have with this is that his contol is limited especially if he's used to saying something rude to a stripper and getting to sit there and see her face change. If there are other guys in the room with you , he can be ignored and you can carry on a conversation with other people leaving this rude guy feeling small and insignificant. Now the guys that are meeting these cam models is just tripping me out. I've received a few requests from usually the men that spend the most on me, but I'm not looking to loose my job for crossing the line. It would be unprofessional and in poor taste. I think if we look at the comments about men meeting these ladies they all were the aggressor in this matter. They kept asking these girls to come out and be with them but in reality they could have met a local lady and dated. But if the looks between both parties wasn't necessarily on the same level then this is where money was being given consistently. Most social handsome men are out there meeting and dating in person, they chat online if they feel they are going to meet but usually not cam models. If the man is successful and doesn't have the time also attractive but doesnt really connect with women outside a work related relationship, then this is a cool way to build a means of connecting with attractive women. I think the issue when a man is pushing to meet the girl is when greed comes in and slight jealousy. I've seen it before where a guy with talk me to death and will never get a membership to the site because he doesn't have a credit card. He'll talk and then get mad when he tells the girl he doesn't have money and she doesn't want to talk to him. But he tries to push out paying customers to steal attention of women he would never be able to talk to in person. I spoke with him and asked him if he doesn't have any money why does he come on this site? why not myspace or facebook, tagged etc there are all free chat sites. His response: I like competition, I like when I can steal a girls attention away.But states he hates when he gets kicked out of rooms. I had to actually put it to him honestly and say. You do know that these women don't want you at all, they are not attracted to you so you're fighting a competition that you will loose to any paying client. What is worse is that you're playing with people that are working? This is their job, they may have kids to feed or family to take care of and because of your ego pushing out paying members you have now costed someone a meal? How great do you feel being broke and trying to get atttention of a woman that's working? He got upset and left my room on his own accord. Serves him right for trying to talk to women for 5 hrs straight and not paying anything. Rude but once again this is a person that is angry with women for rejecting him in real life. For if he really wanted to just chat he could chat for 15 mins per lady and leave and speak to another without even mentioning that he didnt' have a credit card. Why say anything like that at all? I actually made this guy feel awful and then tried to keep him in the room talking about really boring stuff. He got annoyed and didn't realize I do love to chat , but it was all non sexual. Everytime he said ooh are you horny, i would just change the subject and say no , I want to talk about agriculture and going green. lol I used to drive this man crazy until he just doenst come back in the room anymore! lol You don't have to be rude or use profanity, that's un lady like, I use the one of the most annoying things to men on this site. Talk about wives, babies, or anything non sexual. For the well rounded man he will like alittle diversity, for the I need to get off in 1 sec flat types this drives them to softness making them leave your room without you even having to ask. I would say be safe ladies, but as a cam model being safe is the easy part! | ||
| Well I am a cam girl. I love my job. And here is why.
I am a what you would call a bbw so I do not get a lot of compliments on my appearance in the small town I live in. Working online not only helps me pay my bills but it gives my esteem a huge boost. I do not think I am degrading myself at all. everyone one is a sexual being and some of us have come up short on the looks end. So I see all sorts of ppl in my line of work. I feel good by making them feel good....the money helps of course. And honestly everyone masturbates and gets naked so why no make hundreds of dollars doing it while feeling great about yourself. If anyone would like to check me out I am (Editor's notes: So you don't see anything wrong with basing your self-esteem on what others think of you?) |
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| I'm a fucking HUSTLER. GET OFF MY DICK. I started in this business by exploring sexuality and cross-dressing in front of the older male customers who use the site. At the young age of 20 I was able to move to Los Angeles, start a record company, start multiple businesses out of thin air, buy high-fashion clothes, work as an actor, and learn the fundamentals of marketing, economics, and the ins and outs of the adult video industry. Tell me about morality growing up in your safe, rich neighborhood, with money to go to College and parents who hook you up with jobs before you even graduate High School. I make love to beautiful women every night, and I love showing the hook-up to young girls not as fortunate as YOU who have nothing but irresponsible parents, and a dead-fast minimum wage jobs so that they can for once in their life experience what it's like to earn real $$$ for their work. | ||
| Its all about the money. I'm tired of seeing morons like the fucking jersey shore penis holes making millions for being stupid and drunk. I AM TAKING WHAT IS MINE MOTHERFUCKERS. This is way too easy man. | ||
| Hmm, talked to a girl for over a year in a half, we got to the point of saying we love one another and she never asks me to go into the private chat for money? I do it sometimes, so who knows if she knows I will. But she has recently told me she does not want to "hurt" me so...Hehe, well I dont know what to say, if it was real or not. If you are going to be a webcam girl, be nice, try not to use all the guys, some of us are nice (we finish last) and just lonely. If you are a guy planning on visiting these sites, just be careful and watch your $$$ | ||
| I am a webcam model and I am also a prostitute (in a place where prostitution is 100% legal) and let me speak for all the other women who work as an independent adult entertainer when I say that you are clearly grossly undereducated and close-minded about these lines of work and sex in general. Unless you genuinely believe and follow the biblical rule of ONLY having sex with your spouse AFTER you get married to them, you are a hypocrite. It is wildly unfair to make generalisations such as 'all you have to do is give up your dignity, self respect and privacy'. Dignity is 1) in the eye of the beholder and 2) a term which has greatly lost it's meaning over the years. Get a dictionary. As far as self-respect goes, I respect myself enough to do whatever it takes to support myself and my family without having to depend upon the government for help. Newsflash: WE PAY TAXES JUST LIKE YOU. Webcam models and prostitutes who operate in places where it's legal are required by law to register as self-employed and pay taxes. Just like someone who runs their own business. Why is that? Because that's what the vast majority of us are: small business owners. Where privacy is concerned, contrary to popular belief, we are some of the most private people on the planet. We have to be so we don't come under constant slander from xenophobic bigots who have nothing better to do than bring unnecessary fire down upon a group consisting mostly of good, hardworking taxpayers. I obviously know nothing about you, but I wouldn't be surprised to learn that you were able to go to and finish university (possibly even obtaining a degree) and that you have a steady, stable job with little or no fear of losing it. Consider, for just a moment, that not everyone is so lucky. Many people can't afford further education or fall to extenuating circumstances which disallow them to attend university. In a world in which it's widely required to have qualifications and degrees in order to get a decent job, a lot of people have to settle for minimum wage roles. As much as some people may dislike it, we are allowed to and do have families. In an 'economic crisis' such as the one we are currently experiencing, minimum wage jobs aren't enough to support a family and, in many places, jobs are disappearing altogether. People complain about the individuals and families irresponsibly living off the government and yet, when the handful of us who decide to be responsible and get a job, pay taxes properly and support our families so the government and their tax dollars don't have to, we are the ones getting negative press. How many times have been in line at the supermarket checkout, watching as the single mother with four toddlers, a cart full of expensive novelty groceries and maybe a new dress for herself, sporting designer sunglasses, flashy jewelry and brand new French tips..pay for everything with food stamps? Working my jobs, I can wear the same clothes and put the same things in my cart..and pay for it with money I earned myself. I can also pay the rent (on time!) on my non-government-owned apartment. I make the majority of that money performing on webcam. Me, myself and *I* am the one and only person who chose to do this job. I take pride in my work and I enjoy what I do. It has done wonders for my physical and emotional self-esteem; A man finds me attractive enough to want to pay his hard-earned money just to look at me for a few minutes. Additionally, I've provided a service with which my customers are satisfied and it makes me feel good to have helped someone. At the same time, I'm bettering my own life and providing a good life for my family. My partner is totally aware of what I do for a living and what all it entails and he is nothing but supportive and understanding. How can any of that be construed as degrading? As for prostitution, the ONLY reason it has evolved to hold such negative connotations is because it was made illegal in so many places. I know it's been said many times by many people, but the fact of the matter is that prostitution is one of the oldest professions. Ever. Regardless of your religion or beliefs, most of the problems surrounding prostitution are there because, in areas which outlaw it, it's extremely unsafe. I am an American living in the UK where prostitution and brothels are permitted by law. Occurrences of incidents involving drugs/violence and prostitutes are exponentially lower here than in areas which outlaw the trade of sex/sexual favours for money. If people would pull their heads out and look at things logically, they would see that legalising prostitution/brothels and making it a taxable form of income would make it so much safer for sex workers. All of the drugs, diseases, violence, etc. associated with prostitution would be considerably decreased by giving these women and men a safe working environment. It would even be possible to better the massive unemployment issue affecting so many parts of today's world. Incidents of rapes might even decrease because it's a lot easier to go out and pay $100 for a consensual sexual encounter than rape someone and risk jail time. One should also consider the people who have a difficult time finding someone with whom to share an intimate experience- the disabled, or even just those who are extremely self-conscious or too shy to seek out a relationship. Contrary to popular belief, the majority of our clients are older men looking for companionship. I have gained nothing but added self-esteem, fond memories, great conversations and, in many cases, very close friends from working as an independent prostitute. If done wisely, honestly and with a bit of common sense, it is nothing more than a very personal customer service job. If I am totally comfortable with what I'm doing in addition to any other involved person(s) being comfortable with what I'm doing, there is absolutely no harm being done to anyone. As with webcamming, I chose to work this job on my own and I continue to do it because I enjoy it and, again, because it allows me to give my family a comfortable life. My body is mine to use as I see fit and not one other person on this planet as any right to judge whether or not what I'm doing with it is right or wrong. If professional boxers and wrestlers are allowed and even encouraged to destroy their bodies for, quite frankly, a ridiculous amount of money, why shouldn't I be allowed to use my body to put food on my family's table, a roof over their heads and ensure that my children have a shot at a good education? I respectfully suggest that people look outside the walls of what they know and educate themselves prior to speaking out so negatively about a subject and forming these opinions. I was born and raised by an ultra-conservative, staunch Southern Baptist family in Texas and my father is the pastor of a Southern Baptist church. If my family, with all of their opinions and beliefs and personal morals, can open their minds and find merit in what I do for a living, it surely can't be that difficult. | ||
| I think everyone who is against it is just haters. I say who cares how they get their money. Your not paying their bill. This is coming from someone who has never had to take my clothes off for a dollar.. I work legit jobs and I loose dignity, self respect and privacy.. They wanna check my background, make me pee in a cup they ask anyone they can about me (there goes my privacy) then while on the job I have to bow down to whom every no matter what if I want a job because they sign the checks ( there goes my dignity and self respect) Stop hating thats what's wrong with the world. Half the world was built on prostitution anyway.. Pussy makes the world go round and for all you men ( go get you some) for you hatin females (keep your men off the site.. wash your) | ||
| Hi well I am a new webcam girl and have to offer up my own experience. I have a 9 to 5 regular job that I have had for 14 years. Times became tougher and about. 2 years ago with a pt job that I go to everyday right after my first job ends. Well I am giving my notice at job number 2 tomorrow. I have only been webcamming for a very short time and am averaging $41 an hour as opposed to the $9.25 an hour at my present pt. It works for me. I can set my own hours and feel this income is only limited by how much time a person chooses to put in. I have never been shy about my body and have fun conversating with the people who come in to see me. For me this is a very good thing... | ||
| women online is the same thing as prostiutues , they tak money for sexual favors, look up a dictionary, its the same thing as walking the street ,except no physical contact! | ||
| I'm a camgirl, and i have to disagree with your opinion about recording and playing my shows 10years later, and what would my patients think etc? So what then? They would think the same, if you d record me having sex with my ex-boyfriend or husband or whoever. Who cares? It's my body, it's my sexual life, and my life, and i ll do to it what i want. And i dont think anyone would hate me cuz of being a camgirl 10years ago, if i cure them. | ||
| im considering doing webcam modeling...im 21 and my boyfriend and i both lost our jobs...he is all for it as long as he can sit to the side and watch...kinda be the unseen unheard gardian...we have 2 beautiful little boys...his with hhis ex wife and mine with my ex fiance..we would have no trouble if my ex fiance would help out with our son but he is a dead beat...we barely get by with my boyfriend doing on jobs to make money so coming from my point of view i really dont see a major problem...i mean if i can make some money..some good money until he and i can get back on our feet then why not...and its not like the cam girl has to do everything the client ask...ive been doing the research and if the girl is uncomfortable then she can end things with that client...so why not become a cam girl | ||
| I love it how some guys can watch porn all day, then turn around and make girls in the industry feel bad for going into it. If it bugs you so much then why do u watch it? Ha, obviously you like it so stfu. What are these comments about keeping a journal and recording their fav cam girls? Or stalking them? Now that's weird. Guys you can't look into it so deep. It's a job. You pay me to make you feel good until you don't want to pay anymore. It doesn't mean I'm retarded or not motivated. Please pick a side and stick to it. Either you support and enjoy the sex industry for what it is or gtfo. Stop with your hypocrisy. | ||
| First off, how is showing off online make you a slut? Your information and your security is perfectly protected unless you're an idiot. Webcam girls are EXHIBITIONISTS. We have nude beaches, nudist colonies, etc... No one is selling sex, we're selling sex APPEAL just like models and strippers. We pay taxes and we aren't going around meeting up with people for sex, THEN we'd be prostitutes. Being watched on a webcam is nothing and no one is going around forcing me out of money, people CHOOSE to pay us. It's the same thing for all activities. No one is forcing anyone to pay us and because they pay us, they encourage us! I mean seriously, webcam girls aren't ALWAYS taking off their clothes either. There's non-nude webcam girls as well, where you can honestly just sit back and talk with someone who may be going through the same situation you are. Now, why pay out $1,800 a session, along with $40 in gas money to see a psychologist, when you can just spend $120 and from the comfort of your home, you can speak to someone of the attractive opposite sex of your choosing? Before any of you people even THINK of calling webcam girls sluts or prostitutes, I'd suggest you rethink that because YES, there are some downgrading, triffling girls out there but not ALL of them are that way. Some of them do it strictly for the money, some just like having face to face conversations and others are just exhibitionists, which is strictly legal! | ||
| An interesting forum and if I read the editors conclusions correctly, there is question, -“who to blame”, the girls or the audience? My conclusion based on the quite valuable comments in the forum is – both. The girls are to blame for partaking of this profession and overtly selling sex for money. From the comments below, they obviously develop contempt for men and particularly the men in their audience. I’m sure that contempt for the audience becomes more solid the longer they are engaged in this vice. (I guess they have to mask their own acts from themselves somehow). The audience are to blame for perpetuating this sex industry by paying for it. The traps for the audience are as obvious as established prostitution, and the cream of the rewards in that industry seldom arrive in the hands of girls, despite the illusion witnessed on the webTV show mentioned by the editor. It seems also from the comments below that addiction to it is a reality. I suppose the measure of society is treating others as you would want them to treat you. Selling sex for money is the oldest profession, so I suppose there will always be a minority mistreating others! | ||
| Im a webcam model . I just did because my work closed down due to the economy and scams that were going on out there. Webcam model is no scam, is ladies at home, studios waiting to be seen and asked to show,flash. Yes it sounds crazy but people do it even for free sometimes on the road to truckers? I dont do that ! But i felt the cam was different. I really end up to like it because I do it in a way where I workout doing it , So im really fit :) Im very happy yey . my name is and I also did Penthouse dvd also with Dantes a really hot guy, in 2010 and my webcam job heIm now with alot of fans so this makes me the happiest webcam model in the world ! | ||
| I'm not going to condemn anyone, either web cam girls or prostitutes, but I would say to me the line between the two is closer than most people seem to think. It isn't the same as having someone photograph you nude, or even record you nude on video. You are actually interacting with the person watching (masturbating) over you. You are doing specific things that they tell you for money. And alot of girls offer reasonably extreme things, purely because they can get more money from it. Would anyone feel differently if the girl was lying on a bed in the same room as a guy, and putting things wherever he asks her to for money? looking a certain way, in whatever position... These girls are completely entitled to do as they wish, but personally I would find fucking myself in whatever position I get told to by some stranger (who let's face it, is someone you would never want to interact with face to face) extremely humiliating. Also there is the fact that a lot of these girls start before they are 18. Web cam companies do not check that much, they generally don't care about the girls that work for them. And the majority of them do not make a lot of money, that is the exception. Many would not be doing it if they had another way to earn money. | ||
| It's fine if they are adults, as in, 18 - though I know a lot of people that have made decisions at 18 that they later regretted - because they weren't mature enough at the time. But the fact is a lot of web cam girls aren't even 18. I know someone who has done it, and quite a few girls were underage, and many of them were drunk or on drugs whilst doing it. I've looked at web cam sites a couple of times, and the things people are saying to these girls... and what they want them to do.. It's not surprising a lot of them need alcohol to get them through it. If you the woman is old enough, completely emotionally secure and will only do what she's comfortable with, then fine. This is sometimes the case. But a lot of the time it isn't this way. People can do whatever they want, but please don't pretend no one is getting hurt, or taken advantage of. Because they are. | ||
| I give major dues to any woman or man who is working as a web cam guy or girl, If you are a smart person who researched working online and know the pros and cons GET YOUR MONEY! Everyday ppl are talking on myspace,facebook,craigslist, dating sites meeting up, sending naked pictures and having sex maybe even for FREE! On a webcam THERE IS NO PHYSICAL CONTACT, YES you have to be aware of ppl taping you be smart about it and make sure you look some what different on your shows than you do in real life, Personally I dont see the problem I think the main problem ppl have and the reason ppl hate is because they dont have the balls to do it themselves and they envy ppl who are making a killing off of being comfortable with there bodies. FORGET HATERZ GET PAID! $$$ | ||
| steve thanks thats great advice i wish I had thought of that to the guy who is going to the website for free don't be a fool its like hanging out at a restrant to talk to the waitresses and not ordering anything . ( these women are not your friend all they want is your money ) leave before they trap you especially if you don't have any friends etc yea i am the guy who saw the cam girls in person . I went to the same web sight for five years for free before i decided to spend $20. just so I could keep chatting for free then i decided to send gifts I liked to see how she looked when she opened my gift I then started spending hundreds then thousands . as soon as my money ran out i was banned from a chat room of a girl i had just spent $100 on on a privet chat. | ||
| A very big part of men's here are really stupid! I am a camgirl, and I started this job because of money! I have big problems, and have no chance to resolve without money! Than, when I try any other solution, I started with webcam! Like me is the other 99,9 % of the girls wor in webcam! Any girl have started this just becuse of money, and the big majority of the men's who comes on the chat, are idiots without a little bit of culture, who thing...." oh yea...she is a hore....and she will give me all for FREE!!!!" yes Sirs, all for free.....come and want to see your boobs or your pussy...or how you masturbate...for FREE....and when You say...NO....because Yoiu want to earn this fucking 0.60 $ per minute, because You effectively work 20 - 25 minutes per day, they call You a hore, a bitch, a dirty person....and don't think You have any sentiments....and that hurts You! Yes dear Sirs....we..the girls who work this dirty job, we have sentiments, and You are only and just.pigs...with a hard cock, who don't know how to catch up a girl...and come at webcam just because You need to feel Yourself better, but You don't know You are an idiot, because You don't know to speak, to feel, You know just to say..." you are a hore...bitch...suck my d...." and only things like that! But, You know, You must call us, as You want, but You will never touch me...my body....and ....You know.....You will pay...only for seeying me, in a little webcam! That's all! And when I don't work...I will spend YOUR money.....with my boyfriend....or with others,...and You...You will wait my return on the webcam, but alone,and without dignity....! You....men....are a really poor and lonely, not me, although You call me a hore!!! | ||
| I have had a bad experience from a Cam girl who was known as Fatyma4u. I thought we just clicked on line and agreed to meet her, it was great of course I paid for everything, and was so blind as she changed flat and needed the deposit. We arranged holidays met and then she would pick a fight and want to go home, but always took money and I was fool enough to give her some. This continued for 12 months it started to unravel when I made a surprise visit for her birthday and she only saw me for a few hours. but you know what they say about an old fool. well 2 more holidays were booked and of course reasons for not turning up, I always will wonder if her grandmother really died. I almost sent the 3000 Euro for the funeral but said I would give it to her when we next met. Of course I did set up a cash card and over the 12 months put on about 10,000 pounds. You can probably see I like surprises so I started to learn Romanian. We used to meet on Yahoo as she said she had given up the cam work and she would often leave a comment next to her picture nothing unusual as it was nearly always in English. One mistake I did make, well it was all a mistake, was she was jealous of any other female friends I had and hated me meeting them, as she was being true to me, so you can imagine my surprise and horror when I saw a Romanian message on yahoo , which of course I could now read, and it said That I am pregnant and a big smiley. Of course I am hurting but not because of the money but the deceit. but of its life. | ||
| Hi I was going through a lonely time after my divorce and stumbled upon a webcam site. I paid a little money for privates but only chatted and gave the girls a rest from taking their clothes off. I fell for one particular girl, which I will not give her name. She never actually asked me for anything at first, and asked if we could meet as she too was falling in 'love'. We met and had a lovely few days in the mountains, I returned home with an ache in my heart. I sent her presents and we agreed to holiday again, and she even visited me at my home, although I did buy the tickets, which I did not mind. Through various sad luck stories about her flat mate and having to change flats, I sent her about 10,000 euros, I want to state I did this willingly. I am now at the stage where I require some commitment from her but as you have guessed she has all but disappeared, it appears that while all I wanted was the odd holiday all was fine, but now i want more, well who knows where it will end. I am in the fortunate position that I could buy her a flat in Bucharest and live there quite happily, but alas she has problem with her phone, so no contact for a few weeks now, and I fear she has gone forever, but I regret nothing I had some of the best times of my life. | ||
| To the last comment written here... Do you know what a chat hostess would say to that? Unless you are a very close friend to that woman she would otherwise say you are wasting time and actually being a freeloader. If this work for them is to earn money for whatever purpose they are there for, and you have no inclination to oblige them and feel you are spending a pleasant evening by your standards, then you are just being selfish. Unless you personally have other motives I do suggest that you turn your computer off and interact with people in reality and stop believing that this is some kind of lovely enjoyable evening spent filling a void that is missing. | ||
| hi i have thought long and hard read so manypost and i want to become a webcam girl but not sure where to start and would love to some info . i am tired of living poor wondering whats next or when the lights are getting cut off just soo tired of it. i've looked for jobs and no one is hiring right now. seems like being a webcam girl will be easier way to bring in the money soo if anyone can point me in the right direction i would be very thankful. I only made this decision because i'm tired of living in a bad neighborhood driving a crappy car that i call old faithful lol and would just like to be ableto give my kids andme what we deserve out of life | ||
| For the guy who asked about Romanian girls ... it passed quiet long time since he posted but I'll write anyway. Here, as a student, you can work as waitress for around 300 euros - 400 euros/month if you are in a great bar, so you can receive tips, because main salary it's bullshit. Also, you can work as vendor for around 200 euros/ month, hostess (depends on promotions, but usually 1-2 promotions/week and you receive 35 euros for each promotion). You may work in a call center for 150 euros/month. Seriously? What should I do with those money??? Eating 1 slice of bread daily and live, especially when I'm student? No fucking way. Maybe there are some other jobs I didn't mentioned but don't think you're payed more. Romania has a lack of vacant jobs and, as you know already, it's a poor country, where politicians earn thousands and don't give a crap on what's happening in their country. This country should be much more beautiful if it won't have its inhabitants. TURISM is down. As a romanian citizen you can barely aford to go to the seaside or mountains, because it's way much more cheaper outside Romania!! AGRICULTURE ... wtf is that? They destroyed all. Romania it's absed on import. We do not export too many stuff and we consume more than we produce. I will close this subject because i'm pissed off enough and it's not interesting either. What made me laugh was what a man said ... that diamonds cannot be imported here. Since long time ago the jewels business became famous. You can find anything here, especially diamonds, pearls, gold, bla bla. Also, you guys have a totally stupid idea. Why do you call girls CAM WHORES?? Who the fuck you think you are?? Tell me then what's the difference between you, as wankers, searching all day for porn and all stuff like this and these girls?? And you think all of them want your money and they will listen all your crap and bullshit because you pay them?? You didn't caught me while I was a cam model then. I wasn't payed to listen your crap like "get naked bitch", "iwant to fuck a snail", "your mum is a whore" bla bla. Talking like this on sites doesn't make you humans. Just worse than animals. And if some guy like this was in my room, either free or private chat he was kicked out after I told him some sort of "sweet" things. I met a lot of guys who didn't spent not even a $ on me and I'm still chatting with some of them today, after 2 years since I've quit this job as a chathost and started one as studio owner. You should visit my girls bunch of idiots and you will be kicked out after the first bad word or any crap like this. You guys think you are kings or what?? Behind that screen there's a person, like you. If they respect you, return it back. If not, just leave. This kind of attitude reminds me of the little guys who fucked a girl and teh second day all highschool guys knew about it. "Yeah, I've fucked her ahahahaha". Damn idiots! Why should these girls be afraid of recorded shows?? It's totally stupid. Not a lot of guys are recording. Why my mother had nothing against this and she told me congrats after I told her the truth? I've worked to pay my studies and my brother's one because my father doesn't care, without cheating people or anything else like this. I will return with another comment where I'll put all my thoughts in order. | ||
| i don't know why you have to call them whores and prostitutes? I am a chat hostess recruiter and the girls i see that join our company do so to eat so to speak and feed there families. Would you want them to starve in this recession? I am sure many of you calling then names would do the same if you needed money? Maybe worst because there are worst things than being a webcam performer. How does being a cam girl make them loose women? you dont even know that so shut your mouth because you don't know them! | ||
| I am a member of a chat site. I have a great time chatting to the girls, but have never paid a single cent. If you are kind and courteous, and don't make demands for "freebies", you can spend a pleasant night! | ||
| I'm very surprised with some of the comments I have just read about web cam girls being prostitutes. There are numerous ways to make a living in the world but there are also many people not willing to pay you for your efforts. It's good to know that these girls have taken the initiative to do something about it. As for the number of people who put them down all I can say is.......keep your clothes on and your nine to five, dull, boring job...your pathetic! | ||
| I would like to know if people who call webcam girls prositutes feel the same way about thier idle's......movie stars who don't do private shows but bare all for everyone on the big screen. Come on hypocrite's get a life! | ||
| I am looking to hire some webcam girls to work for our company. I won't give out any other info as I'm not here to promote the business just looking for a few additions to our growing team. As for all the naysayers out here... Let me be the first to say that a webcam show is not a way of whoring oneself out... It is a safe way to approach ones sexual fantasies with someone who is real, classy, and smart- most of the girls I know who do cam shows are doing it short term. Our economy is horrible right now am I right? Yet the sex industry is booming why is that? Could it be that this webcam fantasy world gives a little relief or whatever to some people out there. A little escape into a fantasy world- what is wrong with that? When you think about it girls who do webcam videos today are very smart people because they are out making loads of cash while the rest of the world watches the economy and hopes they can keep their job next week... So, if there are any women aged 19 or older interested in coming on board our team, and making some real money please contact ann through {redacted} | ||
| any one who has a moral issue with webcam girls should offer them a good job that pays as much without forking out thousands for college, not to mention the time. People make a lot of judgment calls but they are not willing to help anyone. | ||
| Im a Webcam Host....anyone have information on what counts as write offs for my taxes? | ||
| Reading this i was glad that some girls were looking into doing modeling. Webcam modeling can be a very good way for single moms to make money. I have my own studio, where i have several girls working for me remotely (from home) and some directly in the studio. I can answer any questions by emailing me if your interested in applying. Most girls make about $500 per 20 hours a week once they get used to it, as with anything the more you do it the better you do. the pay is weekly, any body type welcome, and you can sign up directly by going to the model signup at (spam removed) | ||
| I educated myself before diving into the coveted cam world. A lot of you guys say that its whoring, etc but you're the first to beat off at night to a porno. This means you are supporting them. Hmmm quite hypocritical no? Another thing- a lot of people are saying that you can be recorded etc, found out in 10 years, blah, blah blah. As a smart cam girl- there are quite a few things to keep this from happening. For one, the cam sites I work for DON'T record and it says so in my contract. They don't have permission to record any of the models unless they have their consent-even for promotional reasons. Yes, the viewers can record shows but unlike some models, I show my face in free chat(with my clothes on), but during my sessions my face is cut off, or rarely exposed because I get down to business as the body is the main reason for watching me and I switch my outfits often. If that fails, I always have a watermark. I only work for two sites, either way- if I find my videos on the net, I know exactly where they were recorded and since I didn't give them permission to record me, my lawyer is just a phone call away. Of course your watermark could be a good thing- that's more traffic for you which equals a bigger paycheck. You guys are fools if you don't think us models don't wear wigs, make up, contacts, and other things to hide the real us. If I am recorded and my videos float around the net- you wouldn't be able to recognize me anyway. I work for two sites, one that is new and is a niche- I don't even want too much exposure. I plan on doing this until I finish school and find something better for myself. Celebs have sex videos etc all over the net- they bounce back and they live under a microscope so why can't any of the models? Not everyone gives two shits about exposing some ex cam model. Seeing something 10 years prior isn't going to do much. You were younger, and by then you probably look older and with long, short wigs, layered on makeup, etc you won't be all that recognizable. When I'm on cam, I do my makeup differently as well- some guys think I'm part Asian because I'm great at disguising myself! Block off the states you don't want to be seen in, wear disguises, and have fun- it can totally be a safe way to make money if you're smart about it. | ||
| A whole lot of self-righteous judgment here. I personally know one of these ladies. With two sons to support and unemployment unbelievably high, she has very little choice. Give them credit for working and not taking handouts from society. They earn wages, pay taxes and support businesses in their communities. Ladies, I commend and respect you for supporting your families while the deadbeat parents do nothing to support their kids. | ||
| You start that website, I'm stealing your server too. | ||
| re: Bucharest. Yes, there are plenty of studios in Romania - not just there - but it's not forced. Many are college-age girls attracted to the free room (in some cases) and good money. It's pretty much the same in most Eastern European countries, among them Slovakia, Hungary, Russia, Ukraine and Czech Republic - the major cities have the most studios and obviously girls. | ||
| These girls are right. They give men a chance at the illusion of love, or whatever else you wanna call it, at a price. It's a win-win situation. human trafficking is a sad topic unfortunately and what's worse, governments do nothing about it. Let's face it, flesh=$$$ and what power-hungry individual won't say no to that? the problem is deeper than you guys know. These girls and their patrons are just pawns in a much larger world. But that's what we democrats for. You wanna complain, write to your congressmen. | ||
| cam girls are bad news I have as a customer spent over $2000 or more on these women. Just to see the reality behind the fantasy . They had no idea what i looked like or that i was going to be in there city. I rented a hotel room near the studio where I knew they operated to break the fantasy I know stalking bad we are not allowed to meet them in person . I did not even talk to them But I was able to approach and talk to much easier the normal girls in that city the web cam girls seemed always afraid and running for some reason every time they went outside for a smoke they had a man with them acting as a bodyguard. All these girls want is your money its the internet equivalent of a peep show booth the free chat is to lure you in so that you will spend more $ on them . The unfortunate thing is that the studio owners get rich off these girls and the girls have to live with fear of never knowing which man out their might be one of their customers . | ||
| I have been thinking of doing camming and would love some feedback. I'm a pre-op mtf. I'm big but pretty! Any idea if I'd be able to draw clients? If so where do I begin? Thanks Nik | ||
| They are,for the most part,clever,ruthless women.What any man MUST do,when considering partaking in this nonsense,is to keep a journal (safely under lock and key of course). When first viewing models in 'freechat' it is easy to see the viscious contempt that they hold for the 'punters'.However! After a while you see a woman you find appealing and when you click,she finds you amusing and likable.You go back for more.You find others similar and you gather a group of 'favourites'.After this point you forget you are a customer and your feelings can move toward friendship (completely unreciprocated of course). This is where the journal comes in! Some of the camgirls are psychologists/psychology students in which case you are really in trouble! Most are just good conversationalists but will mostly steer you away from their personal lives.Or will just lie.1.Note down examples of contempt you see in freechat.Go back to freechat regularly to experience these.2.Note down any inconsistencys in your 'favourites' (haha) story.Yes,you will start to make excuses for her reticence,believe it or not! Together with any obvious psychobabble phraseology (the longer the camgirl,the less the mistakes).3.Make a note of your expenditure! It is very easy to click a mouse when you are looking at a beautiful woman! 4.It takes something out of the men.You will find yourself having a 'dirtier' mind. Her manipulation of you becomes far easier when you are distracted by her tight top or well filled stockings!5.I won't go into detail but any thinking person can type comments that will make these women reveal their true nature.It can be quite amusing to do so.You will also see/hear little snippets that reveal their viscious usury.Catching these can be fun too.After a certain time of seeing the true nature of their 'business' you will become a disinterested observer,then a non-participant and move on with your life in productive ways.From the camsites own literature,only 15% of men click to go to 'private chat'.So if that's you,you are already lonely and ripe for exploitation. 6.Read the journal weekly.Hopefully you will see yourself sliding down the slippery-slope and join a dating website/meet women for sex through a contact site/start talking to your wife who ACTUALLY CARES about you. | ||
| Does anyone know is some of the Romanian women are forced to do shows? It seems odd to me that it seems there are so many Romanian women that do it and that many of them are from Bucharest? I know this type of thing happens in Asia, for example I remember reading about how some women who escaped from North Korea were caught and forced to do shows in China, and apparently this happens elsewhere as a google search of "human trafficking webcam" will show . | ||
| god you are a moron. to use words like whore themseleves, etc you clearly have issues... my guess is you are a lonely homely man... | ||
| Hi, I used to be a stripper and contrary to popular belief I really built up my self esteem and had a fabulous time. I never let clients touch me, I didn't have sex for money nor did I have sexual relations with any of the men that came to my strip club. I was abused as a child and was used to people taking my clothes off with their eyes when I walked out in public! Stripping gave me the power, no one else. Anyway... I now work in a call centre and study full time. I am abused constantly over the phone by deranged customers and the obscenities they call me and email are appalling. I am now considering being a cam girl. I don't want to go back to stripping purely because I don't want to leave home and come home early morning. As I am studying full time I'd like to be able to work my own hours. I have a particular site in mind but I was wondering if there are any camgirls or guys that know of any good sites they can recommend or any other advice you would like to share. Much appreciated! Cindy xx | ||
| look guys im a mother of 2 my husband left me with both our boys and i had no job no house no income whatsoever and personaly i think that my sons should be able to eat and dress nice and such and at 20 years old with no higher education and no way to get one being a camgirl was a good opition i choose what i do and who i talk to i can ednore whoever i want and ban ppl or i can do sexual things i can get naked or not its up to me and i make good money and thats what matters to me right now becouse my boys r whats important and personaly if u dont like webcam girls then dont watch us just sayin | ||
| Hi, I have been working as a "cam girl" for about 2 months now, and honestly can't find a bad word to say about it. I am currently a student, at a top university, in a very expensive city, i am intelligent and i love sex - these factors, coupled with the fact a good friend had also given it a go, drew me into getting naked online. Part of me (i suppose the feminist part) does think its sad that young women are given no other opportunities of making good money than by using their bodies, that said money is scarce for all young people, gender regardless, unless fortunate to come from a wealthy family. I can work whenever i feel like it, usually when i'm genuinely in the mood, choose my own rates, and make upto £120 an hour (the website takes about 20% of this). All while in the comfort and privacy of my bedroom, whilst listening to music with a cup of tea sitting next to you. I don't have to touch, see or hear anyone. I have receieved absolutely no abuse or at any point felt exploited or demeaned. If you don't want to do something, no has always just been accepted. I work a part-time job in high-fashion retail as well, and have been spoken down to and made to feel humiliated by clients there, all for the luxury of minimum wage. I have always been very sexually confident and explorative, i attend fetish nights, and am very interested in human sexuality. Saying that, I don't sleep around. I wouldn't recommend it to anyone who isn't naturally a bit of an exhibitionist. Doing cam hasn't really changed me, or how i see the world, I'd like to think I was pretty clued up to begin with. But it is helping me financially, and taking some of the pressure off, worrying about rent and bills, which allows me to concentrate on my studies more. I haven't told many people about it, and i'm not stupid enough to think some of my friends and all of my family would be happy about what i am doing. As posted below, videos being made and widely circulating the internet is a worry... I certainly don't think my family are the kind of people to stumble across anything, and the career i am going into is not one that would be concerned with my past - if the worst did happen. | ||
| I read most of the comments bcuz I have been researching for months the pros/cons of becoming a webcam girl. I am 23 yrs old with a 2 yr old child. I am separated from her father who left me with a $1200 +utilities, car note, insurance, etc. He has no job n hasn't worked for a year so even child support would get me nowhere. I work usually 12hrs a day but is a night shift. Is a respectable job but I have too many responsibilities for only $14 an hour. I am the manager of the company n I am super tired, super stressed n super overwhelmed with bills n lack of quality time with my child. Why has it taken me so long to make up my mind about becoming a webcam girl? Because I am afraid that these sites will only screw me over by not paying what I diserve. How reliable are these websites? They all claim 2 b the highest paying, the highest traffic. So which one is the right one? Some of them say they will pay weekly, some bi weekly n some monthly. Some offer direct deposits with certain banks only, some mail you a check n some use ePassporte. Now, how reliable are these payouts? Will they make the direct deposits on time everytime? Will they pretend to mail me a check n then claim it was lost in the mail? Do I have to pay a fee for using ePassporte as a payout option n if so, how long does it take for that money to become available to me? I know a lot of people consider these women whores or compare the webcam girls to prostitutes. But as many have said here, I agree that as long as you are not really having actual physical sexual intercourse with anyone n getting paid for it, then it is not really prostitution. And for the women who claim that webcam girls destroy families, think about this: there had to be a reason for which your husband decided to look for sexual satisfaction else where n most likely you were the cause of it. So who really destroyed the family? All I really want is to pay my bills n support my daughter. | ||
| This is an interesting forum-I have not read all of the comments yet. A lot of these cam girls are average woman (some are average woman that do really dirty things on cam) that are in college or just need money. Latter in their lives they will get normal jobs. It's interesting that the cam girls from Phil Russia Romania seem to have a lot of good girls trying to make money. It seems the American girls are the bad girls that do it for fun. What a lot of the eastern European girls don't relize is that this is not something that's temperary that what they do on cam can easily become an Internet sex video. The studios themselves often have the girls sign a contract saying that they can use there pictures and videos. I have seen cam girl videos on a site with a water mark for the website and it's shows that were recorded and posted to promote the website. And it's not that hard to record a webcam video and the result it a video that's as good as the original stream. The program is a screen video recorder and the program is only 15 dollars. I have recorded privates before I have done with cam girls because it's a waste to pay a dollar or two a minute and when the video is over it's gone. I never post the videos I have but other people do. There are websites where people post cam girl videos that were captured. I have even seen a couple of cam girls I know well on there. I emailed three of them and told them they were on a site and they were shocked and said they did not know they were being recorded and gave no permission to be posted. Any girl thinking about doing this should know that being recorded by a custumer is a real danger. One girl in a video I saw the person you made the video put her real name in the title. Some girls might not care but I think most do. The sites are fun because you can see average girls get really wild. But the sites also do nothing to prevent the girls from being recorded and some have sample videos of all the cam girls shows for fifteen dollars a month. | ||
| uuuuuuuuuuu guys are all great boz u guys had all ur free time and money to read and write these coments ,heheh sorry one of them i am ,,but i dont want to come again ,,, and all webcamgirls r ass holes ..u fuck | ||
| USA is the greatest world porn factory. most internet porn consumers are US citizens. most women who work on sexsites feed US sex industry. before talking about those women immorality, try to have a deep look in yourself and the way you consider rest of the world.... you bunch of hypocrits lol | ||
| I think its great that, ppl are able to express themselves so carefree, it shows that they are willing to go that certain distance and are comfortable in doing so. See I wish i could find a internet webcam girl, just to have fun with, not meaning that I wouldnt be true to myself or anything, just in it for the fun. | ||
| Being a webcam girl is an excellent way to make money and like the person above said you have to be open-mined and have the ability to have fun and you can really earn a lot of money especially when you been doing it for a while and get a fan base. Terrifc way to rake in a lot of cash | ||
| My g/f and I have been doing adult web cams for four years now. We started at 19 and we are now 23. Just from the web cam, with about 10 hours a week, we make about $8,000 a month. She makes about $4500 with just her by herself, $2000 a month with me and her as a couple, and another $2000 with me by myself. I am not gay, but I decided to host adult web cam chats in the gay section... tons of money! You have to be open and willing. Have a smile and great personality. When you first start out, you wont make that much. But after about six months, once you establish a fan base, you can easily make a couple thousand a month without trying. | ||
| well I never cut my har off or tried to be a boy I have always faught to be more feminine I have also always been very modest and thought very little of myself . However doing this for the last few months has not only made me some fat ass checks and new friends. It has helped me get to know me and fell 100 % better about my body and looks. No its not for everybody but it is for me :) I am a very sexual person who has always been extreemly sheltered, mom married me off when I was just sixteen and everything from there was heart break . THe world I live in is either make it for yourself or have nothing this town is full of goodies who will never even have to have a job because their parents hand them everything houses most of you dont even dream of owning they have as a first house. this job has gotton me on my feet, made me happier and yes sexually healthier. Not to mention the man I am married to now has no problem in the world with it it has bumped our sex life after five years been kinda nice. you can call me a whore yes I sell my body on cam oh my here is the funny thing you can down me all day long for it but you really need to have a chat with the 100's of men who come to see me online every day if it werent for them I would not be on the site a all lol and my whoring does not get me any stds , no danger, no stalkers, I dont work at a strip club where people get to disrespect and talk down on . I also have a full time job which I dont even need but I am a respectable person not to mention I cant stand being at the house all the time we all have to have a reason to get out every now and then lol I do not go onto yahoo and try to get people to come to the site for me I do however go on and do free shows occasionally on yahoo . I also hate bots to no end and I do think they could let it be I mean there are a million men who sign on every day to one site or another without the need of advertisement from me.I feel good about the work , I relieve my stress they relieve theirs and we both walk away happy . I also get tipped for a smile and a conversation from many men and women , you may think there is something wrong with what I do but you are prolly one of the ones who never had to work for what you got I work for it and I do it honestly not like some people I know recieving welfare and working under the table , or others who sell drugs to your kiddos ,I dont stand on a street corner and I dont even have sex with anyone other than my husband .which most women do though they dont tell it that way . If you dont like it then one stop going to yahoo chat rooms we all know who you are gonna get there,stop going to the sites. I had to look for it its not thrown in your face unless your in the right area .OH and no my guys are not fat hairy drunks, not even guys who could not get a women hell most of them have a gf or wife but just arent satisfied. some people are very sexual and they sometimes love someone who is not all that sexual if they are looking at a girl on cam be glad they are not getting a girl from 6th street and bringing home disease and embarrasement .there are 1000's of cam girls out there and some are genuine some are not just like with anything else. Good luck to you guys who do not want to see it I am sorry that you clicked the button in the first place its a choice though the same as mine to play the game. | ||
| I am talking on yahoo with a girl who claims shes a cam girl in the US, she keeps saying she wants to meet and has givin me one free show. The only thing she keeps asking for is votes on random porn sites, is it a scam or what? (Editor's notes: Scam.) |
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| Okay, so this whole thing started a while ago, but I decided to add my two cents. I'm a college student at an ivy league school, and I would say I'm fairly intelligent girl with a good head on her shoulders. I also consider myself a feminist. However, I am a cam girl. I don't think the two are mutually exclusive--I perform (live and on camera) independently quite frequently, and am also a "girl" on a famous alternative pornographic photography website, because I like it. I'm not ashamed to admit that I enjoy the attention. I also study, work two jobs, hang out with friends, date...Being a cam girl doesn't necessarily mean giving up your regular life. However, I will be honest and say that I don't particularly think other girls should become involved in the industry, especially if they're doing it merely for the money. I'm incredibly sexual, and performing has always been an outlet for me to express these feelings. I also understand that, in many senses, I am being exploited. I'm okay with that. (I also met my boyfriend through my performing, which I'll say is fucked up in its own way, but he's a fabulous guy) But like I said, people SHOULD NOT become involved with the cam business if its merely just for money. For those who aren't prepared and educated on the dangers and potential vices that come with camming, it can be a terrible job. But for those girls who really like doing it, whether we're "whoring" ourselves out or not, we should be allowed to without being judged. I don't feel like I'm giving up on my self respect or dignity--Working for myself has let me pick and choose who I perform for, and that keeps me feeling in control. (Which is why I have a problem with the ridiculous camgirl sites, which mostly exploit its performers.) I am not a cam girl. I am a girl that likes to perform on cam. There is a difference. | ||
| Ive spent a lot of money on camgirls, too much in fact. Its very addictive. I try to keep away from them now but the temptation is always there. | ||
| I never understand why people think there is a massive stigma towards this. The girls have a lot of fun doing it, it's private and they earn A LOT.
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| I'm a webcam girl and NO I don't consider myself a prostitute. I don't have to see or touch anyone, my site is softcore so all I do is flash my breasts and dance. I am NOT giving up my privacy. When I want privacy I just close the damn browser. I make $500 dollars a day and am supporting my mother while attending college. I don't think ANY job that doesn't hurt anyone is morally wrong. People who work for private health insurance companies or lawyers who defend serial killers are the ones who are morally wrong in our society. Everyone sells out a bit. I had a job as a cashier, and another job as a telemarketer for a charity organization, and I was treated with less respect in one day at those jobs than I've been treated in the year I've worked as a webcam girl. Call my a slut or whore if you want, I'll just go dry my eyes on thousand dollar bills. | ||
| Hey there, I see nothing wrong with webcam girls. It’s seems to be a safer (than porn/escorts), and potentially lucrative way of making money. Although people may see it as a form of degradation, it is nevertheless controllable. The girls are, after all, removed from the ’punter’. I think the only problem is that it encourages people to view women as objects, and that is vaguely repulsive, but entrenched in today’s society. The only problem is when men get attached to these women, or vice versa, and think that they have some sort of relationship, or emotional interest in them. This has caused me a few problems because of my current boyfriend. He has befriended various webcam girls on facebook. I didn’t realise who they were initially, but after one contacted me, telling me to stay away from him, telling me I wasn’t good enough for him, I became interested in it. It seems you have to be very strong to undergo such a performance in front of these men while remaining detached. This is why I find it uncomfortable to know that he has tried to meet up with these girls. For me, the whole idea of webcam sex is to remove responsibility and create something based around you own fantasies. If you can’t/don’t want to separate this from reality there is a problem. Hypocritically enough, I have thought about doing the same thing. I performed a show once and enjoyed myself, never once feeling guilty or emotionally connected to the guy in my flat screen. It was safe and fun, although I fully understand the moral implications: It’s wrong to objectify yourself to strangers whose opinions maybe far from your own. However, the people that count are the ones you need to look out for. I think my boyfriend and I both feel accountable to each other, which is why he has lied and I have omitted to tell the truth. I insisted my boyfriend remove these women from his friends list, but the incident has left me feeling tentative. He lied to me about who they were; he lied about what his intentions were with these women. However, since meeting me he has been a very loving and patient boyfriend. If people could see it as a lucrative and satisfying experience that passes the time between droughts in money, or droughts in girlfriends it might be deemed less contentious. The main issue I have with it is the clandestine way people go about dealing with it. As far as scams go, I think selling sex to strangers will be rife with tricks and cons. People who expect morally upright business women are missing the point entirely, and should perhaps revaluate their grip on reality. | ||
| i am poor boy please. my life is very said hungry....i finish study school +2... help i more study please some give money plz........... | ||
| So I have just read down through all the comments since this page started and I am slightly upset by the narrowmindedness of some of the responses. Yes, I do not agree with the girls that are forced to do this and there should be some way to stop that.... But as so many people have commented here being a webcam girl is a job just as any other position is a job. Yes, some girls do it to support their habit, but others as the hopefull doctor above noted are working to pay their bills and get through college. I have been an entertainer (stripper) on and off for years along with running my own businesses in more "professional" positions as you refer to them. The $15/hr u can make working what some of you refer to as "normal" jobs is not enough for a single parent to live on and not be in poverty. Just to note "normal" is a setting on my washing machine and who are you to make judgememt. If you do not like these sites do not visit them. To each their own. Oh, and let's not forget what the oldest profession in the United States was...Cowboys and Prostitution. | ||
| You know editor you are quite sad because all you want to do is put down those girls when really the truth is you would never have the balls to do it. Because " oh no if someone sees me naked I'm a whore" you dumbas$ I mean really. It doesn't make you a whore to be comfortable in your own skin. It makes you sexy and empowered because now all of the little pussy girls who are just too good for that kind of stuff just will never know. Look truth is it will make you feel beautiful and take away your insecurities but condeming it and being so closed minded and a simple bitch doesn't make you right why don't you try something like that and maybe you will come to see they are just like you just far more emotionally advanced regular people. I'm a stripper and although I couldn't do porn becausse its not for me doesn't mean ill condemn it of course ill open my eyes at it and be afraid... But I won't be like you and put it down because I don't understand. Have a good one nobody from a small state- stripper (Editor's notes: Look up the definition of "Devil's advocate".) |
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| hey i'm a man and i am a cam whore..... i love the money.... its all profit lol.... i work from home my rent is a tax write off as well as clothes, cable bills etc.... but dont get me wrong i still probably paid alot more taxes than most of u last year (over 8000USD) so i'm doing what may be a gross and immoral job but... i gotta eat and i have no skills and grew up in the gutter.... but i will say this ... while u become rich and live the dream that most ppl never get to see... it's not all its cracked up to be.... it's an evil business that will take a toll on u..... | ||
| exwebchathost is posting BS. because of ppl like her. Families are ruined | ||
| I dont know why everybody is so mean thinking about a webcam model thing ... I m not a webcam model but there is a site that i like and i think i will sign up www . mywebcamspace.comanyway guys come on even when u go out u have to pay the entrance in a club right ?so what up with so many complains ... beside some of u guys cant get close to even talk to a hot girl :))) so the webcam sites are for that so stop complaining .. its a job like any other job its hard job to deal with everybody ... or what try this : go ahead and u sign up as a man can u do it ?? i dont think so | ||
| I am surprised and shocked at how harshly web cam girls are being slammed here. I am looking for information and reputable sites for becoming a web cam girl. My reasons? I was diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder 1 (Rapid Cycling) while serving in the Air Force as a Bio-Environmental Engineering Technician. The disease is genetic and the stress of basic and tech school were the triggers that "set off" the disease, prior to the Air Force I was not displaying any symptoms. I have not worked a "normal" 9-5 job in over four years, largely due in part to the overwhelming panic attacks that are paralyzing...and that is putting it mildly. You would never know it to look at me or to talk to me. I do everything within my power to hide it, so to speak so I have sought out everything on the Internet, what can be done at home, i.e. administrative work. I was an executive administrative assistant for 10+ years however finding legitimate work-at-home, even telecommuting work doesn't seem to be proving fruitful...more scams than you can shake a stick at so I have been looking into and researching web camming. It's tricky and I have my reservations but at the end of the day, it boils down to being able to support myself and it is an option that I am considering. A couple of my concerns have to do with the sites themselves and are they linked in any way to illegal sex trafficking. Are the "clients" sexual predators, pedophiles or rapists? That I cannot answer but they are out there, I would be naive to think otherwise. One part of me holds back until I have enough information to know that I am a part of group of CONSENTING ADULTS and the site is legitimate. If anyone knows of any, please email me. | ||
| I was wondering about how to become a webcam girl? I'm pretty attractive, 19 with long red hair(natural) and think its better than becoming a stripper. &&If you can do it on your own so the website you use doesnt take half your money(kinda a scam since the girls do the real work). &&whats the best webcam to use and any other important information would be great. (Editor's notes: You'll likely make more money as a stripper. Unless you run your own business for the webcam, that is. But, uh, why not another occupation?) |
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| I have absolutely no problem with the morality issues other closed minded people have expressed here about the web cam porn phenomenon. More power to em... Male DNA isn't going to change and there's huge demand to be filled by lonely males looking for a fix (of course this isn't the answer but as a male i understand the conundrum) What i do have a major problem with is the overwhelming scam and fraudulent tactics that web cam girls and their studios are doing for marketing in order to try and trick people into signing up. I joined several dating websites looking for real persons, friendship, and love, only to find that 90% of the dating profiles posted were fake, and were just web cam girls in disguise. They respond and exchange interest with you (prompting your excitement enough to actually then pay for the dating website service, with dating site enjoying the benefits of this scam), then start chatting with you on IM, then heat up the conversations with some sexy flirting, progressing to confession that they do web cam shows for fun as a safe "hobby" and would you care to join them 100% free for some fun, just need to go through age verification to protect her security etc. of course once you've done this your cc is billed regularly and you find out it's just a pay to play webcam porn site and you've been had. As noted in many posts above some of the webcam girls actually are quite clever people with their words, and have mastered the art of the scam. Others are quite pathetic in their techniques and clearly not as good with the con. For the last 2 days exploring dating sites on the internet it's been a darkly comical experience, complete with a few nigerian and russian scam artists thrown in for good measure. I think the web cam marketing has gotten so bad to the point where all online dating is a joke (unless the profiles are extremely unattractive then perhaps it is a real person!) I have far more respect for an escort than a web SCAM girl ! my .02 on the experience... | ||
| Are we allowed to mention webcam girls names on here, particulally ones that are Pro scammers? (Editor's notes: I just don't want this to turn into a giant page of spam.) |
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| I use to never think of doing web cammin... i have never even heard of it. I am a single mom of 2, and i do have a full time job and i am in college. It still was not cutting it though. I was looking for another job that I could do from home and I came across it. It was different at first but it has helped me feel better about me self. I never thought i was ugly or anything but i was always real shy. I do not want to do this forever but my full time job is not cutting it and for now this is helpin to pay the difference. maybe their father will step up, or ill finish school first. lol i just wanna give my kids a secure place and do all i can for them. so when im not at work, or school, and the kids are in school, i work online from home and make some money. and web cammin it not really what u think. A lot of people do not even pay. their are 3 types of people, premium members, basics, and guest. only premium memeber bye shows, but i still an nice to al of them. and i only get paid when im in a show. so when im in the free chat room an d talkin to them i am really just a nice person. it is a lot like being a stripper though and even in the free chat guys cam tip u lol but i made like 500 dollars a week for 15 hours a week and im new to this site! u have to find the right one though this is my 4th site and the first 3 i made no money on. there is a lot of reaons why some people may or may not like it, and i use to not. was sooo against porn and all that. but when i had no choice and bills piled up i tried it. and now i dont think it is so bad. | ||
| Perhaps she will end up becoming a gynocologist, or a proctologist after attaining her degree. Then this work would have helped her more than she could have imagined. (Editor's notes: Now that is funny!) |
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| Having an open mind is all and good. Your achieving your desired goals now. If men wish to pay to see your nude body and have you entertain them with certain sexual fantasies, then it is their free will. But don't you think your using someone who may be lonely at their expense? I mean when you pack up and leave what happens to those poor souls? Have you ever thought that some my not be as sweet or genuine as you? If people are so lonely then why do they visit porn sites? Think about it. | ||
| I'm a webcam girl. I'm also a second year university student working towards med school. I cam because it gives me the freedom to work when I want, and to make a good living.
Because of webcaming, I'm able to pay my bills, make my rent, go to school and live a comfortable life.
I don't want to do this forever, but for me, for now, it works.
I'm not a whore either, I have respect for myself. I have my limits when I'm online, there's a lot I won't do. Also, lots of the men on these sites are lonely, and they just want someone to talk to.
Have an open mind. (Editor's notes: I'd love to be watching your cam feed, recording it, and then playing it back 10 years from now when you have a practice. I bet it would bode very well for your patients knowing what you did in the past.) |
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| can i ask romanian girls, what is the average monthly wage for e.g waitress, secretary. also do the webcam girls know that it is possible to record their performances and share them on the internet. the problem is that 10 yrs down the line, your kids/husband may see a video of u doing sexual things. u take a big risk doing this. be careful and very sure of what you want to do | ||
| webcam girls are great.i love it.....dont care wat people said.:) | ||
| Getting the kind of information contained in this thread has been hard work to come by and it looks like everyone congregated here. I'm a little suspect about some of the comments made, I read a good account of someone who was hired to go online and encourage people to use webcams. However I really hope 'Lady' comes back and tells us about her experience although a dose of salt is recommended. | ||
| Hi all, It is pretty much sweet coz people who wants work as cam girls but its only there profesion or way to earn money.im running virtual studios all over the world so my models they all happy with what they do. so still im recruiting more models too if any one likes like to get you work for me specially asians cheers | ||
| Ok. Let me tell you my story, being a camgirl for an ENTIRE week. ITS GREAT!!! ITS FUN!!! ITS GOOD MONEY!! My very first private session on a leading site lasted 30 minutes and I made eight bucks. When you first start out, you can only charge the minimum per minute. After you log 90 minutes online, you can charge up to your maximum - and your maximum is determined by your "star rating" visitors have given you. My rating is already a "5" and I am now charging $5 a minute, which equals anywhere from $1.50 a minute to $2.75 a minute in my pocket. Now, a 30 minute private session makes me $45 - $82 bucks....and you set how many hours you work, and take breaks when you want. Its easy money, its fun, you meet a lot of people and MOST of the men are nice. If they aren't nice, you can block them and move on to the next one. There are always people online looking to chat, and most of the requests are things you'd do in your own bedroom anyway. You can block certain states too, so no worry about your kid's teacher seeing you online. I see no problem for a confident girl who looks good making money for BEING AT HOME, talking online and showing some skin to a poor guy who's wife probably looks like jabba the hut. He doesn't want to cheat on her, so he chats with me, has some fun, and keeps his family intact and I get paid. How is this not a sweet deal for all parties involved? I'm married too - and my hubby has no problem with my job! He was more pissed when my old boss would give me ridiculous tasks that had nothing to with my job or degree. I felt more "used" when I was working in an office! | ||
| As far as im concerned everyone has their own opinions and regardless of what everyone thinks theres always going to be something people dont agree with. im a web cam girl and doing so it has got me out of serious financial difficulties. At the end of the day its a JOB it brings in money trying to keep a roof over your head and doing what ever it takes doesnt make you a whore its not like i sell myself on the back streets as a prostitue. it might not be your average job that everyone favours but at the end of the day all cam girls are earning a living. some people are lucky enough to get good things to them or have mummy and daddy to help them through life or a rich bf whatever. but some of us work and earn money the hard way it takes guts to do the job and you have to lower your standards but it earns money. instead of complaining about sex websites why not complain about the lack of money and financial aid for those unfortunate in need of help and money. its not like the social gives a toss these days 40 odd quid a week to live off that dont pay bills does it. theres far more worse crap going on in the world than worrying about girls earning a living using their body. lets put it this way id rather flash my body than clean up shitty toilets for a living . | ||
| uhm let me reply u mister RICHARD ANDERSON . i work hard for every cent i make and i earn more than $ 5000 , more than u can imagine so i can afford to buy every ring or necklage i want. but let me make it clear for u . first of all i can beleive u write such a miserable comment in teh same day u email me telling me how sorry u r - BULLSHIT . ok .. so the diamond ring u sent me is a ring u paid for $ 300 CHEAAAAAAAAAP so u better be explicit , coz i real diamond ring is more than $ 2500. Next problem , the money u OFFERED to send and i never wanted them but u had INSIST $ 5000 ... i paid already too much for them , hours spending with u on yahoo , hours spending with u on private and few days with no work coz i had my accoutn closed becoz of u . Im asking u now mister RICHARD who is the victim????? u or me? accept ur miserable life coz ur such a miserable man. im just trying to do the best for my job so leave me alone | ||
| I just signed up to be a web cam girl. I've already turned everything in, but I have not officially started working yet. The company I'm working for does not have my signature on any paper work, and doesn't have my social security number. I'm a broke college student and my parents still file my tax returns. I don't want my parents to know about this job so I need to know if this is a job that pays under the table, or if taxes will be filed. Please only leave serious responses, I don't need any insults. | ||
| I think the only thing more 'pathetic' then being a web cam girl, or being the audience to such entertainment is writing a blog in which you portray yourself as a person of such authority to make such judgments, without as much as a stable stance on the subject.
Do models whore themselves out? Or must vagina be shown for these aligations? What is wrong with vaginas? What if you are comfortable in your naked body? Are you still degrading yourself? I find flipping burgers for 8.75 degrading. (Editor's notes: Meh, I stopped caring about this years ago. It was just a random thought that went through my head and I figured I'd write it down. Apparently people take this topic very seriously and for a while I had fun playing Devil's advocate as well as changing my beliefs based on the reply I was giving.) |
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| Easy money..Fun...Everyone likes sex..Some are just more open about it than others..If u dont like it dont watch it...Thats your prerogative. | ||
| I THINK IT IS A SLUTTY BUT EASY WAY TO MAKE MONEY. I AM THINKING OF JOINING THESE SMART SLUTS AND BECOME A WEBCAM GIRL TO!!! | ||
| do you really think working as a camgirl is worse than spending your life as a coalminer in a hole in the ground? or how about being a prison guard. or how about a respectable wall street banker who steals 50billion from trusing investiors. or how about the US government who annihilates tens of thousands or iraqis for oil. gimme a break. we are all whores in this world one way or another. if you think you are not, you're either a fool or a liar. | ||
| Another poor Romanian girl. Don't their sob stories just break your heart. Imlive's hall of fame should be renamed The Hall of Bucharest! But why is it, their self esteem won't allow them to fly their countries flag on their profile page. Or acknowledge they are from Romania. Would it have something to do with Romania being the number one country for Internet scams, phishing, spamming. If there is an angle to bilk money out of the unsuspecting with empty promises they know it or will write a new chapter. Beware people it's the cash they want and not your friendly company or interesting conversation. I came across a complaint against one of their hosts also top earner. The complaint Thanks for the timely reply. In regards to my session with SEXenchantress, yes we spent some time together and both where enjoying it, as she was enjoying her anal talents, I ask her to go deeper and she booted me out! Could she not have just said no, in a proffessional way and we could have just carried on. Hard to know what to expect as she will offer many pleasures one time willingly and the next she says she does not do that? Hard to figure. lol She is a pleasure to enjoy but unpredictable. As a paying customer should I not expect some consistency from them? Or just pay and let them decide what they will do with my money. Thanks And a reply I am in receipt of your email to customer service. Firstly, I would like to thank you for being a member of the site and hope you have enjoyed our services thus far. I understand that you inquired about a chat you had with host SEXenchantress. I understand that for some reason, the host logged out of the chat before it was over. We do not believe that a member should be charegd for a service they did not enjoy; however in a case where the host does her best to perform for a very long duration, we do not believe it is fair to refund the chat as it will revoke the host's earnings. ImLive customer service team is here for you 24/7, providing personal and attentive service by email and telephone so that your experience on ImLive will be the best one on the net. If you have other queries you would like me to address, please feel free to contact me and I will be happy to assist you. Sincerely, Jessica Supervisor Customer Service ImLive.com Another Reply Thank you for contacting ImLive customer service. We have also received your complaint regarding the chat you had with host SEXenchantress. We have checked our database and, according to it, you were in the host’s chat room on separate occasions after your initial session was over . Please provide us with some more information concerning what occurred during this chat and the problems that were encountered. It is very important for us to understand what the problem was. We are doing everything in our power to provide the best service, and to achieve the best result we need to receive all the relevant information. Thank you for your assistance in this matter. Please do not hesitate to contact us should you require any further assistance. Sincerely, Darren Customer Service ImLive.com Some of Imlive's and the member's final thoughts. Member Response Jessica I am not pushing for a refund, never was, but bringing forward the unprofessinal attitude of some of your hosts. Perhaps you should expand their profiles with a detailed "services offered" anal.oral,dp, multple dp what type of roleplay, description. No doubt this would please many members as they would know what is being offered and not get upset when entering a session and having the host milk minutes from them as they don't understand. lol Pretty obvious as to what they are doing, as per Imlive and other sites host tips and guide lines. Imlive Response Dear I am writing to you in response to your email. There is no argument that SEXenchantress is a very good host. the majority of the her reviews are excellent and we receive good feedback about her constantly. Member Response SEXenchantress is good and you, Imlive, would lose substantial income if you did not support her and the other top 100 earners in your stable. Although the reviews may be true they are edited, deleting any negative reviews as to offer the illusion of "perfection". This brings your business model into question. Fraudulant lies and non-truths to maximize earnings. Imlive Response As I previously assured you, I will not allow a guest to be charged for a service he wasn't enjoying of, and therefore chose to end in a timely manner. My answer to you with the decision not to refund, was due to the facts. The simple facts who point out the fact that you repeatedly entered chats with this host. I didn't say that I take the host word over yours, I do believe that your 14 minute chat with her was not fully satisfying for you, however the host performed and did her best. Member Response No doubt that is not what I am expecting never did. Imlive Response I trust that you can understand and respect that you received a service, and therefore a refund will not be issued. ImLive business model has no relevance to this issue and is not the base for my decision. We take pride in providing a great service, a site does not become successful with thousands of new registered hosts and members every day, if a service is lacking personal attention and human consideration. Member Response Sure you provide a service? Based on fantasy and non truths, lies in regards to your actual purpose. Imlive promote big numbers? Bogus numbers, the internet and your industry relies on this. The unregulated cyber space where anything goes.Imlive has pride in providing great service? Then why don't you take pride and issue the actual operating facts, instead of creating what looks good. In my correspondence with hosts, it becomes more apparent most are from poor countries in the east, Cezhs. Polish, Romanian, Russian. Poor niaeve girls chasing the western dream which Imlive promotes. Do you look at their reality, being pimped out on line, skirting the edge of the law, so for pennies a minute that you provide that makes it oaky. You are getting paid huh? Would you put yourself in their place for a couple of weeks? It has been enlightening Jessica. But my question is will you Or Imlive put your true numbers, and no memebership for free chat should not count as these would not be viable, looks good though, the hosts must think you are really thinking about them and their interests. Or do you chose to hide behind the fantasy world and unregulated cyberia and keepp the hosts with you ignoring their and your reality? Would you like to discuss this in a public forum, online, media, TV, magazines. A few questions, will you answer them, Only time will tell. Then again things are not such a big secret. Sleep well Jessica as we know your pimped out hosts will be. Imlive Response I hope that you will continue being an ImLive member, you getting closer towards becoming a Gold member which will grant you with bigger bonuses for every purchase you make. Sincerely, Jessica Supervisor Customer Service ImLive.com And Imlive's final reply I would like to conclude this issue. As I have stated before, Imlive.com is an open for all video chat platform. We are a non-judgmental community where people of all sorts are welcome to use as a performer or guest. As for your concern that our hosts’ reviews are edited or deleted, rest assured that we post all reviews that are not personally offensive towards the hosts. . Nevertheless, you are welcome to read reviews of many other hosts on the site, you will see that not all of them are positive, but sometimes people choose to use offensive words and thus a review will be removed. It is of utmost importance to us to provide excellent service to our hosts and guests. Your are free to decide whether you wish to remain a member of this community. This issue is closed and will not be discussed further, I believe I related to all of your concerns more than once. Thank you and have a pleasant week. Sincerely, Jessica Supervisor Customer Service ImLive.com So the business model, states, Imlive has covered their ass as to what may happen between host and member in the contract. They are their to take your cash. If a hall of famer is out of line? What do they care? She brings in thousands and thousands of dollars, on pennies a minute. One customer, hell there's more in line and the girls have them on a hook. | ||
| I have been going to Imlive for about a year maybe once or twice a month. You really have to be careful about some of these women. There was one host (sensualextasy1) that I talked to for quite a while and then she wanted to chat offline. Offline she started giving me the con job. She told me how much she liked me and wanted something from me to now how much I cared..LOL She actually wanted me to buy her a diamond ring and then get this...she wanted me to hide it in clothing and ship it to her. She said it would save her money on customs. Not true. Romania where she is from does not allow the importation of diamonds. She was asking me to commit mail fraud. I checked into it and if I were to have done it I could have been subject to a 5000 dollar fine and up to two years in jail. I contacted ImLive and gave them all the details of what she was asking me to do and they said they would "investigate". LOL. They got back to me in a week and said the host told them we knew each other prior to ImLive so there was no problem. Not sure what that had to do with anything. The really funny thing is that I was just back on their site this week and saw this host again and she has a new diamond ring and also a "open hearts" diamond necklace from Kay Jewelers. So I guess she got someone or a couple of other guys to do her dirty work. Makes me wonder what other types of scams this woman has run. She is usually one of ImLives top money earners so they probably don't care what she does as long as they are making their money. | ||
| Having mental stability or balance would be, by example: A girl who knows that she could, if she wanted to, take her clothes off on camera for money, but chooses not to take the easiest path because she knows that she doesn't want to feel bad later in life for the choices she makes now. Webcam girls who post here shouldn't get upset when posts are made implying they have mental instability. If you take your clothes off for money and to feel sexy or beautiful (or whatever it is you're selling "Romanian Girl") then you definitely do not have the confidence in yourself to know that you can do anything that you choose to do with or without your clothes. Sure things will come up along the way that make it harder to get to where you want to be, but please don't make excuses for yourself. If you are comfortable doing what you are doing, then kudos to you, but it was not your only option, and you are the only one victimizing yourself when you tell the story about how "WebCamming" saved your life. There are many college students out there who struggle through on meager incomes and who don't resort to exposing their vittles on the web to get them where they want to be in life. The fact that you base your entire story on how good the webcam industry has been for your mental health is entirely contradictory when you take a deeper look at the fact that you could not feel beautiful without the men you have served as a cam girl telling you that they think you are. You seem to be in deep denial as a lot of the future webcam girls of the world do too (judging by their posts on this website). To the one who brought up feminism... shame on you. Do some research you will find that any woman who considers herself to be a feminist would immediately set her sites on you as her sworn enemy. And please don't retort that you are a feminist... you are most certainly not. I am not condemning you. If you want to get naked online and chat up mostly disgusting men who can't fulfill their sexual desires in real life for money. GREAT for you. Seriously, take your clothes off, talk dirty to them, and rake in the dollars. Like I said Kudos to you. If you want to become a stripper and take your clothes off while dancing around a pole and rubbing all up close on the same disgusting men, who are not happy in their real lives for cash, then once again Kudos to you and GREAT for you. If you want to (and think you can) become the next Playboy Bunny and be "every man's" fantasy girl, piped in to him through the magazine straight to his mailbox, then GREAT for you and Kudos. BUT DON'T try to act like you have had it harder than the rest of us, or that webcamming was your only option because it wasn't. Don't try to sell yourself as this person who has it all together, because you are not. You could be... one day... when you realize that you are worth as much with your clothes on as with your clothes off, but until that day comes... let's not pretend. Just say "I didn't feel good about myself then and I needed a temporary remedy". You try to make it sound like it is all justified because there is a demand for you to get naked when you log into your account, but not all men and women need you to fulfill their sexual desires... maybe you will meet one and think he will be your future husband, until you tell him about your webcamming days and he realizes that you are not mentaly stable.... SELL YOUR GOODIES.... THE DEMAND IS HIGH :) | ||
| camwhores are awesome,you pay a buck or two a minute,and some beautiful foreign lady will do whatever you want,but i definitely think the whores will regret their choices at some point in life,all the sites record all their privates to sell at a later time,the videos will never ever go away,and ten years from now when their children are watching a video of mom fisting her ass for some random dude on the internet,its gonna be a very awkward dinner conversation And lol@the people commenting saying men lose in this situation,i pay a pathetic 20 bucks to have some hot girl do whatever i want while i whack off,thats a win in my book,im not some idiot who thinks these girls care,they want my money and i want them naked,simple as that | ||
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| My husband & I are interested in having sex on webcam for extra,but I have no idea @ all how to start or where 2 go any advise will b appreciated. Also about how much $ can u make doing this? | ||
| It’s nice to see such an extensive chat covering so many angles of this industry. I consider myself more or less against porn, but considering webcam. What I find most disturbing about (mainstream) porn is how lifeless and staged it is. All the women look the same, they say the same things, do the same acts there is nothing inspiring or sexy about it. Plus, the women are so artificial looking and the men are so average. Yet, porn has such a huge role in the west. It’s everywhere! So many people are shaping their sexual expectations on these scripts. It takes more than pinching a woman’s nipple to give her an orgasm, and most women don’t enjoy cum all over their face and in their hair! Men always claim they need the “visual aid” or that porn is just a fantasy world. But, whose fantasy is it? Do all men have the same limited boring neon fantasy? And what are women suppose to get off on? There is nothing feeding female sexual desire, it’s like we shouldn’t have any (unless we are starring in a porn). As open minded as I like to consider myself, I get the impression there is often a sad story surrounding people in the industry (often sexual abuse). Then there are the men that are basically pimping these girls out. Why is there such a huge demand for sex? Are we that primitive? Are we so repressed? Is real life that unsatisfying? Are their any men who don’t participate in this world? Does it come down to being lonely? Bored? I know these questions can’t really be answered. I found porn on my boyfriend’s computer and I was deeply offended. Since then I have been grappling with all of these ideas surrounding the industry. I know webcam is slightly different then porn. And I have an easier time accepting webcam because the people seem more real. At least the women have a voice, they can say no (hopefully). When I reflect on all the different jobs I have worked in different industries. I can easily say I felt degraded in many of them. I waitressed in a sports bar, probably the worst part was dealing with my three male bosses (the pimps). I wanted to believe there were alternative to the sex crazed nation I seem to be living in. I am trying to develop as more than just an object to be manipulated. But, most of my boyfriends have ended up disappointing me. I found out that my ex has paid for sex. My fleeting boyfriend after denying that he watches porn admitted to it and now that we have an open dialogue he admits he sees nothing wrong with it. As he puts it “people want more .. because with food the taste grows”. So now, I’m being compared to food and not enough food to satisfy his craving. Hmmm sweet. I guess I have to end our relationship. I don’t really feel like I can respect him anymore. But, I’m also tempted myself to get into the industry. I’ve finally accepted that age old saying “if you can’t beat em join em” maybe that is the only way I will feel peace in my environment. I need to concur it and manipulate it to meet my needs. It seems where ever I turn and who ever I meet this always creeps into my life and my relationships. So I’m reconsidering everything to do with relationships monogamy sex and traditional values. Fuck it. | ||
| hey i was wondering and have been for a while now, how to become one. i spoke with my hubby about it... we both think its a great idea, but how to get started i have no clue. i see there are a lot of girls on here who are web cam girls so maybe i can get some info... please if anyone wants to reply do so... thanks much :* | ||
| hi, I hear a lot of stories, can anybody tell me more? I know a girl form Colombia she works on a cam site 6 days a week to pay her study. She works in a studio, form what i have seen, the studio looks very poor. I really wonder how much money she makes in a month, because the studio owner get a lot also i guess. The average salery in colombia is abour $2000 a year, Does she earn more or less? | ||
| i had no clue webcam girls really existed. when i heard about them i never considered it. but, damn the interenet! somehow i ended up on flingcams site. i thought, ''wow, im bored and i get to type to half naked girls!!'' so, i figured out how it works and out of curiousity i end up going to a private room with some random asian girl. automatically, she started vigorously masturbating. not really a turn on. i felt bad just clicking out of her room, so i hung around a bit. so i leave it alone for awhile. i then found out about other sites. i would go to the rooms and chatup as long as i could until i would pretend to go to a private sesh with her. then move to the next. i ended up running into this young girl from the phillipines. she actually chatted with me for hours without me going to private. her story was similar to other girls...paying for school, etc. i wanted to tell her to try to get out of this line of work. but that doesnt seem credible coming from a guy on this lame site. she asked me why guys wouldnt take her to her private room. i felt sooo bad. why am i contributing to this? does she really have to do this to make a ''better'' life for herself? she was 19. i would visit her and just talk to her sometimes without paying. she seemed to be cool with it. but definitely wasnt into cam shows. anyway, back to the tangent. so, i dont learn my lesson. im back on the site messing with girls. i said ''fuck it'' and bought $40 of credits. i found this one girl that showed a little personality. i took her to private room and she went on about how she would be my girlfriend and all this shit. o.k., thats a given. it was cool chatting with her, dont get me wrong. i didnt want her to start masturbating fervently, but i was hoping for maybe a little tease....who cares, though? i was in here for like 5 minutes and i was alerted that i had 100 seconds left. i told the girl this and she said, ''pity.'' needless to say, i felt quite jipped. then i felt bad like maybe she thought because she wasnt getting naked i was lying about my time being up. so i went back to her freechat and explained and said i would see her again. she actually replied to me saying something like, ''i'll be waiting.'' i was soo hyped. ''yeah, she likes me!'' i thought about what just happened and how tricked i allowed myself to be. i actually thought for a second that this girl cared about if i came back or not. well, she cared if my cash came back, right? i know that. i was cool with her not getting naked. but when i thought about it...what did i just pay forty dollars for? hmmm, good question. i typed to a random girl for 5 minutes, thats all. i could go to a coffee shop a talk to an attractive girl there. the possibility of her getting naked isnt really going to happen. but is that the reason im drawn to these chat rooms? i guess what it is might be the excitment of being able to flirt with this girl and maybe she'll turn me on. how do i feel about this? quite pathetic in many ways. but hey...that doesnt stop me! i find this other girl that is super attractive. shes fully dressed, but has personality. in free chat, she asks if i have a cam too. i dont. i didnt go to private room w/ her. out of curiousity i came back later too see if she would ask again if i had a cam, thinking she wouldnt remember me. she didnt. she asked for a cam again. so, im like ''shit, this girl is into cam to cam action.'' i never considered getting a cam until now. i seriously put alot of thought into how i would get a cam and spend a grip of money on this girl. why? whats the appeal? does this girl really want to see me jerk it? i seriously doubt it. would i really subject her to that? i could say ''well, she asked for it.'' yeah, but why did she?i think what it might be is that cam to cam costs more. so yes, these girls are 99.999% into the money. its not personal. i ask again...whats the appeal? i guess it is a fantasy. which is weird that i would be into it because of how concerned i am with truth and reality. i dont judge these girls. i just wonder why they are cam girls. and when i go on there i hope that im not feeding something negative. fuckin internet!! guys are suckers for the nut! myself included. conclusion/point...money for sex in any form or fashion is a bad thing for me. the fact that cam girls are addictive is scary. im not going to be liberal and say ''different stokes for different folks'', i believe that any pornography is destructive. yeah i go to these sites, i understand why. has porn in general changed me? yes. my respect for women is dwindling. you know what though? its got its grips on me. so, sorry to those cam girls for being ''johnny jack off'' and having you comprimise yourself. | ||
| Only people making money from these sites these days are the studio and site owners.Models get nowhere near what they deserve,its exploitation plan and simple.Only way you can make money from it is to first make the contacts with a hand full of clients on a site then to go freelance and only do shows for them in msn or something. | ||
| I am thinking of doing this as a part time job to help me get started in what i want to do in life, i love sex, playing with myself, fantasies etc etc etc etc, so i think it's a good idea. Can anyone recomend a good site i could do it on or is it better doin it urself. thanx | ||
| you know everyone on earth is a whore we do things for what we want..work sex whatever the bad thing is most of these girls are not getting a fair percentage of their take they should start a union here in Us we think sex is such an immoral thing ..what a bunch of crap | ||
| plain and simple IF time proves theres a fault in any of this sex cam "business" the finger of blame can only point to us dudes. blame the greedy mean heartless studio owners who intimidate and threaten young ladies who know their beauty is only way to educate themselves out of poverty. Equal blame goes to the wankers and freak sex addicted mostly americans with their sick ass degrading requests for money.I've visited a few cam sites and what drew me in is simply looking at the prettiest girls from top to bottom hell i spent 50 bucks on a chubby babe she was so fine (no i didnt tell her to strip...she took her top off on her own) but what i witnessed later easily spelled the end of webcam for me, that was a girl who just finished a private session she was such a beauty moments earlier now struggling to put her bra on looking at cam her face in tears sobbing. i didnt do nothing to her but it was like i was part of the group who did ...nomore for me, | ||
| Another camgirl here. I find it hysterically funny when people get all puffed up with righteous indignation about how women like me are ruining society etc., or about how I must be some vapid whore or psychologically damaged because I make money showing skin and chatting with people on the internet. I daresay that people who're that hung up on what other people do with their lives are probably the ones who have the real problems. Anyway, I used my camming to pay for my living expenses while I went to college. I now have my masters and am working towards a doctorate and I have not a single penny of debt. When my looks (and I'm only average, but I make up for it in being friendly) fade, I'll have my fantastic education to fall back on. How many of the haters can say the same? | ||
| i there i have been seriousl considering this as a pat time job arond my job i enjoy being the centre of attention and am not confident abou my self or my ody but men sem to make me feel better can some ne mail me with details of where to start athenabolton18@hotmail.com | ||
| Hi. I just signed up to be a webcam model. There isn't a lot of truthful info on the web for webcam girls. So I'll try to keep updating on my experience becoming a webcam girl... I spent a couple of weeks looking around for the best site. Immediately I was a little disturbed by the contract they make you sign. Mot websites reserve the right to record your activities and use them however they choose. This means that without your consent they can make a video of your performance and sell it, possibly making buckets of cash even though you only got paid $1 a minute. I decided on imlive.com because they don't explicitly state that they own all rights to your performances. Another common agreement is that they reserve the right to your real name. This means that if they wanted to they could sell your recorded performance using your real name without your consent (and again, make a lot of money off of you without the correct compensation). This freaks me out-A LOT. Streamray, though it seems to provide hosts to more "upscale" sites, it also reserves the most rights to your name, your image, and any performances you do. You have to be totally confident if you use this site that you will never hold or be associated with someone who holds any kind of high profile position because once you sign up they own ALL RIGHTS to your image, your real name, and anything you do on camera. As far as the payscale goes. Everyone tells you a different story. I get the impression that it's mostly all lies. They will tell you whatever you want to hear to get you to sign up and they have made claims that monthly earnings are anywhere between $2000 and $30,000 a month. I'm going to try it out for a month and let then let you all know how much I really make as a pretty 20 something girl with a nice figure on a webcam site. From what I've gathered so far, you're dealing with some really shady guys running most of the sites. It's a sleazy business, but if it truly pays off it's worth it. I'LL LET YOU GUY KNOW HOW IT GOES! P.S. Some of the posts that are supposed to be from actual webcam hosts on this blog are simply cut and pasted from "testimonials" on webcam sites. | ||
| just to enlighten you people..when someone says porn is destructive to all woman, what they mean is that it builds up a certain image about woman that men expect. It creates a stigma for woman and men then try to place the stigma on the woman they meet. Look at it this way...men bitch about how metro sexuals are "pussifying" men and the image they portray affects how the woman in their life treat them. A woman sees a actors on TV and movies using face cream..so she starts to say to you..how come you dont use face cream like brad pitt? He's a manly icon and you dont act like him..wtf? Well. If you can't see how the issue of porn affecting woman relates to that then you're an idiot. | ||
| I've been looking at webcam sites for about a year now. At first I got into it because porn kind of bored me. It seemed to be so scripted and the girls had tons of make-up on and the lighting was really perfect. So I got into webcams to try to see more "normal/ordinary" girls nude. I have mixed feelings about being a "customer". I'd like to first note that the site I go to, it is free for people to talk with the girls. There is a long list of web cam chat rooms with a picture of each girl where you can go in and see the girl and chat with her. They will be clothed in these chat rooms (though some girls wear lingerie, bikinis, corsets, and other alluring clothes to better entice potential customers). In the chat room, you basically just talk with the girls with other people in there. Of course it really runs the gamut, some of the girls just sit there bored and barely even chat. and some girls seem like they are having a good time and joke with the people. A fair amount of flirting goes on, with the girl occasionally showing off her body by dancing around for a bit. Again it's all free at this point. Of course you don't get to see the girl nude. You only get that if you pay money to get tokens and take the girl into private chat. Where it's just you and the girl and she'll get nude and usually masturbate with toys. This part is negotiable and as a paying customer, you are allowed to make requests, which can be refused. I've spoken with certain models for example who say that they refuse to do anything anal (naturally not all have this prohibition). I have paid money exactly once ever on this site. The amount was about $40 for about 6 minutes of private. Do I regret it? I'm not sure. Was it expensive? yes. for only 6 minutes it was. Was the girl beautiful? Absolutely. She had a great personality and I had talked to her several times prior. You see a lot of these webcam models aren't just selling their bodies, they are chatting with guys like me and making us feel wanted. As has been said by others (including webcam girls commenting) they are selling a fantasy. Do I resent them for it? No, I understand that they are just doing their job. And that they will keep doing it as long as someone keeps paying them. | ||
| I signed up to be a webcam girl once got all set up and so forth, but the first night i had to do it I couldn't. Didnt like the fact I had to hustle. But one thing about it is that its better than being a stripper (they have to touch and look at the men they stripping for) as least in webcam u just watch yourself like a mirror so u can kid urself that no ones there and u get paid for it and u may have to type sexy things but who cares i do it all the time anyway on msn for free lol. | ||
| I think that it is a personal choice, if you do not like it, do not look at it. I am interested in becoming a webcam girl but only because i think it will be fun and I think (since I am married) that it will be a fun kinky thing for my husband and me to particpate in. (coming up with an alternate personality, letting him pick out lingere, etc...) This type of debate is nothing more than some people trying to be politically correct or trying to push their opinions on to someone else. The only comment I can make about watching porn or adult related content is whn an individuals choice thusbands or wives start using it to replace their significant other but, then again, this is not an issue of the porn but rather an issue of respect of each other (if you know what I mean). You do not hear opinions voiced so much about other job professions so why all the talk about webcams and such. As to the loss of dignity and self respect, that is just wrong to say. Does a lawyer who defends a rapist or child molester not lose his/her self respect and dignity? Does that not deserve more of an argument than this? The only way I would think a woman or man would lose these things online is if they were in a relationship that was forcing them to do it (this brings up a whole set of new issues). My point is, even with popups or spam, it is still any persons choice to look at and interact with the webcam girls (you can always delete the spam or close the popup) and it is also the webcam models decision, in most cases, to be a webcam model. We all have free will, right? Even if you do try it and do not like it, you can always back out. If you do not agree with the online adult industry, then just stay very much the h*** away from it. Chances are, if you are looking at porn and webcam girls, even if you are claiming otherwise, you probably went looking for the sites. My opinion is, if you like it, go for it. It is safer than working at a strip joint or bar anyways. | ||
| Has anyone looked into men becoming a chat host? There must be a good market somewhere...how about for gay or straight? Let's not forget, there are many men doing this too...and there are some women who will pay...and men pay too... | ||
| So I did read all the comments on the page, I defiantly agree that if you are of legal age and it’s your choice, and your only doing it to reach a goal or support some one (like children), it’s totally fine. I’m 18 years old, and I’ve been living on my own for a year and a half now, and to tell you the truth money is tight. With the cost of living vs. minimum wage ratio in my city, I can just make enough money to support my self working two jobs sometimes 6 or 7 days a week. You can imagine that that leaves very little time to pursue going to university for business (and money for the cost of that university). So I stumbled on this page looking for info about being a web cam girl. The way I see it is: I’m of legal age, I’m mentally stable, and I surely do not have self esteem issues. However, most of all I’m sick of the fact that I’ve been working at my minimum wage job for 2 and a half years now and I’ve gotten a 20 cent raise. Twenty cents, but I’ve seen some men that work there get promoted after 6 months. Or even better the other girls that I’m sure slept with the manager to get some raises. So being a webcam girl I know for sure that I can’t get a sexually transmitted disease, I can’t get raped or beaten, and I don’t have to do anything I don’t want to. So want is the harm. Hey for kikes and giggles it would be like I’m taking back the money that those men made more then me (most women get paid 75 cents to the male dollar for the same work). I’m not a feminist or anything I just think it’s ironic. Anyways if anyone has info about the subject, or if they have been there and done that please share the knowledge! | ||
| i dont think theres anything wrong in caming and sho3wing all i dont think its immoral to allow people to fantasize about you their gonna anyway, everybodys happy the grls who get paid the men who pay so whats the harm im tempted to go into it myself except im shy lol and i dont feel overly attractive. i have cammed before but it was a two way thing n i really liked him it was fun i enjoyed it i didnt feel dirty at all, it was mutual and actualy its a lot safer than going to a bar n pulling one night stands theres no fear of getting pregnant or stds so immoral i think not i dont have low self esteme but i am poor lol so if anyone has the info to get me into it well still unsure as to weather its for me but ill never know2 if i dont ask huh...on another not a guy said cam girls really listen and yes editor there paid to..doesnt everything have a price weather it be a wedding ring a car dinner or a mutual ear? point is cam girls provide a servises that even if its just someone to hear them men are willing and eager to pay so whats the problem? | ||
| Like most dudes, I went through the nightly motion to *ahem* fall asleep faster. I saw the link for webcam thingie, and i was curious, so i clicked the link etc. and there i was, looking at a girl just sitting there in her undies with a keyboard, looking bored as hell. Clicked over to a different one, and she was laughing and chatting away. So now i'm like wtf, and i keep clicking to see what the next person is doing. In those moments i was a bit confused, quite polar opposites, some had sincere laughs, others had very sad faces, other people were in between. I lost all sexual urge and was compelled by curiousity. On my end, I live with a stripper (i don't really lke her as a person, so i view her in a negative connotation), and i've asked her about it. She hates "the pigs" that come in, but likes the easy money. I figured the webcam thing has to be pretty much the same right? She has a large distrust of men now in general, and seems to have commitment issues, especially with her douchey guys she likes so much (the chase). Can anyone who is in adult entertainment, albeit webcam or hardcore log jamming, anonymously share their deep and honest to god emotions, specifically regarding your viewing of the opposite sex after doing the cams/movies? | ||
| I think the girls that cam are pretty damn smart. I also think most of them are probably more mentally, financially, and emotionally stable than a good majority of the people who oppose what they do. Just don't expect any money from me, girls. Sorry, but I'm a poor college student :( lol. | ||
| I am considering the occupation as an on/off casual job. I have been on webcam for many years, since I was quite young- but never officially as a job. I used to do it fairly reguarly but then quit for a couple of years also. I enjoy porn. I also enjoy living life and going out with my friends. I have a life. I admit that as a young girl, I did have problems with self-esteem and have had experience with sexual assault. But although I do not view them as 'positive' experiences, I do believe that I have grown from my past. The world is not black and white. There is lots of grey. Webcam models do not 'demean' women. Real feminism is respecting the choices of other womens, if you wanted equal rights then there you go, the right to make your own decisions. Although I don't believe it to be a healthy way to 'boost self-esteem' or 'overcome traumatic experiences', Self worth is more than just a healthy body image, it's also about being comfortable with who you are. I have a personality, I know my passions, my strengths and my weaknesses, I don't need a man to validate me. When it comes to the world of sex, I do believe there are double standards, I see no uproar about male pornstars or male webcam models. (There are a number of them). Webcam modelling should not be forced or should be entered thinking its a solution to poor self worth. But I can't really see many reasons I agree with that go against a healthy woman dressing up, popping on some eyeliner and lippy for some extra dosh. | ||
| well im not sure what to make of it im supposed to be getting married this yr and i just found out my man has been paying for webcam girls i dont blame them i just dont understand why men pay for these girls especially when they have a sexual woman its devistateing to the wives and partners of the men that watch these girls | ||
| I often wonder about the women who act like porn is so wrong. They are usually the ones who aren't attractive enough to make any money at porn so they are jealous that another woman can support herself by taking off her clothes. Either that or else they have had bad experiences with men in the past and so it's hard for them to imagine that a woman can actually enjoy taking her clothes off for men who want to see them. To my knowledge I've never met a woman who was against porn that didn't fall into one of these two groups. I have one female friend who I love more than anything in the world. She is easily attractive enough to make money taking her clothes off but she falls into group number two. She's had bad experiences with men in the past and has become a man hating feminist. She always talks about how disgusting men are for looking at porn and how degrading it is for women. She can't accept that some women not only don't think it's wrong, but actually enjoy it. Furthermore, she won't ever place any blame on women, She acts as though all women are in porn because men made them go into porn. Now, I don't mind. I love this woman to death and I don't think that she should take her clothes off for money. But she takes off her clothes for every guy that she dates. She has never dated a guy who hasn't seen her naked. Frankly I fail to see the difference here. She doesn't love these guys. In fact, some of them she really doesn't like at all, yet she not only allows them to see her naked, she lets them touch her. And for free! Personally, I think being a "cam whore" is a little more honorable than being a real whore, which, let's be honest here, if all a guy has to do is buy you dinner to get you naked, that's what you are. Yet this double standard exists everywhere. It's fine for a woman to disagree with porn. But if she thinks that it's degrading to all women, or if she believes herself to be better, yet strips on the first date, I'm afraid she's just plain wrong. | ||
| Ive never really shown my nude body on cam, but I have chatted intimately. Lots of guys I meet call me a prude cuz I wont go all the way. I think my webcam chat has corrupted me in a way, a few years ago I would have never done any of this. I have to wonder what made me want a cam in the first place, to show off I guess? To explore? I used to be really shy. I guess I never realized how impersonal and detached web chat can be. smiling fondly at a cold, empty screen, after awhile yyou feel like you are talking to a robot or a dialougue box. I havent gone that far, but I already feel like "crap, I really shouldnt have done that" cuz even in an intimate chat, people have special software they can use to film. some even use a camcorder. IDK...wish girls would reconsider before even purchasing a webcam. "is my own personal judgement really that good?" "Will I be tempted to do what this guy asks me to? He seems nice, Right?" WRONG Ive been a fool to post myself...Why should I be just another slice of meat for men to gaze at? Why should I need their approval? I dont hate myself for what I did, I guess it was a learning experience and maybe I can warn others. | ||
| I LOVE TALKING TO WEB CAM GIRLS......YOU CAN TELL THEM ANYTHING YOU HAVE ON YOUR MIND...........AND THEY LISTEN..... (Editor's notes: ....because you pay them....) |
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| You know I see these people in society and they are all fakes. I became a webcam girl when m mother was in the hospital for 2 years and because of the seriousness and situation I was unable to maintain a "normal" job. I was hired for a job and of course saying that I had to miss 6 of 7 shifts do to surgeries wasn't bought. Too bad it was the truth. But at the end of the day spending my time in a hospital wasn't paying my bills. I had to support my child as I was a single mom, and when my mom did come home she needed 24 hour medical attention and my father couldn't afford to quit his job. So I worked from home as a cam girl supporting my sibling, child, and parents, while taking care of my ailing mother. Do I have low self esteem no, am I stupid, no I put myself through college (as a single mom working 4 "normal" jobs). I didn't see much of my child though, because I was at work or school all the time! I CHOOSE to now stay at home with my now two children and work as a cam girl. I have started a "normal" company, but guess what it doesn't happen overnight, so I need to pay bills. So please tell me, this makes me imoral and disgusting, why? But you tell me the moral people are guys I date, who really in the end just want to get laid? At least I am getting paid and there are no false realities with camming. Do I see the people, no, do I offer sex or ANY other services, NO. I was paid $142 for a guy to look at my feet and dirty shoes, so that makes me stupid? What privacy did I lose? Or the moral one would be the church going slut from my ex's work, who started sleeping with my man on his desk at work, because he wasn't getting the "love" he needed from me, because I was at the hospital. Yes she knew we owned a house together, he knew he was the step-father to my child, yes she knew my mom was dying and that I was at the hospital. So she is the moral one, because she took my man, leaving me with bills to pay and a family to support and I CHOOSE to do web camming so I could be there for my entire family? Please if anything the guys who say they love you to get laid, or the church going sluts who pretend to be all good at church, only to go out and sleep with whomever they can are the imoral ones. Sorry my opinion. | ||
| Futher to the story...To add to things. the reason I had to work 4 jobs while going to college, because I didn't stay on welfare after having my child. The girl in my class got her, car, apartment, childcare, education, books and spending money from the government, so she went onto more classes, well because why not. You kow who helped her pay, ME! Because I worked and didn't go on welfare, that's nice. They told me I couldn't even get a LOAN, because I had too much experience and was TOO qulified, yes to make $10/hour I didn't want to make $10/hr for the rest of my life. So she deserves more respect then me? I too worked in a bar, to help pay the bills, and could work it around school. I had to flirt and all the rest. I decided it wasn't worth it anymore when a drunk guy pulled my shirt down. Doing that deserves more respect? (Not that I am saying waitresses don't work hard because I know they DO!) I also was hired at 25 to take over my department, making alomst $50K a year after I paid for childcare and all other expenses assoiciated with going to work (which because of where I live and the hours) would mean I was gone from my kids 60 hours a week. At the end of it I would take home $140/mnth to pay my bills... Instead I CHOOSE to stay at home, go to my childrens functions, volunteer, make them breakfast, lunch and dinner EVERY DAY and work as a cam girl, until I can pay to get my business going and work my "normal" job. Sorry I don't see how that makes me scum of the earth. I also have other cam friends who because of it take their children on trips that not many single moms can afford and have managed to start their own "normal" companies because of the income and time that they had. We all work out of the privacy of our own homes and have no one dictate our hours, vacation time, sick time or the rest. And YES we DO pay TAXES on our income! | ||
| Oh yeah and I have more respect for myself as a cam girl, then my would have been mother-in-law (and all others like her) that only date rich men, because they want those men to support their dream lifestyle. At least I am willing to work for it myself. Thinking of it, even the church going slut who took my man was living with her parents, driving the car supplied by her parents and her parents within two months of dating my ex were talking of him marrying her. And asking why he would be buying a new car, when he should be thinking of buying them (her and him) a house and supporting her. Yup lots of respect goes out to them, who just want to live off others. So everybody can take their own opinions and live with it. If you don't like porn, then DON'T buy, watch and subsequently support porn. If you do, then use it. Just like anything else, if you don't agree then don't partake. It truly is that simple. But just because it isn't what you would do, don't make judgements and ssumptions about others just because they do. | ||
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| Generally, I believe in adults being able to do whatever they want to do. However, after reading the posts here and visiting some sites, I think there is a very bad side to the industry. Seems that some sites have studios that exploit underage Asian girls. I think its pretty nasty to do that. Seems that some sites have girls that exploit guys with stories of 'how poor i am' and keep spending your money on me (so that the studio makes a nice profit). For independent girls and mature guys, it's harmless enough, but as with any industry there are some pretty sorry victims. | ||
| I want to become a webcam girl because well, for one i think it would be fun, and it would also really help my husband and i get a strong hold on our money situation. I've searched up and down for good legit cam girl sites, and i'm not sure where to start, tried to send an email to one of the women on this site saying to go for it, she'd been doing it for a couple of months or something, anyway, it failed to deliver, so if anyone has any info on getting me started, my husband and i would be forever greatful. :) Oh, and no, i'm not emotionally unstable or anything like that any more than any other person who is alive today. | ||
| Although I am not a webcam girl I have been working in the adult industry for 4 1/2 years. I am happily married, have a graduate degree in Theatre Management from DePaul University and have no sexual or "father" issues. I have never used drugs recreationally since high school and I have never had sex with a customer. The reason I bring this up is to say that you can't judge a person or an industry if you don't know what you're talking about. Sure, it's easy to say that revealing yourself, emotionally and physically is letting go of your dignity but I think dignity is a personal boundry. I don't believe I have "lost my dignity" when I remove my top. The only people being exploited in these situations, for the most part, are the silly customers who spend all this money on fake "fantasies" of women they will never obtain. | ||
| Wow. I think it's pointless and very illogical to criticize a group of people who do they're work for different reasons, different companies, and different pay. There are different types of cam porn and until you've been there and you actually know what you're talking about, instead of talking about women who "don't value themselves" and who are just taking they're clothes off and demeaning themselves, actually educate yourself because bashing women who choose to do this line of work only pinpoints your ignorance and narrow-mindedness. And also, there are plenty of "cam girls" who do not have any emotional problems to deal with and there are plenty of women who aren't in this line of work who do. So please, next time before you give your opinion or input on someone else's comment, make sure it's an intelligent one. | ||
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| Ofcourse i think girls will have the best payout when she will work on her own. In case of a new webcam program that is just started, they will be verry happy with webcam studios to get manny performers in one time to there own page. Mabey you can take a look at xt247.com a good example, manny visitors to this website, they cannot offer the clients more webcam girls because they dont have the contacts. The pay a nice fee to good performing presenters, maybe a suggestion? | ||
| This is a profession that I really want to get into. Roughly how much do you girls make?I have to wait until I move out of my family home and back into uni accomodation but I would love to know what people are trustworthy etc...help a girl out! x | ||
| Can any web cam girl here suggest the best site. My Romanian GF is going it alone after working for a 'studio' for a mere $100 a month. She has just started on LiveJasmine and has the paperwork ready to join Streamray. In my opinion, Streamray are the best and have the lion's share of the market. Would any experienced girls agree? If you want to make money as a cam girl then work for yourself. Best advice. | ||
| I am currently a webcammodel. I started about 2 1/2 months ago, and I LOVE it! If you are not afraid of being nude in front of the cam..this is definately something you should try. I work for the site with the HIGHEST traffic. This assures that there are ALWAYS customers ready and waiting for you. Let me explaina little how it works. You start in what we call "free teaser chat". You are fully clothed her and there are MANY members here talking to you. You are the only person on cam...you cannot see them...they can only see you. The customers have the option to take you into Prvt chat. In private chat....is where the "show starts. Customers pay by the minute in private chat. It is only you and the person that took you to prvt in this chat. No other members are allowed. You are not asked to do anything you are not cormfotable with. Just make sure you are honest in free chat when a customer asks you what you are willing to do in prvt. Some customers will ask for things that you are not...this is fine....there are MANy things that I will not do. This doesnt effect your earnings at all...so dont worry. There are PLENTY of customers that want what you are willing to do. Member can also join your fanclub. You get paid for this ONTOP of your pay per minute. There is also what we call "nude chat". Member aslo pay by the minute here. The difference between nude and private is that in nude...many members can join (ALL paying the per minute rate). Soin nude...you can make more money since more than one customer can be in the room, and they will all pay the per minute fee. Nude hcat is less personal for the members since others are able to join...many members will only want prvt...which is GREAT too! They all make you money. You set your own schedule..which is awesome for me, since i have a child. I work after he is in bed for the nite. I am averageing between $200-$350 a nite working 3-5 nites a week. So as you can see...there is GREAT money to be made here. I am not a pro...I just started a couple of months ago. It is actually quite simple! All you need is an open mind....a great personality...and a webcam....if you have these three things....you are golden. If you are interested....or even ready to get started...send me an email..and lets make you some money! Your profile will be set up for you...and we can have you set up and ready to go the same day we get the info we need from you....and someone will be ready and waiting for you if you have any questions. We dont just shove you out either...we will help you set up or camera...make sure everything is working ok...so what are you waiting for? Take it from someone who knows...this is one of the best opportunities you will ever have!!!! | ||
| You know my story ? Is that a general statement or do you really know me ? That would be somewhat ackward as not many people know everything about me and those who know usually don't go to this type of website. But, is this message for me or for the other Romanian girl who said she lived in Africa and then to London ? | ||
| I'm just now getting started in the whole webcam thing, I've spent a few months making this decision, actually. through adolesence I was very questionable about god and religion experimented with some drugs and different trends but have always stuck to my roots of me bein priceless or something. I think most girls are doing it because, its cool now, they like the attention, having the guts and the body, not to mention the techiques of web cam sex. I had my first show the other day.. and it's not that big of a deal as many of what I used to consider myself femininst thinks. Just as for many of us to build up that first time.. lost of innocence meaningful and special, there's no meaning behind it anymore. Birthcontrol doesn't help this either. My reasons behind doing what I am doing are based on being ripped between college, and not havign credit nor a co-signer that will help me out and financial aid is not avaible for online students which makes it impossible to pay the other bills too. it's quick money and in the meantime learned how to please myself. Due to birthcontrol issues I went through a miscarriage and have no reason to try to have kids when this world is so messed up by people who try to brainwash you that the flesh more than what it is, it's not.. I feel that web cam sites will help limit the pregnancies, std's and who knows even rape. These men are coming to us to get off, and they could be doing it in a non inviting manner. It's not necessarily loss of respect, dignity, or even pride I lost that the moment I realized that everythign sunday school taught me and everything society feeds into your head about dreams and hope and so on, trust. lol just lies, or Disney always being a happy ending as long as kids are feed the bullshit the harder they will fall, and the longer the spiral will just keep on getting more desensitized to the world peace bulllshit. As you people define self respect, what about confidence huh? Just as the action of love, like I like being called names that most would be offended by, just as a expression these world that you people, who thing oh GOOD oh that's BAD there is no right or wrong and I don't understand how you can place self respect and connect to actions that ya may disagree on and title as a sin, which most of still question. Ask yourselves a question, have you tried.. if not you cannot knock it just like anal, no pregnacy some into it some not... anyhow the point is that you can fight to keep women's clothes on or help women no even not forgive a man who cheats, or keep from being beat, but if she can make that money without having to have an emotional attachment, such a web cam sex, or modeling how is that bad, it's smart in my opinion. | ||
| Romanian Girl - please email me. I know your story. | ||
| iv just decided i want to be a webcam girl but have not got the first clue how to go about it, if any1 would be kind enough to give me some advice i would be most greatful ,id like to no the difference to doing it and setting it up myself or going with a regesterd company which one would benfit me most thanks to whom replys x | ||
| Hey I am a Webcam girl and live in USA. Its good money and it pays the bills and if I dont like the customer or like what they want I block and disconnect. Some of the fantasies make me laugh most of them r pretty normal and then u have ur regulars who end up chatting more then anything sexual after a few visits. Its great and I have no shame. It is 2007 and after all a womans body and what she does with it is her perogitive LOL | ||
| You know, it is annoying to have people talk down about us camgirls. I gave up more dignity and self-respect working at a straight job in a bookstore with a lecherous manager. On my webcam, *I* alone make the rules, I decide my limits, I am the boss of me, and no one else. Like any other business, you choose who you work for. I work independently because I don't like, fit in to, nor WANT to fit in to the porno-driven sexual stereotypes presented by the mega-sites. I don't rake in the cash but I do well enough, especially for a part time job for FUN. Did it ever occur to you we ENJOY this? Personally? I find it fufilling to discover peoples interesting quirks and desires - I specialize in fetishes. You aren't doing anyone a service by telling us we give up dignity or self-respect. I have plenty of both, thank you. Privacy comes when I shut off the cam, just like anyone coming home to be alone. | ||
| i'm also a webcam girl, also from romania haha, but i haven't lived there for a long time, lived in africa for a while before moving in london. also probably emotionally.... unstable?but i always think, isn't everyone? hmmm.... twisted. also for similar reasons to the other romanian webcam girl poster. anyway, i think getting naked and/or touching myself in the comfort of my own bed beats waking up at 6 in the morning to take a train for 2 hrs {if they're working properly haha} to go work for/with some power tripper for much more hours & less money. i've tried that too and it made me extremely stifled & depressed & with no life, i felt. with webcam work, i have free time to pursue other creative interests, non-sexual ones ;) & enjoy life for a bit. it's only a temporary thing, but for me eveything is. {it's the same for everyone, no?} | ||
| From my point of view based on what Ive read here.. Its the men whom support this industry of camgirls. I myself have been to many cam sites and became addicted to it.. I couldnt get enough.. I became involved with a camgirl as a regular client for a very very long time.. I had to take out a home equity loan to pay my credit cards down.. So I accept my own undoing.. My question to the camgirls that could help me is this. The girl I became involved with. I wont say what country. Told me she loves me and im so different than the other guys because Ive been in her nude chat and treat her with respect and never make her undress. She said most of the men that go there to see her are idiots and make her do things she doesnt like. So that being said. Do you think Im being scammed or is she being truthful to me. She said she wants to visit me here in the USA as weve discussed marriage. Those are my comments, And my question to any camgirls that can offer some input to my situation.. Thank You | ||
| Dear editor,
Yes, being raped does mean being sexualized but 18 is not an early age for that. How many 18 year old virgins who are mentally sane, smart, normal individuals do you know ? LOL
The average age to start sexual life is around 13 for boys and around 15 for girls. 18 is definately NOT an early age.
And yes, I believe you never looked at a porno webcam before. If you did, you would have known that part of them actually are NOT porn at all. The Shy or Non-Adult categories strictly forbid the webcam hosts to even pose in an indecent position or take her/his clothes off. I wonder what these guys here who post against webcam girls think about a girl who sucks your money away just talking to you, hehehehe.... not even showing you her bra ! She is in the non-adult category, she does not undress under any circumstances....yet, the , sorry to say so, idiots still pay to chat with her and drool over their keyboard beggind all the time... oh, I wish you were in the adult category, could you please, please, show me something ?!!!!! even when they know for sure she will never do that because if she does, the site just kicks her out for breaking the rules. How do you call that type of girl, can you tell me ? Isn't she making money the same way as the other one who shows some part of the body to the guy who is paying? I wonder how can you people make the difference ... (Editor's notes: Meh, whatever.) |
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| I was somehow curious to see what reaction the story I shared caused here. Too bad many of you still did not understand much. Note to the editor: you did not read correctly. Simple math would have told you that I have not been "sexualized at an early age". In 1995, when it happened I was 18 and still virgin. Due to my family I had a very strict upbringing and I was terrified of starting having sex before being "safe", meaning "adult" . I was still told by my father that " as long as you live under my roof you go by my rules".... which was no sex before marriage, no boyfriend before you go to college and all that crap. Honestly, I was a little bit hormonally delayed, as I did not have too many sexual thoughts , I was still a tomboy at that age. Imagine being triple raped under those circumstances. I assume I don not have to describe to anyone here the consequences of that. You really believe you are stigmatized, dirty, horrible and nobody will ever like you or love you. And , guess what? It happenes that you stay in your home, where NOBODY CAN TOUCH YOU, and someone is paying to see you and tell you that you are beautiful all day long !!!
People, stop being hypocrites. Any of you would like to be paid just to be told he/she is beautiful. And to the one who asked " How is being a web cam girl any different than being in a porno? "... I have a very simple answer for you : As a webcam girl you don't have a d*** in your back entrance !!! You sell IMAGE and WORDS, not your body. How much clearer than this do you want it explained so you finally understand and stop blaming ? Hypocrites. Many of you who point the finger at us would have your eyes popping out staring at us on the webcam if it was for free. Take a look deep down inside yourself, be honest with yourself and then tell me I am not right. Dixit ! (Editor's notes: I've never looked at a porno cam in my life, and being raped would certainly qualify as being sexualized...) |
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| dam man how do i find a good site to hire webcam girls everything that i find is crap please help me someone | ||
| I am thinking of becoming a camgirl and NO i do not have low self steem I just think it would be a great way of making easy money I do not have emotional problems | ||
| How is being a web cam girl any different then being in a porno? Your getting paid to have some sort of sex either way. No matter what your oppinion is though, the last thing we need is more rights taken away. Fo r better or for worse do not take away our rights!! | ||
| Scenario.... single mom, 3 children, works full time for a wonderful company, been there for over seven years. She is beautiful, adores her children, has plenty of self respect, self esteem, not lacking in 'mental stability'. But.... she recieves no child support to take care of her three children. She does it on her own. There have been times that she has had to get a second job, waitressing in bars, solely because after she gets off from her day job she needs to work somewhere that stays open later so she can make extra money. At the bar guys come in they hit on her, they flirt with her, they pay her, they tip her well, she has to be pleasant (she is there for the tips) they return when she's working, they request to be in her area at the bar. The regulars feel a 'bond' or connection with her because they see her so often. She gets asked out constantly. But... when her goal of saving enough money to move herself and her children to a nicer neighborhood is reached after three months, she quits and doesn't miss the money (she reached her goal), she certainly doesn't miss the drunk men.
So if the need arises to set another goal (the motor goes in her only form of transportation). And she dreads going back to the bar that takes her away from her children at night, is it really that awful bad for her to get online as a cam girl, reach her goal and get out? Just because these men may view her as an object of sex or fantasy, doesn't mean that is how she views herself. Nor does that mean that she has no self respect. At the bar, the men touched, flirted face to face constantly. At home online, there is no face to face, they flirt with an attractive and intellegent woman, they can ask her to do things, if she is uncomfortable she doesn't do it. But she is able to get home from work, cook for her kids, help with homework, visit, not miss the concerts for the sixth grade band at night, she is still a mom, and when she puts her kiddos to bed, she is able to make some extra money to reach her goal. Is that really so bad? (Editor's notes: No, there's nothing wrong with it. But clearly there are people posting here who were and are being exploited because of their emotional problems...Honestly it's the idiots who are willing to pay to view these cams that are the ones being exploited...) |
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| Being a cam girl is a good way to make money from the privacy of your own home. It is alot of times single mothers like myself who embark on such an adventure. We are not the spawn of satan nor the downfall of all humanity. We are simply mothers who love our children and refuse to be confined to the mundane lifestyle of a 9 to 5 job. We work for our money and most of us even file our income with the IRS. My ex husband just so happened to be a MAJOR porn addict ... and I had a temporary moment of insanity where I blamed the adult entertainment industry. However the adult entertainment industry did not force him to watch cam girls, subscribe to porn sites nor seek the companionship of escorts. It is not my fault that some men do not have the "will power" to not look at porn or seek temporary sexual relief. Why do people feel that everything they can't resist should be outlawed? Is it a demeaning job? Yes, to some it is. The majority however does not feel this way. Some men look for cam girls because they want "real" interaction with a woman but have no desire to cheat on the wife, spouse or SO. I am a web cam girl, a phone sex actress, escort and adult model. The only one of my jobs that I would argue the morality of could possibly be the escorting ... But I stand firm in my beliefs that any woman can choose to take advantage of any profession that she chooses. As long as she is doing it of her own free will and can sleep at night without feeling disgusted with herself. (Editor's notes: But as posted by several other cam girls here, it seems that they are not necessarily acting of their own free will...) |
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| Hey, I'm an on/off cam girl, it's great, I can make money when I want to, and when I need to, i've also made a few friends, i know its weird, but they're just lonely old men, not sickos. I don't respect ppl who are into that stuff thou, they're pathetic, if they want to watch me get naked and parade around for £15 for 20mins, fair enough, but, they're not getting any respect out of it, just a show, and maybe some company. It's the viewers who lose, cam girls only win, as long as they know what they're doing, and do it for the right reasons. | ||
| Like Chris Rock said...the main job a father has to do is keep his girl away from the poll,and now it seems the webcam also....it makes me laugh when these girls say they do it to pay for studies becaue 99% its rubbish,they do it because they have low self worth and think this will help,it might do in the short term but your only papering over your emotional problems.Seeing yourself as some sort of sex object is not healthy at all.The real problem in this though has to be the demand for this by men.All markets are lead by theirs demands,as I once read someone type 'thank god for low self esteem' ,because thats what it is girls with low self esteem just looking for daddys attention | ||
| A couple of years ago before I became a cam girl I wanted to be a boy. Ok thats a really strange start lol. I thought I was too ugly to be a girl and so I started wearing boys clothes and had my hair cut. That really did make me ugly even though I hadnt been before(i'm not being vain, i'm actually very modest lol) I was very depressed and was sure no one would want to be friends with me because I was so ugly. I started cam-ing because I was addicted to habbo - a game website and I wanted to buy some furni on this game. A guy told me he would buy me some furni if I took off my top on webcam. This progressed until I was earning money instead. I never made much money, the problem being I was too young to be accepted into a legal camgirl site. But don't judge me because I'm young. Just read this. I used to love being a camgirl - all the guys told me I was beautiful etc. I started to dress better and wear make-up. I'm now a completely normal girl. I carried on being a cam girl for a long time, a couple of years. Obvioulsy because I wasn't protected by a website I met alot of scammers. At the start I didnt know to make them pay beforehand. You can guess what happened. I think they thought that because I was young they could cheat me. That started to happen more and more. They were pushing me further than I wanted to go. I started feeling ugly again but this time it was worse because I felt dirty and my friends kept telling me I was doing something really wrong. I couldnt go on msn because all these men would start talking to me. A couple of them started to look up details about me on the interent and some found my home address. I was always scared for my little sister and started martial arts to protect her. I think if it is handled properly and safely then cam-ing can be an easy way of getting money. But I also want to warn any underage girls who are thinking of trying it; to wait until they are old enough. Seriously, I'm 15, I'm not a sicko, I was pulled into it. Now, whenever I find someone who pervs at young girls, I get so angry and I really want to do something about it. Being a cam girl can be really dangerous, it messes with your mind and you can start to feel worthles. Occasionally I still think about going back but I dont want to get into it again. When its illegal, its awful. Always being scared. You cant just walk away from it. (Editor's notes: What I'm getting from all this is it seems that many of these webcam girls have serious emotional problems. Hmm....) |
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| Hey, read the post by the romanian girl, just saying that i never saw it that way, and i'm really quite moved by her story. i'm so glad it worked out for her in the end but I'm quite sure there're quite a number of girls for whom things didn't work out quite so well (running into axe murderers or something). Cheers to ExWEBCAMHost! (Editor's notes: The main problem with her is that because she was so messed up as a child and sexualized at an early age, she sees sexuality as the only way to build up her self-esteem.) |
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| wtf pablo!!!!??????? this is not a fricken d8ing site! jeez!(i'm 11 and i'm still taller than u!!!!!!!!) hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha!!!!!!!!!!!!! nooooooooooooooooooooooobbb | ||
| THIS IS LONG BUT PLS, READ TO THE END. People... I have read all your comments and some make me laugh, some make me wonder how unrealistic some people who grew up in civilised parts of the world are ! I am 29 ,born in Romania and I can honestly say that webcaming was one of the best things that ever happened to me ! It paid for my studies ( currently I have a BA in politcal Science and a MA in International Law ) , it enormously raised my self esteem and it got me out of the Eastern Europe. I came from a relatively poor family and I was the virgin victim of a triple rape in 1995. (Yes, now I can talk about it even though it took me 10 years to deal with it and admit what happened to me) As you can imagine, after such an event my self esteem was so low and I felt so "impure" that I truly believed nobody will want to touch me or love me, ever. I lived with that thought for years, falling into the other extreme, becoming a sex addict, trying to overcome that feeling. It was VITAL to see that men wanted me sexually, this was the only thing that was feeding my self esteem and was telling me that despite what happened, I was not seen as "dirty" or "impure". That lasted for a while but inside I was still feeling the same. I stopped that kind of life when I fell in love and started living with my bf back then , also got into University and I became a nice, monogamous girl :) As a student in 2000 in Romania, with asolutely no support from my parents or my bf's parents we had to work, but it was not possible as I was studying Physics by then and I had to attend all the lab classes etc. It was very hard, I was working all holidays and weekends and as you can imagine, the money we made as students for part time work was barely covering living expenses. Imagine we were living with about 50$ a month. Food expenses were somehting like 5$ a week, and I remember many times counting coins to buy yoghurt or cutting a mid sized potato in two so we could have food for two days. In 2001 after seeing an ad in a newspaper, with my bf's agreement, I started to work, first in the non-adult section, as a webcam model for a studio. There was a very nice atmosphere, most of the girls were students or single mothers. The mums were mostly working during the day shifts and the students during the night shifts. We were paid 25% of the money we made, so the studio was keeping 75% but we were so happy ! The first month I made 500$, that was ten times more than what we were both making per month until then !!! And all I had to do was to chat to people and smile !!! And I could go to school too! IT WAS GREAT !!! Soon I started also helping my parents and everything was going great. Then the studio was "invaded" by policemen one day with claims of prostitution ( even though, except the owner, there was NO MAN in the whole building, ever, LOL !!! ) bla bla. The studio was shut for a month but when they re-opened it they changed the management so all the student girls left as the new policy was "hire whoever, don't check the quality". I also left and started to do that on my own, from home, as I figured out the scheme. My bf was next to me and soon we realised we could make more money if we worked together. So we did but not in the "couples" section but in the Dungeon/ BDSM one. Many viewers wanted to see me tied up, spanked etc etc. As you probably know the speed of the webcam is very slow so you can not really spank someone for real and have that visible on the webcam , you have to so that slowly. Many times we were having serious pain stomach muscles from too much laughing, because some of the viewers requests were hilarious, we had so much fun.... ( Example: one viewer wanted to see us breaking eggs, others wanted to see me cooking, or other was pretending to be a knight saving me from the torturer -my bf - and we could also see him on his webcam fighting imaginary enemies in his house with a sword LOL, other was saying he was a dog and was showing us how he was chewing a table leg under the table, LOL, etc. ) So, we had fun and made a hell of a lot of money at the same time. I personally never judged any of these people. If these were their tastes and were willing to pay 4-5$ per minute for it, I had absolutely no problem with it !!! Of course I was doing a lot of sexual shows, dildos tools and toys, etc. but honestly, most of the money I made were out of words. Most of the viewers were fantasising about what they would have liked to do and were starting it and then I had to think fast , learn to think like them, and then type and type and type as fast as I could , making up the story, while they were caught in the fantasy and were abandoning themselves to it while they were doing whatever they were doing with their hands under the desk LOL. After about 2 hours and 250$ for me they were leaving happy :) I was happy too making that money with my head LOL LOL LOL So, now, reading posts here stating that webcam girls are giving up their "dignity, self respect and privacy" makes me really upset because I have never done anything on cam that would be against my will or my dignity. Self respect ? God, do you have any idea how much self respect I gained back having all those people telling me every day how beautiful I looked and how sexy I was and how they would die to spend a day with me ???!!! I was receiving marriage proposals at least once a week, LOL, and some were realy meaning it. This cured my after trauma lack of self esteem better and faster than any phychologist !!! Someone tells you that you are drop dead gorgeous and proves it by paying just to look at you.... of course you start beliving you are beautiful too !!! I don't know what this did for other webcam girls, but for me it did wonders and gave me my self esteem back. As about invasion of privacy... let's be serious. Is not like I had a webcam on 24 hours and I could not shut it down. I was showing ONLY WHEN and WHAT I wanted to show so.... how can you call that giving up privacy ????!!!!!!! Another good thing I learned from webcaming was the negociation techniques, perfected later in university courses and much later in real life LOL. It was also a good lesson of marketing and it really helps me even today as for few years now I exchanged the latex/leather suit with the business suit. And the last but not the least was the fact that due to webcaming and contact with western people I got out of Romania and I have absolutely no intention to return even if it joined the EU. no, I did not not marry a viewer :) I just chatted for long time with intelligent people who did not belong to my ex-comunist poor world and that made me interested in seeing how is outhere, in the civilised world. So I started travelling, discovering a whole new world, with different values ( not the amount of money, number of women and car brand like in Romania lol ) where I seemed to fit way better. It felt like home. opportunities started to appear soon and I moved to Western Europe, living and working there. Currently I am happily... engaged to a wonderful green eyed "viking" who knows all about this and helped me get over the old traumatic event. He fuly agrees that we owe the fact that we met to the initial webcaming ( he had never been a viewer but I was in the Western Europe due to webcaming experience ) and that this activity had a clear positive influence on my life. I am fully belive that this is a great way for mentally stable people to support themselves through study periods and get negociation and comunication skills. At the same time, due to my long tern experience in this, I advise all the chathosts to know WHEN TO STOP. Webcaming is a tool to reach your goals, not a goal itself. It helps you pay to complete your education but if you don't stop and keep doing it for the rest of your life it will eventually , take you over. I know girls who started at the same time with me and are still doing it today which tells me they never learned anything out of it. To me, it was a great learning experience that changed my life and I shall never be ashamed to say that this is how I paid for my studies, this is how I learned to advertise, negociate and communicate and this is how I opened my eyes to the civilised world. | ||
| send me info on how to become a cam girl...me and my friend are very interrested! | ||
| cam girls .. u cant judge em or blame em for what they do . we are not god | ||
| Porn is good, porn is needed, porn is what makes a feminists' camel-toe moist, even a hairy one!. So whats the problem? If porn wasn't paving the net it would be just be western government propaganda anyways. So lets say thanks to the wet beavers of those closet lesbians that all call themselves feminists. A bit of canoe-licking would do them some good for sure! And don't the asian girls have the long tongues for the job! My oh my! Send the sad feminists over, I can make them happy no matter that they are not good looking. Usually. Send the pretty ones too! | ||
| porn is my hobby. i would eat it if i could. webcam girls. my downfall no doubt | ||
| Cam girls can make millions. It just depends on how you market yourself. If you have enough time to spend, dedicting yourself to the internet and your 'fans' you can make boat loads of money.
I think porn feeds the monster that is inside of us. I use to think it was a good thing but look around the US and see how many people are getting raped and molested. Guys watch porn on the computer and then drift off into some lala land and then try to make their wigged out sick fantasies reality. Not ALL guys do this but it does breed more perversion. Perversion breeds perversion. Self control breeds self control.
There are a lot of people in the US that don't have much impulse control. Our lines of reality are blurred in our culture and I think people have a hard time keeping real and being moral.
It's hard to turn back now on the porn thing. An ounce of prevention is worth a lb. of cure. I think once you get started, it's like any other addiction, it's hard to stop. It takes more of whatever you're addicted to, to get the same rush. Perversions get more perverse and people continue to get sicker.
I would have never thought that America would have such a high rate of pedophiles. Dads, priests, the guy next door, whoever.. it wigs me out.
On one hand, we have so much. On the other hand we lack so much. We've become desensatized to so many things. So much sex, so much violence and such a lack of moral values. People living double lives.
It's a shame that in this day and age we aren't more consciously advanced. (Editor's notes: Anyone who goes and rapes someone because of watching porn has serious preexisting issues. It is not the fault of porn. People are responsible for their actions.) |
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| cam girls don't make that much, sorry...maybe in 2001, but now the market is saturated. don't believe everything you hear | ||
| My wife and I are interested in doing webcam porn for some extra money. Does anyone know how to get involved in it? Please email me and let me know (Editor's notes: Well it's not like it's hard. Register a domain, get a site set up with a hosting company, film yourselves naked, post on Internet...) |
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| I feel sick, i visited a web cam site, in listening to the conversation, the girls have software loaded on their computers, and are being monitored, are not allowed to speak openly. Willing or forced? They can't even ask for help without potentially getting into trouble. And who are they going to ask? A bunch of perv's who only see a pretty piece of plumbing sitting in front of them. She is no more than the flavor of the moment. God help these women in the eastern bloc/Asian countries like thailand. I can only hope that something could be done to end this inhumanity. How can any culture survive that does not value and honor women, motherhood, family. | ||
| Honestly when it comes to being a stripper and a webcam girl, the webcam girl (if whomever the site she works for is legitmate) has the upper hand. She'll never have to see the face of the people she shows to, is able to make extra cash whenever she feels like it and still have a normal life and job. As long as she's an adult, this is pruly a choice. It's saleing a fantasy, which is what swimsuit models do (victory secrets catalogs can be used for the same thing and those girls are considered better, why? cause they don't have sex....wait a min, neither do the webcam girls). If it's not your cup of tea, cool, then u won't be doing it. But some people sale themselves in ways to get up corporate ladder. People sale their dignity in other ways and others work hard but don't work smart. If it's not your thing, don't shame these girls, they're people too, just doing their job. It may be immoral, but it's not up to you to pass judgement. Not saying everyone should jump on to it and do it. As long as it's done safely, with consenting ADULTS (i'll stress ADULTS) it's none of our business really. | ||
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| I saw a video at Youtube called bristelgoodman. Is this what Martin is talking about? | ||
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| There is currently a webcam serial killer online who is thought to have taken the lives of several young people, both male and female. It has been suggested that the perpertrator might be young and attractive. The story is just emerging so who knows. They say the killer is remarkably good at gaining the confidence of his victims so avoid webcam strangers. There are (unsubstantiated) claims that the killings have been ignored or buried by a major internet company that stands to lose a chunk of its users. Be careful. | ||
| The start swinging the damn pendulum already - I've fucking had it with porn. | ||
| No matter how it's packaged, at the very heart of pornography is selling sex for money. This public (internet) debate reveals our values as a community towards this fact. If sex is sold like you would sell a car, our roles in relation to one another is immediately brought into question. If Monika (Tuesday, May 18, 2004) is a real life human being and her experience is authentic (which I have no doubt that this to be the case), her comments are symptomatic of the phenomenon, and deserves our sympathies. Her words seem genuine, and it is obvious that there is greater depth to her character as she is searching for greater meaning in life. If as a community we all say that pornography is good, money is good, period, then Monika, definitely does need to go see a shrink to straighten out her head. She needs to stop questioning this fact and get to the business of exposing herself for money. In the flurry of opportunities to get rich real fast what we would have resisted to do in more stabler times is tossed out in the necessity to change our roles in order to realize the potential gain. When the promises of wealth or the happiness that this wealth is suppose to create fails to materialize we feel duped and humiliated. On the other hand we may feel vindicated if the wealth does materialize. The Car, house, and clothes serve as justification for our decision. We almost feel morally superior for having made such a business-wise decision. There is no doubt about it- pornography is an industry, and like every business the only thing that matters is the bottom line. The notion of love, relationships and making love as the center act of our relationships is turned on its head. Sex has always been a valued act, and so is the right to work and make a living, but strangely combining the two flies in the face of our long held traditional values. The fact that some in our community would rather not think about the contradictions and just embrace pornography and say "fuck the prude." Pornography (sex for $$) has been around since the beginning of civilization, though it is protected in the U.S. under the Freedom of Speech Law, it serves a niche however expanding this niche may be. Pornography is a fact for all of us, but the mood of the Public regarding its influence on our society will change, and when the Public (not the niche) has had enough, the pendulum will begin to swing back the other way. | ||
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| I would like to know how do I become a online webcam girl? The whole nine yards, where men and/or women need to pay. How do I set that all up and get myself going?
Thanks
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| Would someone be kind enough to direct me to "legit" contacts regarding getting started being an "Internet Webcam girl". I've searched and searched for days and I'm skeptical of what's legit and what's a scam. Perhaps, someone with some experience in the business could direct me? Thank you for your time and consideration:) | ||
| I do web cam porn and love it. I make close to 6 grand a month while only working 4 hrs each day. Hey, it's easy money and I really don't care what people think of me. So that's my 2 cents on this subject. Hope all of you have a great day! | ||
| at certain site i do a certain job. not naming any names. its been a little while now and i still havnt got any phone calls or emails telling me exactly how much i will be getting payed for this even though i have left several emails to these people. forwarning to any girl planning to make her webcam fortune...know who youre dealing with and don't be fooled by an scandalous webcam company that is cheating thousands of young, beautiful and promising girls out of there money. we just want to afford to go to school !!!! don't risk your dignity if you think its not worth it. : ) | ||
| well thats what i read in a long boring magazine in a waiting room oh and i made a mistype i meant to say, most serial killers that kill women were addicted to porn sorry my mistake. | ||
| w00t w00t down with porn!!! its a fact that serial killers (the ones that kill women) were addicted to porn as a teen
(Editor's note: Prove this. Just because a certain subset of people are "addicted" to porn does not mean that everyone who views porn will become a murderer...) |
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| what the hell do war and soldiers have to do with web cam porn? Secondly web cam porn is just porn like strippers like all the stuff related. People fear it so they cry about it try to make laws against it. Just like pot its fairly harmless but boy are people scared of it. Dont let ours fears rule us. If girls A has webcam porn chat in house A how does that infringe on the rights of Women b in in house b. It doesnt there just affraid there husband or bf will look at it. Human nature females compete. Theres plenty of women going to male chathost too trust me I know I work in the field. people should worry about crap that matters. Like health care and tax money going down the drain, and being free. | ||
| If the girl wants to do it.. and no-body forces her to do it.. if its on her own free will.. then let her do it.. But if the a$$holes that force them to do it, try to, they should be hung! Hung = What should happen to Saddam Hussein! Honestly I didn't know who that Jessica girl was either.. but she was captured fighting for her country, and even thought i'm British, its abit f***ed up, that some prostitutes, are going on a webcam for a living, while Jessica is kicking people a$$es for them. Live Long And Prosper I Am What I Am! | ||
| "Editor's note: Most people are sexual deviants. They just don't admit it." That is more or less what I said...... | ||
| Pornography is actually a very good thing for society. It cuts down on voyeurism, rape, exhibitionism, and sadism because psychotic and neurotic people can just see it on their monitor or television rather than going out and hurting real people or hurting themselves. Thats why you have all sorts of fetish porn and bondage stuff. It's to satisfy these people that otherwise might be out committing illegal acts to get off. Trust me, there are more people with sexual deviations than you would think.
(Editor's note: Most people are sexual deviants. They just don't admit it.) |
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| You don't know who Jessica Lynch is? What cave have you been living in for the last year? As for the girls, who cares.
(Editor's note: A quick Google search has just shown me that Jessica Lynch was an American soldier captured in Iraq. And I'm supposed to care why? What about all the Iraqis captured/killed by the Americans? One American vs. thousands of Iraqis...You will also find that many Candians don't give a damn about the ridiculous wars waged by the US. Me included.) |
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| Go to the website of Lawrence Walters, Esq. Garrou, Westin, and Dewitt.
They set up the books for the entire industry. According to his math, these women make about 30 to 50k per month.
However, behind every one of them is a man. Every one of them should be prosecuted for Income Tax Evasion.
It's very sad to tell someone like Jessica Lynch, who only joined the Army to have money for college.
While she was getting shot at, and wound, these whores are "packing their noses" at the Bellagio.
(Editor's note: Who's Jessica Lynch?) |
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| I personally believe that they are very smart. Controversy aside, pornography is the most profitable thing on the internet. If they dont mind 'showing' themselves, and get payed well for it, then good on them. Beats welfare cheating. I dont, however, like the whole Pimp thing, and many sites 'hire models' and put them through a pimp system. | ||
| i dont mine pornography on the internet | ||
| "why those feminist groups are trying to ban pornography and things souch as this. They say it is demeaning for women. Doesn't seem as if the women doing it think the same." That's because they aren't thinking of the consequences for the rest of us. Just because some people commit suicide, does that mean it's good for all of us? (no jokes, please). Some people just don't give a crap about themselves. | ||
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| They should do what ever they want.. but.. its all the advertising that pisses me off... all of the porno industry. They completely took over the messenger service on the NT systems.. and all the spam..you wonder how they get your email... | ||
| I woud just back away and let them do what they want. The thing I am hung up on that is related to this is why those feminist groups are trying to ban pornography and things souch as this. They say it is demeaning for women. Doesn't seem as if the women doing it think the same. | ||
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